Hi all I'm new here+ a little something about me

[Cloud87]

Hi all I'm new here you may call me Cloud and to be honest i don't know am in the closet or open about me being attracted to shemales & ladyboys & i don't know yet should i stay in the closet or be open about my attraction to shemales & ladyboys because if anyone irl ever found out about me they might not or might never understand that I'm attracting to shemales & ladyboys & shemales & ladyboys if i offended you beautiful women i apologize & no no I'm not ashamed of being attracted to shemales & ladyboys.

If you have any extra advice like how to be out of closet about my attraction to shemales & ladyboys and such so to speak feel free to share your extra tips,advice & help thanks & if a beautiful shemale/ladyboy either online or in public acts like she likes me i don't know should i even bother because of well 1 I'm still a virgin a single virgin man to be exact & 2 I'm cursed that i have a small penis no no it's not a micropenis i still considered myself small & i don't know does size matters to them if she acts like she likes me & if she wants to date me,be with me & i might as and say if she wants to marry me.

You can tell i might get a little nervous around her & plus what if she's more hung then me sometimes i feel like I'm not worthy of her don't get me wrong i do love both her & her penis it's just I'm a bit nervous of dating her because of dating a beautiful shemale/ladyboy like her since 1 I'm still a virgin a single virgin man to be exact & 2 I'm cursed that i have a small penis no no it's not a micropenis i still considered myself small i doubt she'll like me anyway.

& i might ask her please stop if she trys to touch me since to be honest with you all i really hate my curse sorry for a small rant as part of my introduction anyway if you want me to added anything else about me on this feel free to let me know or ask me so i leave it here or at least for now thanks for reading this & thanks for your understanding .

[Rockheart]

Hi Cloud welcome to the forum.

Good to hear your story and sounds like the same as many men.
You didn't say where you were from, but I assume it is in a country were it is hard to meet ladyboys.
Trying to find ladyboys in personals can be tough and a large number will turn out to be escorts.

Usually the best thing to do if you are unsure is to visit a professional and keep it discreet if you are worried about friends and family.
The chances of meeting a ladyboys to introduce to your family can often be slim anyway.
Plus seeing an escort you can work out how you actually feel about ladyboys and if you actually like real sex with them.
A pro won't care about your size, so you can rest easier that way and enjoy yourself.

Sure many ladyboys will like big dicks but there is also ones that don't.
Especially if you are a bottom, top ladyboys will not be to concerned with the size of your junk.
So this is another thing, are you considering if you are a submissive bottom or top or both?
What do you see yourself doing with ladyboys in your mind?
If you still are not sure, a pro will help you explore what you like.

Thailand is a perfect place to work out your desire for ladyboys.
There is more ladyboys than anywhere in the world and many bars and other places you where you can meet them.
Thailand is very cheap to visit and it is simple and inexpensive to meet any type of ladyboy you would like.
Plus many ladyboys in asia have tiny cocks, but there is big too.

Browse the forums you should find alot more about the subject.
Ask any questions you like, everyone starts somewhere.

[Cloud87]

Hi Cloud welcome to the forum.

Good to hear your story and sounds like the same as many men.
You didn't say where you were from, but I assume it is in a country were it is hard to meet ladyboys.
Trying to find ladyboys in personals can be tough and a large number will turn out to be escorts.

Usually the best thing to do if you are unsure is to visit a professional and keep it discreet if you are worried about friends and family.
The chances of meeting a ladyboys to introduce to your family can often be slim anyway.
Plus seeing an escort you can work out how you actually feel about ladyboys and if you actually like real sex with them.
A pro won't care about your size, so you can rest easier that way and enjoy yourself.

Sure many ladyboys will like big dicks but there is also ones that don't.
Especially if you are a bottom, top ladyboys will not be to concerned with the size of your junk.
So this is another thing, are you considering if you are a submissive bottom or top or both?
What do you see yourself doing with ladyboys in your mind?
If you still are not sure, a pro will help you explore what you like.

Thailand is a perfect place to work out your desire for ladyboys.
There is more ladyboys than anywhere in the world and many bars and other places you where you can meet them.
Thailand is very cheap to visit and it is simple and inexpensive to meet any type of ladyboy you would like.
Plus many ladyboys in asia have tiny cocks, but there is big too.

Browse the forums you should find alot more about the subject.
Ask any questions you like, everyone starts somewhere.

To respond if you look at my profile i currently live in & i still live America to be specific I'm from & i still live in Jacksonville,Florida currently so far & farther more I mean in dating,relationships & marriage in sense so to speak i doubt she'll like a virgin man like me anyway thanks again for responding .

[George Pill]

How old are u? Thailand ladyboys are pretty hospitable. I have seen fat slobs with bushes of shoulder hair and uncut armpits with ladyboys. the pot-bellied guys don't cut or comb their hair and drink all day and night. Don't even exercise. They let their nails grow long. Euro trash. Surprising how the beautiful ladyboys still go out with them. Tell you what go to Bangkok first and stay at the On8 Hotel on Soi 8 and Sukhumvit. You are only one block away from Nana Entertainment Plaza where Obsessions, Cascades, and all the lovelies are. You will be dumbstruck how beautiful they are. Choose one to come and drink with you, and they will let you fondle them all over. Same for Cascades where some porn stars are found. Stay there for a week then head over to Pattaya Beach by taxi. Stay at the Sunshine Hotel on Soi 8. Both hotels can be reserved at Agoda.com. Stay for 2 weeks. Sois 7 and 8 are the ground zero for both boys and girls. Walk over to Central Festival Shopping Center on the next block over for eats and shopping. Catch the baht bus (a truck with seats in the back with an overhead aluminum roof) and stop over at Soi 13/4 where there's Boy's Town and 3 shows. Pattaya Obsessions is there and got some lovelies. If they pressure you just say one at a time. Actually Obsessions charges too much at B700 Bar fine. Sois 7 and 8 charge B300 to B500. King's Castle is right across the street from this hotel so that's what I call service. But they're not the best and there's more bars every where. Look for the young ones as they still got harder cocks. Older ones are soft and can't seem to maintain hardness because they've been on female hormones too much and too long. They will shrink down to peanuts peckers and disappoint me. Be prepared to spend some dough on drinks for the girls and their friends who crowd around and suck your money away. You will be pleased how nice Thai ladyboys are and don't seem to care about your handicaps. Must be the Buddhist faith that makes them so kind. BTW Jacksonville is so far away. Flights on Orbitz show 24+ hours and two stops going over the North Pole with stops at Kennedy, Inchon, or Dubai. Plan to get drunk flying and brink warm pajamas. Tell them you have a bad back and need to lie down. Bring ear plugs, ski cap, and blindfolds. Spending a month in Thailand is like potato chips. Can't stop at one. Pattaya is better because so many streets full of bars everywhere. Phuket has only one. Bangkok has Nana Plaza and Soi Cowboy. Only two.

[Cloud87]

How old are u? Thailand ladyboys are pretty hospitable. I have seen fat slobs with bushes of shoulder hair and uncut armpits with ladyboys. the pot-bellied guys don't cut or comb their hair and drink all day and night. Don't even exercise. They let their nails grow long. Euro trash. Surprising how the beautiful ladyboys still go out with them. Tell you what go to Bangkok first and stay at the On8 Hotel on Soi 8 and Sukhumvit. You are only one block away from Nana Entertainment Plaza where Obsessions, Cascades, and all the lovelies are. You will be dumbstruck how beautiful they are. Choose one to come and drink with you, and they will let you fondle them all over. Same for Cascades where some porn stars are found. Stay there for a week then head over to Pattaya Beach by taxi. Stay at the Sunshine Hotel on Soi 8. Both hotels can be reserved at Agoda.com. Stay for 2 weeks. Sois 7 and 8 are the ground zero for both boys and girls. Walk over to Central Festival Shopping Center on the next block over for eats and shopping. Catch the baht bus (a truck with seats in the back with an overhead aluminum roof) and stop over at Soi 13/4 where there's Boy's Town and 3 shows. Pattaya Obsessions is there and got some lovelies. If they pressure you just say one at a time. Actually Obsessions charges too much at B700 Bar fine. Sois 7 and 8 charge B300 to B500. King's Castle is right across the street from this hotel so that's what I call service. But they're not the best and there's more bars every where. Look for the young ones as they still got harder cocks. Older ones are soft and can't seem to maintain hardness because they've been on female hormones too much and too long. They will shrink down to peanuts peckers and disappoint me. Be prepared to spend some dough on drinks for the girls and their friends who crowd around and suck your money away. You will be pleased how nice Thai ladyboys are and don't seem to care about your handicaps. Must be the Buddhist faith that makes them so kind. BTW Jacksonville is so far away. Flights on Orbitz show 24+ hours and two stops going over the North Pole with stops at Kennedy, Inchon, or Dubai. Plan to get drunk flying and brink warm pajamas. Tell them you have a bad back and need to lie down. Bring ear plugs, ski cap, and blindfolds. Spending a month in Thailand is like potato chips. Can't stop at one. Pattaya is better because so many streets full of bars everywhere. Phuket has only one. Bangkok has Nana Plaza and Soi Cowboy. Only two.

To answer your question I'm 29 years old I've turned 29 last year on December 28th

[George Pill]

Hey. I am more than twice your age plus more. the 2 hotels I mentioned are dirt cheap but still nice with hot water, comfortable beds, good lighting. Lots of good restaurants everywhere with very welcoming staff. I change my advice. Stay a week in Bangkok and stay the rest of the month is Pattaya. Take the taxi from Pattaya early in the morning directly to Suvarnabhumi Airport and leave. The girls at the little desk in front of the 7-11 store across the street has always helped me and are so efficient. Man, you will LOVE Pattaya. Plenty of young girls. Shoot for November-February for the driest and coolest months. Need only shorts and tank tops with sneakers or flip-flops. Laundry service is so cheap and come back in nice little cellophane bags neatly folded and buttoned. Great place to retire and die. Oh yeah, there's lots of European amputees and guys on crutches and paralyzed limbs. so many and they are all on the Beachwalk watching the sunset around 5 PM. the bar hospitality people start early at 5 PM and stay will 2 PM. They go to sleep at 5 or 6 AM. Lots of people with bloodshot eyes. I kid you not, the Thai people are generally friendly and not prejudiced against the handicapped. Didn't know there was such a place as Heaven on Earth. Bring camera. they love to be photographed. Hide the SD cards so the Homeland Security won't confiscate them. Put another SD card filled with tourist photos. they confiscated mine because I visited Thailand for the fifth time for 60 days. that's nothing. There's guys on this website and men in Pattaya who have been visiting for the 30th time. they still got their eyesights.

[t-girlLvr]

Welcome Cloud

I second what Crag has told you

Usually the best thing to do if you are unsure is to visit a professional and keep it discreet if you are worried about friends and family.
The chances of meeting a ladyboys to introduce to your family can often be slim anyway.
Plus seeing an escort you can work out how you actually feel about ladyboys and if you actually like real sex with them.
A pro won't care about your size, so you can rest easier that way and enjoy yourself.

Going to a pro and keeping it discreet it's all you need. It's all about you, others could judge you but they won't know. And for you to live out an experience it does not matter what anyone else thinks

I was also very insecure about meeting a ladyboy for the first time. But you should it not stop yourself from having the experience. If you meet a lovely ladyboy and you are not into it. Well then you'll know, no harm done to anyone. If you are turned off, well so much better and enjoy the experience

Having your thoughts and being worried about what others might think because your inexperience or size, is stopping you from exploring and living a complete life. Just take the plunge and live a little

If you happen to be in Thailand cause of the cost you could try out having a pros, a ladyboy and a girl. Maybe you'll love both maybe you'll like only one

[rxpharm]

Welcome to the forum cloud87 - and take heart everyone was a virgin one time in their lives - including lbs. As most have advised you - don't be afraid, or ashamed. If you have the chance to visit LOS, it will be easier for you, but even if you can't it might be possible for you to take the plunge with a tgirl escort in your home country. The experience likely wouldn't be the same as in Thailand however.

A good idea would be to plan a trip to Thailand, save up for it, and continue to read information to plan your activities.

[Easyguy]

Cloud,

First thing is that most if not all guys, who enjoy sex with and loving Ladyboys, are not gay. Most gay guys would not be caught dead with a Ladyboy. I, like most Ladyboy lovers, have sex with and love generic females. In fact I'm married to a Thai generic female and I love her to death. I also have been with Shemales (Ladyboys in the United States and other western nations). Of course my wife, family, and friends know nothing about my desires. I'm not about to tell anyone that I also enjoy Shemales along with Females. Most people don't understand nor approve of such things and it's none of their business anyway. As long as I don't bring any disease home or embarrass them, there is no harm done. Like you, I live in Florida. Florida is not really a very good place to meet Ladyboys or Shemales. Places like New York City, San Francisco, and a few of the other big cities are where they are readily available. The Shemale P4P scene, in the US, is very expensive and very precarious. You can't trust the advertisements for Shemale escorts as many times they are not the person in the photos and physically not the same person. Also, our lunatic laws against paying for sex can possibly get you in trouble with law enforcement. As if our law enforcement doesn't have better things to do with their time. In Thailand you do not have to worry about law enforcement unless you assault a Thai and they catch you. I know how difficult it is getting away from home, depending on what your situation is. People around you always minding your business instead of their own. Since you are still a young guy I would do everything possible to make a trip to Thailand or, as an alternative, to the Phillipines. The Phillipines has thousands of Ladyboys just like Thailand although Thailand is much more open. You will never regret your trip to beautiful Thailand as the country is gorgeous and the people are the most friendly on earth.

[George Pill]

Forget about the Philippines. Ripping off tourists and foreigners is sport there. You will be disappointed and wish you had gone straight to Thailand. Got money shortage then go to the taxi at the bottom floor of Suvarnabhumi Airport after you arrive. Make online reservations at the Sunshine Hotel on Soi 8 in Pattaya Beach. Takes 1.5 hours of superhighway speeding to get to Pattaya. Good if you arrive at midnight because no traffic at all. I returned from Pattaya to BKK last December in the afternoon, and the traffic is horrendous. BTW those taxis use natural gas, not gasoline. Ladyboys are right on the street on Soi 8 and 7. You might go to Soi 5 but I wouldn't buy anyone there. They are tall and might rip you off. Reserve hotel on Agoda.com. Bangkok is expensive. LB there are experienced and know how to rip you off. Also older and limp-dicks. They tell you they came in the morning so are soft. Bull liars. They have been taking female hormone too long and too much. Pattaya LB's are younger and harder. Patient and try to please. I'd say half of them are good performers. If bad I give them just B1K or if really bad just B500. Tip B500 or B1K if you are satisfied. In time you will learn and gain experience separating the goods and bads. Come on over and see what fun we are having. Best to visit in November-January. Weather is much better with less rain and heat. Still humid so wear shorts, tank tops, and flip flops. Hat helps.

[bonjo]

Hi Cloud welcome aboard