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Hope all you experienced Nana Plaza punters out there can help me with a question. I'm a hopeless butterfly man, in spite of (or maybe because of) the fact that I'm a hopeless romantic. What can I say? I love all the ladies (well, most of 'em, anyway). But it seems as if a lot of the Thai ladyboys have an issue with this, judging from what I read here on the forum. I'm not a total noob (just where Thailand and ladyboys/TGs are concerned, although I could swap a few juicy stories with Post-Op Lover), and I've only once ever encountered a working girl who got jealous. I had arranged a short-time liason with a lovely Mongolian girl in Harry's Bar in Honk Kong (I know there has to be a few of you that know where Harry's is, lol), and it was so awesome that when she suggested an overnighter for a reasonable additional fee, I was all for it (hottie + GFE + freak = LT!). We went back down to the bar for drinks and dancing first, and at one point she got really upset because she noticed I was admiring some of the many other lovelys from all over the world that hang out at Harrys. I was surprised and a little mystified
by this -- it never occurred to me that a sex worker could be jealous of a customer. I suppose it all has to do with maintaining face, a concept that I'm just beginning to grasp after several trips to Asia.
Anyway, as I'm planning an upcoming trip to Thailand and the PI in several months, and have read about everyone's adventures -- one Dummy Plug comes to mind -- I'm worried because it seems as if the BKK Ladyboys get upset with butterflies like myself. I'm just wondering, say for example, if I barfine one lovely in Obsessions one night, and we have a nice time, and I go back there the next night, and decide I want to play with someone else, is this going to be a big issue? Will I be marked as that one young lady's territory? Will I have to head to Temptations instead? How do you all handle it if it is a problem? And before anyone pipes up and says it, yes, I know, I'm paying for it, I'm the boss, etc., etc., I know this. But I don't want to upset the girls anymore than I have to -- yes, I'm paying them, but they're people too. I'm not a bleeding heart by any means, but as I say, I love 'em all, and I don't want to make anyone unahppy; I'd rather avoid any unpleasantness, if I can. Besides, I feel like I should mind my karma in a country that's 95% Buddhist -- seems like a good time to stick to the Golden Rule.
Of course, if the roles were reversed (if only it were true), I couldn't imagine being jealous of my customers. I'd like to hear from any of the girls that hang out on this board, too (specially you Cebu cuties
), if any care to chime in with their thoughts on butterflies.
-- 4:17
P.S. As this is my innaugural post on this particular forum, just want to say thanks for all the trip reports and great information and observations that the regulars here provide. Just can't find this stuff in Foders or Lonely Planet. Hopefully I'll be able to return the favor here before too long ...
Hope all you experienced Nana Plaza punters out there can help me with a question. I'm a hopeless butterfly man, in spite of (or maybe because of) the fact that I'm a hopeless romantic. What can I say? I love all the ladies (well, most of 'em, anyway). But it seems as if a lot of the Thai ladyboys have an issue with this, judging from what I read here on the forum. I'm not a total noob (just where Thailand and ladyboys/TGs are concerned, although I could swap a few juicy stories with Post-Op Lover), and I've only once ever encountered a working girl who got jealous. I had arranged a short-time liason with a lovely Mongolian girl in Harry's Bar in Honk Kong (I know there has to be a few of you that know where Harry's is, lol), and it was so awesome that when she suggested an overnighter for a reasonable additional fee, I was all for it (hottie + GFE + freak = LT!). We went back down to the bar for drinks and dancing first, and at one point she got really upset because she noticed I was admiring some of the many other lovelys from all over the world that hang out at Harrys. I was surprised and a little mystified
by this -- it never occurred to me that a sex worker could be jealous of a customer. I suppose it all has to do with maintaining face, a concept that I'm just beginning to grasp after several trips to Asia. Anyway, as I'm planning an upcoming trip to Thailand and the PI in several months, and have read about everyone's adventures -- one Dummy Plug comes to mind -- I'm worried because it seems as if the BKK Ladyboys get upset with butterflies like myself. I'm just wondering, say for example, if I barfine one lovely in Obsessions one night, and we have a nice time, and I go back there the next night, and decide I want to play with someone else, is this going to be a big issue? Will I be marked as that one young lady's territory? Will I have to head to Temptations instead? How do you all handle it if it is a problem? And before anyone pipes up and says it, yes, I know, I'm paying for it, I'm the boss, etc., etc., I know this. But I don't want to upset the girls anymore than I have to -- yes, I'm paying them, but they're people too. I'm not a bleeding heart by any means, but as I say, I love 'em all, and I don't want to make anyone unahppy; I'd rather avoid any unpleasantness, if I can. Besides, I feel like I should mind my karma in a country that's 95% Buddhist -- seems like a good time to stick to the Golden Rule.
Of course, if the roles were reversed (if only it were true), I couldn't imagine being jealous of my customers. I'd like to hear from any of the girls that hang out on this board, too (specially you Cebu cuties
), if any care to chime in with their thoughts on butterflies. -- 4:17
P.S. As this is my innaugural post on this particular forum, just want to say thanks for all the trip reports and great information and observations that the regulars here provide. Just can't find this stuff in Foders or Lonely Planet. Hopefully I'll be able to return the favor here before too long ...
Thats all great advice, too bad I made so many rookie mistakes last month 
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