Who married a Ladyboy? Or has LTR?

[PigDogg]

great posts Breaker!!

[Guest]

Excellent posts Breaker and Pilos. It would be a very special Thai that could be taken away from their Thai friends, food, culture and envirnoment and live happily ever after. Best chance IMHO would be living in Thailand with non-working LB or GG, embrace her friends and culture and hope you get respect over the long term.

[PigDogg]

I think when things are going great in life it's fun to play around. But perhaps when things aren't so good, let's say we're old and in poor health maybe it's better to have a companion that loves us.

If one doesn't want a long term relationship then true friends and family become even more important.

I think these concepts hold true east and west, girls or ladyboys.

[Guest]

i love my ladyboys until i cum

[Khuntibi]

@ Jaidee

Yes we are faithful to one another. Ok she control me sometimes, but this is the usual jealousy.
Yes I think she like it here. Ok the first winter was hard. She always complain the winter closes looks so unsexy and make her look fat. Just for Info the winter here in Swiss are not so hard like in Sweden.

Now she is not missing her family . She contact anyway only her closely sister. She was the youngest one from seven children and she was not so closely with the another members of the family.
Sometimes she complain that her family give her a good live in financial thinking ( pay the education and give a job) but don€™t give a €œwarm€ feeling.

With languages I must admit that she speak already a passable English because she make a BBA in Thailand. I send her to a German day school ( 4 hours every day five days a week) All over it was 1 year with some breaks this help a lot. English was just one time a week.
I think this is a important issue to learn the language of the country. Now she is more independent, last time she manage the extension from her Visa with the government for her self.

Negative is at the moment she would like to work. But this is difficult at the moment. I think here she must be more patient. She has also just 2 closer Thai friends. She says the Thais here are strange she don€™t want have many Thai friend. I think one matter here is that she is a Bangkok Thai-Chinese and the most Thais here comes from Isaan. Her best ladyfriends comes from China & Japan & Brazil.

Khuntibi

[snejana_demientrovska]

wow such a nice love story you got there

even i myself love to live with my guy and settle down there in his place....i dont care the cold winter and ever changin climates and im willing i dont get any culture shock cause i can easily adopt any culture and love to learn different language aside from english........most of all as my partner is working in the office i myself well have to settle for my own income by working also in the office or in the factory and i want to do thing simultanously and also continue college in one of the university in his country

as im not getting any younger and my time of having fun and experement is already fullfilled and im now in this age that im mature enough that i want to settle down and look for something serious committment...well you might say guys im also a butterfly but its just im still single and searching for the perfect one.....yes it does include tasting different water before i can find the better tasting one

[Guest]

(snejana_demientrovska @ Sep. 06 2006,02:11) wow such a nice love story you got there

even i myself love to live with my guy and settle down there in his place....i dont care the cold winter and ever changin climates and im willing i dont get any culture shock cause i can easily adopt any culture  and love to learn different language aside from english........most of all as my partner is working in the office i myself well have to settle for my own income by working also in the office or in the factory and i want to do thing simultanously and also continue college in one of the university in his country

as im not getting any younger and my time of having fun and experement is already fullfilled and im now in this age that im mature enough that i want to settle down and look for something serious committment...well you might say guys im also a butterfly but its just im still single and searching for the perfect one.....yes it does include tasting different water before i can find the better tasting one

This is exactly why ltr's with ladyboys will not work !!

You've heard it from the horses mouth as we like to say over here.

Whatever you do for some of these girls will never be enough to satisfy them.

I'd rather be alone than be taken for a mug

[snejana_demientrovska]

since most likely in my case i search for lovers and potentials of being on a serious relationship on the internet

the most problems of guys i talk to and chat with wanting to have relationships is they say too much I LOVE U and wanted to own me and become possesive......were infact i never meet them in person and see whether i have to go on to the next level or just remain friends or go on a separate ways and hunt again.....and thats why i want to meet him person first before we go on the next level......thats why i meet a lot of guys in here whom i assume it can be my serious one but most of them are just being so so.......such a different story.......cause of too much expectation and pressure which sometimes makes my world colapse cause i was thinking im seeing potential maybe he does also feel the same to.......as for now im still single and looking and waiting for someone and chatting someone and still fishing and see if either one of them is serious and for a few months im gonna meet them and see ill just hope that someone is good enough that i will go to the next level and invest my feeling into him.....the pupose of chatting in net is just to promote friendship that would luckily be turn into a serious committment

[Ladyboy_Loser!]

In my case with my "sweetie" I made sure that our age difference was such that by the time she starts to fade from the beauty she is now I will be pushing up poppys from my grave. Two years now and we are stronger than ever. I got her out of the bar scene, back to her home, take care of her and will marry her on Novmeber 5th. I have sold my home here and last week on my quick holiday we went house hunting in Surin. I love her to death, her family are great and I look forward to our life in Surin. It's quiet, peaceful, beautiful and so much cheaper than Bangkok. I'll give you a clue as to how amazing she is, last week we were in Bangkok for a few days and I asked her if she wanted to visit her friends at her old bar and she told me she never wants to go inside those places ever again. They remind her of what she had to put up with to take care of herself and her family. In our time together she has passed every doubting that I might have had regarding a long term relationship. Here's a little parting piece of advice, read, read again, then read together Thailand Fever. Do this and you can press on ahead and have a great chance of being successful in your relationship.

[Guest]

(PogueMahone @ Sep. 06 2006,02:59) In my case with my "sweetie" I made sure that our age difference was such that by the time she starts to fade from the beauty she is now I will be pushing up poppys from my grave.  Two years now and we are stronger than ever.  I got her out of the bar scene, back to her home, take care of her and will marry her on Novmeber 5th.  I have sold my home here and last week on my quick holiday we went house hunting in Surin.  I love her to death, her family are great and I look forward to our life in Surin.  It's quiet, peaceful, beautiful and so much cheaper than Bangkok.  I'll give you a clue as to how amazing she is, last week we were in Bangkok for a few days and I asked her if she wanted to visit her friends at her old bar and she told me she never wants to go inside those places ever again.  They  remind her of what she had to put up with to take care of herself and her family.  In our time together she has passed every doubting that I might have had regarding a long term relationship.  Here's a little parting piece of advice, read, read again, then read together Thailand Fever.  Do this and you can press on ahead and have a great chance of being successful in your relationship.

Like I said previously contact us in 5 years or so and tell us how things are going.

Good luck and I wish you much happiness.

Breaker

[daveduke007]

(PogueMahone @ Sep. 05 2006,20:59) In my case with my "sweetie" I made sure that our age difference was such that by the time she starts to fade from the beauty she is now I will be pushing up poppys from my grave.  Two years now and we are stronger than ever.  I got her out of the bar scene, back to her home, take care of her and will marry her on Novmeber 5th.  I have sold my home here and last week on my quick holiday we went house hunting in Surin.  I love her to death, her family are great and I look forward to our life in Surin.  It's quiet, peaceful, beautiful and so much cheaper than Bangkok.  I'll give you a clue as to how amazing she is, last week we were in Bangkok for a few days and I asked her if she wanted to visit her friends at her old bar and she told me she never wants to go inside those places ever again.  They  remind her of what she had to put up with to take care of herself and her family.  In our time together she has passed every doubting that I might have had regarding a long term relationship.  Here's a little parting piece of advice, read, read again, then read together Thailand Fever.  Do this and you can press on ahead and have a great chance of being successful in your relationship.

OOOPS but chok dee

[stogie bear]

Fantastic thread. Great read... but this was my favourite line...

Maybe I am out of sink here but...

Relationships with ladyboys are not that unusual these days, but as a poster said earlier... this is not the kind of forum where you are going to hear a lot of success stories.

For me dating a ladyboy is much the same as dating a regular girl except the sex is great. I'll never have a really 'long term' relationship with anyone as there seems little point in it while there ar so many nice ladyboys to be with.

If you want a 'relationship' with someone that is more than just sex then ladyboys make fascinating partners. You'll never be bored!

[dummy_plug]

(newcomer @ Sep. 03 2006,08:36) Excellent posts Breaker and Pilos. It would be a very special Thai that could be taken away from their Thai friends, food, culture and envirnoment and live happily ever after. Best chance IMHO would be living in Thailand with non-working  LB or GG, embrace her friends and culture and hope you get respect over the long term.

Excellent post. It's mind-boggling to me why so many people are concerned about LTRs with ladyboys, especially given that the forum was developed and is largely about fucking young ladyboy prostitutes as hard and often as one possibly can. With exceptions few and far between, 99%+ of the girls you see or hear about on the site are not looking for LTRs, especially with the typical forum member (i.e. older, western, not living in thailand, and likes to fuck around with as many LBs as possible - not exactly ideal marriage material eh?).

For those interested in LTRs with ladyboys, pretty much what Stogie and everyone else said is correct. The bargirl dream isn't going to happen. The only way you've got a shot (and not even a good one at that) is to meet a non-working LB. I spent a good two weeks with one on my last trip and will write some more details about it, but there's a night and day difference between her and some Nana plaza junkie. To perhaps entertain the thought of an LTR with her is a semi-possibility.

[Guest]

I had relationship with thai ladyboy in Los Angeles She is spectacularly beautiful as only a Thai ladyboy can be. At any moment, she is always the most beautiful woman in the room.
I met her when she was a pre op escort, and saw her periodically for almost ten yeers through and after her SRS. Shortly after SRS she gave up escorting but she remained addicted to the thrill that she gets from guys like me when we first meet, and fall for her charms.
She had another boyfriend and was cheating on him with me, so i knew I was being used, but I still loved her. She got me to help her with some college classes she was taking, and I ended up doing all of the work and getting her utterly undeserved passing grades, while she partied with her POTS friends, complained abot the little work she had to do, and manipulated me with sex.
When I complained about her atrocious behavior, she dumped me. Later, she dumped her original boyfriend. She missed the expensive dinners, trips, wine and gifts i had showered on her. She dumped him so she could chase other rich guys.
I think that the insecurity engendered by her transformation, and the difficulties of financing it through prostituteion, have altered her personality. She has an addiction to first bewitching, and then using guys. This is tragic because she is basically an intelligent, sensitive and caring person who any of us would be proud to be seen with, and would consider as a mate. Bu if you bonded with her, I feel certain she would hurt you.
We are still casual friends, and I think of her every day, more than a year after our final parting. by the way, she's 35, and more beautiful by far now, than she was when I met her at 24. I told her to forget about me until she is at least 40.
Now I am going out with a gorgeous Asian GG. So part of the magic of my thai ladyboy carries on in me. But not the TS part. Sawadee kup!

[daveduke007]

Just had a relationship for over 2 years

But as the Rolling Stones would say " Its all over now"

Long Distance relationships CANNOT and WONT work, I realise that now to my cost

But I dont regret a single second of it, and we will remain good friends and meet up

She is quite simply the most beautiful and amazing creature I have ever met

Dave...