Taking a bar girl away for 3-4 days

[Guest]

If I really like a bar girl, how much would it cost to take her away for 3-4 days? I'm guessing I would have to pay the bar fines for those days and then negotiate with the girl directly for what she wants, correct?

Just out of curiosity, for those of you that have brought a girl with you to a nice beach like Phuket or Samui, are they girls pretty much just happy enough with being able to come along for the free vacation (i.e. I buy her plane ticket, pay for the hotel, food, etc.)...

Thanks for any tips on making a situation like this work out!

[mardhi]

(bigdawg @ Nov. 25 2006,13:22) If I really like a bar girl, how much would it cost to take her away for 3-4 days?  I'm guessing I would have to pay the bar fines for those days and then negotiate with the girl directly for what she wants, correct?  

Just out of curiosity, for those of you that have brought a girl with you to a nice beach like Phuket or Samui, are they girls pretty much just happy enough with being able to come along for the free vacation (i.e. I buy her plane ticket, pay for the hotel, food, etc.)...

Thanks for any tips on making a situation like this work out!

I think a lot depends on the girl - some are happy just to get out of the routine of working in bars but most will just see it as a perk and still expect payment for services rendered. I'd suggest you find the girl you like and then say how about 3/4/ days on Samui/Phuket wherever and then agree a fee that she is happy with - maybe say, hyperthetically 6-10k for 3/4 days and see if it works - in my experience its always better to quote a 'all in' number than a daily rate as it sounds more money. As you are asking her to go, they will automatically assume you are covering all the expenses of the trip including food, transport etc.

Cheers
Mardhi

[BAM]

Check out this thread on the very subject....

http://asiantsgirls.com/cgi-bin/boar...=ST;f=9;t=7521

[dummy_plug]

Keep in mind that not only are you paying the barfine and some pre-negotiated daily rate (which 2-3k sounds reasonable, but as always it depends on the girl), but you are expected to pay for any other costs. You might think this is all fine and dandy as you would expect to pony up for the plane ticket, hotel, food, etc... But often times this can lead into long nights out at expensive bars, tours, activities, shopping, etc...

Of course, in the end its always "up to you", but be wary or you get steamrolled and end up paying far more than you can imagine!

[TopDog]

You'll want to spend time with the girl before taking her on any trip. Make sure you get along well outside of the bedroom too. I took a girl from Pattaya on a trip to Chang Mai and Phuket and it turned out to be two of the better trips I've had in Thailand. Did a lot of the tourist stuff instead of hanging out in bars all day and night. She never asked for money but I paid all expenses and gave her 2k/day. This may seem high to some but well worth it in my opinion.

[divertwo]

yup..I did the "take a LB along" on my first LOS trip....was a Filipina LB that had just moved to BKK whom I had met on line. It worked for about 5 days...and I was nuts for agreeing to stay at her apartment for 10 days. I moved to a hotel and never looked back after that. I always felt as though I was taking a "sack lunch" to a gourmet, buffet dinner when we walked the streets of BKK and Chiangmai together. I'd definately recommend trying on the shoes for a few days before buying them...............ALOHA

[Guest]

Fucking madness I say.......There are plenty LB in Samui and Phuket......have a smogasbord

[diablo80]

Guys and Dolls

Taking an LB from a Bangkok Bar to Phulet with you is similar to taking Ice and Snow to the North Pole

Uselessssssssss

Just go there and Butterfly mate... do not waste your money in paying tickets and getting stuck with people who may f*** your 3 or 4 days in one hour...

Diablo le Grec

[Guest]

(Bam @ Nov. 25 2006,20:05) Check out this thread on the very subject....

http://asiantsgirls.com/cgi-bin/boar...=ST;f=9;t=7521

OK, I am the guy who started that original post. Now I am back, let me tell everybody, the suggestions on the board from fellow punters are 100% correct.

Girls will ask for things, things to eat things to wear, things to whatever fuck. One other very important thing - if you are a halfway decent gentalman, you must care about what she wants to do. What kind of drag is that? you travel thousands of miles, you want to see snake farms, you want to see thai boxings, and you want to NOT going to caberate shows but only wait outside until photo time to sneak in to see if there's any chance for a quickie with the stars, you don't want to wait for her to dress up, you don't want your ams go to sleep when she goes to sleep and especially you don't want to have the same sex every night.
I personally think LT is next morning maximum. Anytime longer, might as well stay home with wife, I bet you have better conversations.

[blairforce1]

(crypton2 @ Nov. 26 2006,18:04) Fucking madness I say.......There are plenty LB in Samui and Phuket......have a smogasbord

Absolutley right!

If you ask a BG / MB if she wants to go to the beach with you for a few days she will bite your bloody arm off to go! But what's the point? There are plenty to choose from at your destination .... unless of course you are going to some where like Ko Samed where it is essential to take a "carry out"v with you

[stogie bear]

OK, I am the guy who started that original post. Now I am back, let me tell everybody, the suggestions on the board from fellow punters are 100% correct.

Well, that's good to hear! I'd hate to think we were all wrong!

[thaibound]

(diablo80 @ Dec. 05 2006,02:08) Guys and Dolls

Taking an LB from a Bangkok Bar to Phulet with you is similar to taking Ice and Snow to the North Pole  

Uselessssssssss  

Just go there and Butterfly mate... do not waste your money in paying tickets and getting stuck with people who may f*** your 3 or 4 days in one hour...

Diablo le Grec  

i totally agree if the destination is phuket. taking an lb *to* shemale island? uh, no.
but...i did take a beautiful BG/lb *from* phuket to phi phi for a few days and went pretty well, good company, good sex, though the snorkeling outing seemed to be more fun for me than her!

but what i wonder...is koh samui the same? it's my next "new" spot to hit and i've heard the local entertainment is a bit "rough' and "limited"...am i wrong? *obviously* i would spend some considerable time with the LB first -- make sure we can carry on a conversation, we're "compatible" in the sack, etc...gotta get *something* in return for all the added costs of plane and food, but hell, the room is still the room...so i'm of two minds on this one... it definitely depends on the destination -- and the LB.

[Ladyboy_Loser!]

Don't be daft man. Only take an Lb on a holiday if you are going to a quite location with no Lb action. Phuket, Chiang Mai, Pattaya are full of top quality Lb's and why limit yourself to only one? Now on Koh Chang, Samui, Koh Samet and other such places it is very pleasureable to have a companion along. Try to spend some time with them in Bangkok first because it ain't gonna be much fun after two or more days if you are bored to tears.

[bangkoksins]

I disagree. Samui has plenty of action, no need to pay the extra 6/7,000+ Baht airfare to bring someone. Imagine the fun you could have with that money.

[olekunde]

i wouldn't have gone to saumui islands if i were you. a tourist dump of worst kind. the only thing worth seeing there is the airport which is quite outstanding, taken right out of of the fantasy island ..