when should i tell her about my cursed of having a small penis:please allowed me to explain

[Cloud87]

Like i said i do admit that I'm attracted to shemales & ladyboys too as well & to be honest it's not that I'm insecure I'm just a little nervous of dating a beautiful shemale/ladyboy like her when I'm cursed no no i don't have a micropenis i still considered myself small & no I'm not hung up on my size & I've thought of asking you this dating advice as 1 of the example is when & if she wanted to returned the favor after i gave her a blowjob,handjob or both a blowjob & a handjob to show her i loved her if i liked her.

I'm a bit nervous of letting her if i choose to because what if she finds me unattractive,what if she is turned off by my size,what if she laughs,tease or make fun of my size or what if she does make a stupid remark about my size,about size or about size preference,etc. then you'll see my nervousness of dating a beautiful shemale/ladyboy like her when she can get with a hunk,a hot hung(well endowed) stud when I'm not attractive,i have a small penis to even farther explain my nervousness is that well like i said I'm a virgin man.

When & if i put myself out there dating again & if i choose to so I'm asking when is it the right time to tell her about my curse & i let her know you can leave me you can dump me & then i explain to her why by telling her that i have a small penis & also explain to her sometimes i feel like I'm not worthy dating a beautiful woman like her all i want is the truth & i might not believe her when she said she doesn't care acting like she loves me for me because more likely it's a lie to protect her man's ego when i don't care about egos all i want is the truth no lies.

Sorry if i sound harsh 1 of my standards is i don't date,i don't want to date or marry a shemale/ladyboy who are dishonest i rather have someone who is completely honest with me & I'll let her leave me i won't stop her if she wants to leave me if she finds me unattractive & if she is turned off by my size & before it becomes too long I'll leave it here or at least for now & those of you who have experiences to share are welcome to chip in too as well when should i tell her that i have a small penis & 2nd part of my nervousness is if she is hung(bigger then my size) & i have a small penis.

Thanks for your time,thanks for your understanding,thanks for your advice ahead of time when & if i put myself out there dating again & if i choose to .

[Rockheart]

I'd say if a tgirl like you enough to sleep with you that they won't care so much your size.
For some people size if very important and for other's size is not an issue.

It also depends what you plan to do with her. If you are a bottom then it probably isn't an issue.
If you plan on be versatile or only fucking her then maybe it may an issue.

There is no reason to discuss this before you have sex. They are going to find out anyway.
If you tell them first they may lose interest in you due to low self confidence and not your size.
Self confidence is ultimately more important than your size.
You can't change what you got, you have to work with it.
Assume they like it until they tell you otherwise.
Most normal people don't joke or mock other people about this.

[BAM]

In Thailand all they care about is that you have a big wallet with lots of money in it.... anything else they really don't care.

[rxpharm]

Ultimately it doesn't matter how big your penis is if you can give pleasure to your partner. I am also below average in size, but I have learned techniques that give my partners pleasure - and that is the key. If you make them feel good, they will reciprocate and the size of your penis has little impact on how they will view you. Of course those into p4p will be focused on money - but still giving them pleasure will make the encounter better.

[girish]

Like i said i do admit that I'm attracted to shemales & ladyboys too as well & to be honest it's not that I'm insecure I'm just a little nervous of dating a beautiful shemale/ladyboy like her when I'm cursed no no i don't have a micropenis i still considered myself small & no I'm not hung up on my size & I've thought of asking you this dating advice as 1 of the example is when & if she wanted to returned the favor after i gave her a blowjob,handjob or both a blowjob & a handjob to show her i loved her if i liked her.

I'm a bit nervous of letting her if i choose to because what if she finds me unattractive,what if she is turned off by my size,what if she laughs,tease or make fun of my size or what if she does make a stupid remark about my size,about size or about size preference,etc. then you'll see my nervousness of dating a beautiful shemale/ladyboy like her when she can get with a hunk,a hot hung(well endowed) stud when I'm not attractive,i have a small penis to even farther explain my nervousness is that well like i said I'm a virgin man.

When & if i put myself out there dating again & if i choose to so I'm asking when is it the right time to tell her about my curse & i let her know you can leave me you can dump me & then i explain to her why by telling her that i have a small penis & also explain to her sometimes i feel like I'm not worthy dating a beautiful woman like her all i want is the truth & i might not believe her when she said she doesn't care acting like she loves me for me because more likely it's a lie to protect her man's ego when i don't care about egos all i want is the truth no lies.

Sorry if i sound harsh 1 of my standards is i don't date,i don't want to date or marry a shemale/ladyboy who are dishonest i rather have someone who is completely honest with me & I'll let her leave me i won't stop her if she wants to leave me if she finds me unattractive & if she is turned off by my size & before it becomes too long I'll leave it here or at least for now & those of you who have experiences to share are welcome to chip in too as well when should i tell her that i have a small penis & 2nd part of my nervousness is if she is hung(bigger then my size) & i have a small penis.

Thanks for your time,thanks for your understanding,thanks for your advice ahead of time when & if i put myself out there dating again & if i choose to .

Honestly why bother. Just reach Thailand and with your purse loaded and leave it to them. They will love you and you will feel important

[George Pill]

Ay, brah! There's lots of one-armed and one-legged men plus old guys crippled with wheelchairs and crutches. No kidding. Lots of potbellied guys who don't get haircuts or cut their toenails. Repulsive people. But I think they do get beautiful girls, labyboys, femboys, or whatever they want. They will do anything and anybody for money. These are the best hookers in the world. Brazil, Europe, Philippines, USA, are a waste of money and time. Thailand is Heaven on Earth. Wish I had come here 25 years ago when it was cheap. Come on over. You might even marry one.

[The-Sith]

There is one thing all women (including ladyboys) absolutely love in a man......it's confidence.


You, my friend, currently are like a tight rope Walker who is not focused on getting to the otherside....but rather focused on what's below you....the slip, the fall, the drop down 200 feet with no net. Guess what happens to a tight rope Walker that keeps focusing on "what if I fall?"?????



................. .


. ...........they fall.


you should focus on getting to the other side. Focus on the fine LB Anus you will be pummeling. Focus on the sweet titties you will be sucking. And focus on the LB cock that will be slapping you in the face, taunting you to suck it. And focus on the fact that for the price of taking a family out to the movies at an AMC near you, you can get a hot LB to worship your man meat like you are Hung like a Greek Donkey....even if the reality is that you are more like a Shetland Pony.


You have $50, right? Wave that bill and your cock will look enormous!!!! It's magic.

[George Pill]

It's US$60 now. B500 for. bar fine plus B1500 for the forking. Bet you it's gonna become B300 more later this year.

[Easyguy]

It's US$60 now. B500 for. bar fine plus B1500 for the forking. Bet you it's gonna become B300 more later this year.

Yeah, but just think of the price here in the states for only an hour with a LB or TGirl that is anywhere near as pretty and sexy as what is available in Thailand. Somewhere in the neighborhood of $400 - $500. And, that is if you can even find one who is genuine and is not looking to get you out the door as fast as possible. Of course there is always the possibility of being caught in a law enforcement sting which could screw up your life.

[George Pill]

I agree. You can save by visiting Thailand. Practically pays for the plane fare and hotels. Wish they would start giving us free 3-month tourist visa if they want to salvage their tourism industry after the Chinese fiasco. BTW anybody know where I can buy costumes like nurse, bondage, stewardess, etc in Thailand. Didn't see any in Fashion Mall in Bangkok next door to Pantip Plaza. If you haven't been to this mall you'll be blown away. Every cubical has an independent clothes contractor. Some make hats, shoes, blouses, evening dresses, and others make T-shirts, necklaces, earrings, and so on. I think this is where the US buyers some to stock up on seasonal clothing stock. Blew me away walking on every floor video recording everything sold and they're good stuff. Like a nothing Disneyland. Thailand is FANTASTIC for a shopper's paradise. Especially for women and girls. So cheap, too.

Next time I'll ask my Ladyboy friends if they know how to deep kiss. I did get frustrated finding good kissers. They're shy but willing to learn. then you teach them how to swallow cum with a spoon and swirl it around in your mouth. They will do it. Might be shy if you're filming them. If they like you they will do anything to please you. I just ask them how much they want and tip them more as a surprise when they perform extraordinarily. They're happy, and I'm happy. That's why I have so many friends to look forward to every winter. Remember communication is the key. Don't spook them by asking them to swallow or deep kiss after you've arrived at your room. Be patient and teach them how. They don't have access to quality porn like we do the USA. Funny it is hard to get in London. You can only rent at a buy-sell used DVD's shop. Here I can rent online any title I want. Perfectly legal. I still remember the old days when the best porn came from Copenhagen. Not anymore. USA is the ground zero for excellent porn. Thanks Joey Silvera and Jay Sin. Thank you Evil Angel. Most of all we should not forget Hugh Hefner, the pioneer of the sexual revolution, and Larry Flynt, the smut extraordinaire. I was lucky to grow up with their magazines.

[Rockheart]

If you look around the Platinum fashion mall you will find shops that sell lingerie and fetish costumes like nurse, cop etc.
Go to the Indira Plaza nearby in Pratunam to find even more out fits like this, there is much more stuff like this in Indira.

[Easyguy]

Possibly a touchy private subject. But, I'll go for it. How many guys, that go with LB's, deep rim them and swallow their cum? I've done both, from time to time, with TGirls in the west. Do most of the LB's enjoy it? I know that they're being paid to perform. But, they must have sexual feelings just like all humans. Also, have you found that many LB's actually enjoy having a cock inside of them? Do most of them cum when they are laid? Just curious not trying to be offensive.

[George Pill]

Just FYI I did Google Oral Sex AIDS last year, and there is NO documented proof that swallowing will get you AIDS. Of course, you could if you have oral or GIT cuts or ulcers. Give it a try. Love licking their cum up and then kissing them passionately. Ask them if they will do it before bar fining them. Don't want to waste your money on shy amateurs. I always ask if you can take pictures. They get really surprised when they see all the umbrella apparatuses and so many tripods. Once you take a few pictures they become sluts in front of the camera. Only in Thailand. Bring your cameras and lots of 128 GB SD cards. If I could do it again I would forget the Canon video G30 camera and just buy 2 Canon 80D DSLR cameras. This is a really good camera because it focuses so fast. Buy 4-5 LED lights like the Mcoplus 260 LED Dimmable Ultra High Power Panel Digital Camera / Camcorder LED Video Light for Canon

US$52.00 from Amazon.com. Still thinking about a Canon 430m3 flash, but don't understand how to adjust the intensity or set it to automatic. Love my Sony RX100m3. Forget the m5 as don't need the fancier stuff. Great for selfies where I can compare sizes with my face. Practice and you can learn to deep throat without choking. Just relax your tonsils and let the lubricated pole slide right in. Just like the porno movies.

Hmm. the temperature now is 87 degrees high and 76 degrees low. Sounds like comfortable temperatures. Hope you're having fun with the upcoming Songkran. Never been to one.

[flamingofarmer]

Possibly a touchy private subject. But, I'll go for it. How many guys, that go with LB's, deep rim them and swallow their cum? I've done both, from time to time, with TGirls in the west. Do most of the LB's enjoy it? I know that they're being paid to perform. But, they must have sexual feelings just like all humans. Also, have you found that many LB's actually enjoy having a cock inside of them? Do most of them cum when they are laid? Just curious not trying to be offensive.

U can get a nasty bacterial infection (dysentery, or a bacterial STD which are not uncommon in Thailand) from deep rimming including influenza. Fact of life that there is allot of bacteria (good and bad) in the rectum/lower intestine and the conjunctive tissue of a rectum. Also street food can give parasites that Thais may be able to handle short term and you may not ( the parasite can be transmitted buy contact with fluid/mucous/fecal matter that enters your body via your mouth as an embryo) ... its why we wash hands before eating or handling food. I like rimming too but I also know its risky and I usually end up in the clinic getting antibiotics as a result without fail: currently re-evaluating my passion for LB rimming lol.
As for the CIM thing its fun too, but again its exposure to bacterial infections (gonorrhea, syphillis and clamydia) and I know what you are saying about HIV and oral sex, but if you introduce a virus to your body in any way its still a risk. There are millions of blood vessels in the base of your mouth and in fact this is how heart patients absorb drugs such as Nitro, so it is not impossible to see that the tiny microorganism of HIV can sneak in too. I dont beleive this can never happen. I have been exposed to HIV in the past and took post exposure steps and so far after 2 years never tested positive so I am personally extra cautious. Last trip I got dysentary (the shits) and clamydia (I think I know where and who I got it from ,,,,it hurt to pee) as well as an undiagnosed wicked upper respiratory infection which cleared up after taking the antibiotics (doxycycline) for the clamydia, so I suspect I had a bacterial respiratory infection as well. In Pattaya the clinic on Soi Buakow is good in treatment, as I would guess others are, of STD's in farangs as they see it often. A shot in the ass fixes you up fast. Bottom line is this: who was there before you and what did they leave behind. Here is a very good article on HIV infection transmission...
http://www.catie.ca/en/pif/fall-2011...v-transmission

From the article:

To cause an infection after an exposure, HIV first needs to cross the cell layer and then avoid being destroyed by the immune cells below. If the virus overcomes these defences, it can then spread past the site of infection to other parts of the body, by entering the blood and lymphatic vessels in the mucous membrane tissue. Once HIV has spread throughout the body, the virus can establish infections in different organs and tissues. At this point, the HIV infection becomes permanent (see Figure).2^,3^,4 In some cases, HIV may not be able either to cross the mucosal cell layer or win its battle against the immune cells in the mucosal tissue below. Also, if HIV spreads beyond the mucous membranes, immune cells in the blood and lymphatic vessels and organs and tissues may be able to clear the virus before a permanent infection is established. This explains why some exposures to HIV do not lead to infection.

As for the other question about do they enjoy it.... Who cares....lol

Seriously tho I am sure some do and some don't but usually those who dislike it the most say up front they are only top and conversely some say they are ONLY bottoms. Most LB I have fucked will cum when getting fucked and some even hands free but not all of them do, it obviously depends on the mood and chemistry and how drunk everyone gets before hand.

[Easyguy]

U can get a nasty bacterial infection (dysentery, or a bacterial STD which are not uncommon in Thailand) from deep rimming including influenza. Fact of life that there is allot of bacteria (good and bad) in the rectum/lower intestine and the conjunctive tissue of a rectum. Also street food can give parasites that Thais may be able to handle short term and you may not ( the parasite can be transmitted buy contact with fluid/mucous/fecal matter that enters your body via your mouth as an embryo) ... its why we wash hands before eating or handling food. I like rimming too but I also know its risky and I usually end up in the clinic getting antibiotics as a result without fail: currently re-evaluating my passion for LB rimming lol.
As for the CIM thing its fun too, but again its exposure to bacterial infections (gonorrhea, syphillis and clamydia) and I know what you are saying about HIV and oral sex, but if you introduce a virus to your body in any way its still a risk. There are millions of blood vessels in the base of your mouth and in fact this is how heart patients absorb drugs such as Nitro, so it is not impossible to see that the tiny microorganism of HIV can sneak in too. I dont beleive this can never happen. I have been exposed to HIV in the past and took post exposure steps and so far after 2 years never tested positive so I am personally extra cautious. Last trip I got dysentary (the shits) and clamydia (I think I know where and who I got it from ,,,,it hurt to pee) as well as an undiagnosed wicked upper respiratory infection which cleared up after taking the antibiotics (doxycycline) for the clamydia, so I suspect I had a bacterial respiratory infection as well. In Pattaya the clinic on Soi Buakow is good in treatment, as I would guess others are, of STD's in farangs as they see it often. A shot in the ass fixes you up fast. Bottom line is this: who was there before you and what did they leave behind. Here is a very good article on HIV infection transmission...
http://www.catie.ca/en/pif/fall-2011...v-transmission

From the article:

To cause an infection after an exposure, HIV first needs to cross the cell layer and then avoid being destroyed by the immune cells below. If the virus overcomes these defences, it can then spread past the site of infection to other parts of the body, by entering the blood and lymphatic vessels in the mucous membrane tissue. Once HIV has spread throughout the body, the virus can establish infections in different organs and tissues. At this point, the HIV infection becomes permanent (see Figure).2^,3^,4 In some cases, HIV may not be able either to cross the mucosal cell layer or win its battle against the immune cells in the mucosal tissue below. Also, if HIV spreads beyond the mucous membranes, immune cells in the blood and lymphatic vessels and organs and tissues may be able to clear the virus before a permanent infection is established. This explains why some exposures to HIV do not lead to infection.

As for the other question about do they enjoy it.... Who cares....lol

Seriously tho I am sure some do and some don't but usually those who dislike it the most say up front they are only top and conversely some say they are ONLY bottoms. Most LB I have fucked will cum when getting fucked and some even hands free but not all of them do, it obviously depends on the mood and chemistry and how drunk everyone gets before hand.

Well, I'm just wondering if all of those thousands of guys get sick all the time. As I'm quite sure that many, if not most of them, rim and swallow with LB's. Even kissing can bring disease, I guess. My understanding has always been that Saliva has powerful properties in it that tends to destroy bacteria and some viruses. That is why you apparently can't contract HIV through Saliva.