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[Jake_Sully]

I always had a thought that was you but with the actor's vibe and yours.. I didn't think he portrayed you accurately but hey, they always add the movie magic to make movie more than reality.

[guydesavoy]

Can I get that video from the queenraquela website or is there another link ?

[JaiDee]

(Jake_Sully @ Jun. 17 2010,21:31) I always had a thought that was you but with the actor's vibe and yours.. I didn't think he portrayed you accurately but hey, they always add the movie magic to make movie more than reality.

I looked nothing like that guy either, and never got any royalties!!

[transcebu]

(JaiDee @ Jun. 17 2010,21:22) Ya, I always thought she was way cool also, we met a few times but never had sex or anything.

 If you read the story about the making of Queen Raquela they mention the Icelandic film maker {Olaf} who made that movie; an excellent, highly intelligent and soft-spoken guy, she and him later had a relationship which didn't end all that well unfortunately.  The role of the NYC porno dude in that movie was modeled after yours truly and May with the huge tits from Bangkok also had a role as the phone-sex operator; she played herself in the flick, they got a REAL actor to do my role    


   T-cebu, have you tried to encourage some of your models, including Raquela, to come here and read and post??  Or would that potentially hurt your business by them cutting out the middleman and being able to meet the punters themselves? Would be great to have more girls like Alyssa and Tan and Statuesque hanging around here.

Have met with Raquela too and chatted a bit and really like her. She sat with some of my lb friends who were intimidated by her and really put them at ease with her gentle duck-voice way. She has a rare kind of charm without ever seeming self-serving. She does say that she doesn't want people to feel she is misrepresenting herself, she has put on some weight and lost some degree of youthful prettiness, but she's a person well worth meeting, and perhaps worth loving for someone.

Thanks for ur insights Jaidee, I knew a bit about Olaf and girls he's known. Perhaps not too unlike some of us but with more charm and talent. lol

I'm hesitant to invite girls here because I'm aware of some ongoing disputes about this forum being a place where girl's aren't alerted to discussions about them. So I'll play that by ear.

(edit): Oh, nah, I don't care about a middle-man, I'd encourage any girl I know to self promote if that's what they want. I just set this up coz quite a few girls asked me to help them find a bf and I thought this is a way to help. Maybe it will develop into a business, if so, fair enough and will allow it to expand and improve, but if it's money I want, I have other ways to make decent money, from this I make nothing and don't expect to. I hope it becomes a service my lb friends can manage and profit from and/or find the man of their dreams. FWIW, Raz has already been scooped up and fully in love with a nice Aussie guy so hosting duties only for her lads.

TC

[JaiDee]

(guydesavoy @ Jun. 17 2010,21:52) Can I get that video from the queenraquela website or is there another link ?

http://www.overstock.com/Books-M....2534624

Google is your friend!

They had links to 3 or 4 other sites who sell it as well.....

*Got first prize at the Berlin Gay Film Festival in 2008

[rxpharm]

(JaiDee @ Jun. 17 2010,15:22)    T-cebu, have you tried to encourage some of your models, including Raquela, to come here and read and post??  Or would that potentially hurt your business by them cutting out the middleman and being able to meet the punters themselves? Would be great to have more girls like Alyssa and Tan and Statuesque hanging around here.

JD, Raquela  did post here for a while, but unfortunately gave up after some conflicts with a few other posters. Her user name was Minerva and changed it several times to exotic names like Snejana, etc.

I don't think she would come back.

[JaiDee]

I vaguely remember that period, RX...... I remember the Russian names as well, kinda odd.

She is ummmmm, for lack of a better word, very 'independent'

[transcebu]

(rxpharm @ Jun. 17 2010,23:25)

(JaiDee @ Jun. 17 2010,15:22)    T-cebu, have you tried to encourage some of your models, including Raquela, to come here and read and post??  Or would that potentially hurt your business by them cutting out the middleman and being able to meet the punters themselves? Would be great to have more girls like Alyssa and Tan and Statuesque hanging around here.

JD, Raquela  did post here for a while, but unfortunately gave up after some conflicts with a few other posters. Her user name was Minerva and changed it several times to exotic names like Snejana, etc.

I don't think she would come back.

I know some PI girls who have posted here at times and found conflict.

I think it's a shame that there tends to be an animosity between transwomen and the people who are self-declared admirers. Too often, they see us as perverts and we see them as insincere.

Well, that's been the essence of man v woman for eternity, it's just a shame that we and them have such barriers in acceptance. A leading transgender activist told me that if tg's can be accepted, then all problems are solved, but I tend to think, that until men who love tgs cab be accepted too, then there there will remain big barriers. After all, tgs have accepted themselves and become open, but how many tg lovers can say the same? A few percent? We are seen as perverts, gays, weirdos by most, and often by the tgs we love.

TC

[f0xxee]

Hmmmm. I remember a lot of the conflicts on here being started by some incredibly sweeping generalisations and massive egos from some of the Cebuana and other PI ladyboys.

Note how well accepted Tan and Allysa are on here. They entered the forum with decorum. Built respect and have made a lot of friends and admirers.

Many of the the others came in with massive egos and bombast and picked fights with most of the punters. Telling people on messenger how wonderful you are might be ok, but on a public forum with a few high achievers around it is bound for ridicule.
Why did they act so? Well in my opinion having 1000 contacts in your messenger list telling you how beautiful you are tends to warp an otherwise unemployed and hopeless ladyboy into thinking they are a bit more special that perhaps reality would suggest.

[guydesavoy]

(rxpharm @ Jun. 17 2010,23:25) Her user name was Minerva and changed it several times to exotic names like Snejana, etc.

I remember snejana...maybe she used a different avatar. I'll go back I think I saw some in the Fish Box.

Google is your friend!

Thanks for that link JaiDee. Jake hooked me up with a more 'direct' route  

[transcebu]

(f0xxee @ Jun. 18 2010,05:35) Hmmmm. I remember a lot of the conflicts on here being started by some incredibly sweeping generalisations and massive egos from some of the Cebuana and other PI ladyboys.

Note how well accepted Tan and Allysa are on here. They entered the forum with decorum. Built respect and have made a lot of friends and admirers.

Many of the the others came in with massive egos and bombast and picked fights with most of the punters. Telling people on messenger how wonderful you are might be ok, but on a public forum with a few high achievers around it is bound for ridicule.
Why did they act so? Well in my opinion having 1000 contacts in your messenger list telling you how beautiful you are tends to warp an otherwise unemployed and hopeless ladyboy into thinking they are a bit more special that perhaps reality would suggest.

I think that's a pretty sharp observation fOxee.

I think another aspect is that some believe that if they can be accepted as women, then all of a sudden, the broad masses of pussy loving men will become potential lovers, the men they read about in novels and see in movies and they can leave behind us weirdos who actually like them for what they are.

TC - feeling somewhat cynical today

[Bumpa STIKKA]

(f0xxee @ Jun. 18 2010,05:35) Hmmmm. I remember a lot of the conflicts on here being started by some incredibly sweeping generalisations and massive egos from some of the Cebuana and other PI ladyboys.

Note how well accepted Tan and Allysa are on here. They entered the forum with decorum. Built respect and have made a lot of friends and admirers.

Many of the the others came in with massive egos and bombast and picked fights with most of the punters. Telling people on messenger how wonderful you are might be ok, but on a public forum with a few high achievers around it is bound for ridicule.
Why did they act so? Well in my opinion having 1000 contacts in your messenger list telling you how beautiful you are tends to warp an otherwise unemployed and hopeless ladyboy into thinking they are a bit more special that perhaps reality would suggest.

We have had a few great ladies who have posted here and who continue to do so.

But we've also had some hellish egotistical fools who think their shit doesn't stink.

They've got their world and we've got ours.

[Stewart]

(f0xxee @ Jun. 18 2010,05:35) Hmmmm. I remember a lot of the conflicts on here being started by some incredibly sweeping generalisations and massive egos from some of the Cebuana and other PI ladyboys.

Note how well accepted Tan and Allysa are on here. They entered the forum with decorum. Built respect and have made a lot of friends and admirers.

Many of the the others came in with massive egos and bombast and picked fights with most of the punters. Telling people on messenger how wonderful you are might be ok, but on a public forum with a few high achievers around it is bound for ridicule.
Why did they act so? Well in my opinion having 1000 contacts in your messenger list telling you how beautiful you are tends to warp an otherwise unemployed and hopeless ladyboy into thinking they are a bit more special that perhaps reality would suggest.

Interesting viewpoint

I read it completely the other way.

I loved the strong opinions of the PI girls, and I thought board members picked fights with them......not the other way round.

And I remember the sweeping generalisations coming from the board members, not from the girls....."all Pi ladyboys are shit" kind of stuff

[f0xxee]

I can understand your POV Stewart.

But I can't agree with it. Please don't see this an attack on your judgement, as I know your experiences with the PI girls has been different to mine, therfore its a given that we would see this differently.

I remember 1 x Cancer coming onboard blowing so much hot steam up her own arse she was insufferable. Full of ill thought and egotistical statements.

She got flamed by many, then came back a more humble individual and the forum was better for it. And possibly she was too. I still blame the long time I'm Live/Jasmine/Cam sex set for building them up more than they deserve and giving them ideas of their importance way out of proportion to their achievements in life.

But as I remember it you and a few others were always great lovers of the PI girls, where as I and a few others have had nothing but grief from them. Of course our view points will diverge with our experiences.

As I said, some are really great posters and welcome additions, some are only here to try to raise their profile and do so without manners, humility or even the basic understanding of who populates this forum, and even less respect for them. Do you think it is wise to walk into a forum loudly despising middle aged, balding fat cunts, when that is what most of us probably are? (Ok I got some hair.... )

You and I both know that forums are an ethereal version of any population. So joining a forum is like joining a new school, or club or workplace. Those who fit in best fit in QUIETLY....and then build thier unique place. THink Statuesque, Tan and Alyssa.... These girls are not only liked but respected.

As an aside young dickheads who have walked in here and gobbed off have suffered the same fate as Cancer and the like.

Perhaps what pisses some of us off is not the PI LB's as much as we dislike youth with arrogance that is unearned.

Just a thought.

[transcebu]

I think you're both right.

TC - Sits on fence