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[gizmo]

(daveduke007 @ Oct. 17 2008,01:13)

(gizmo @ Oct. 16 2008,22:40) Welcome aboard!  

You on a ship giz?  

Wish I was Dave, stuck here working!

[Guest]

I have a serious question for all of you guys who have experienced with a LB / TS, etc.

For me, my fascination with LBs started innocently when a friend of mine introduced me to a famous LB website. I got hooked instantly. I was shocked, felt a little disgusted at first (to be honest) and then quite simply I became mesmerized.

I have been a closet LB lover for years now, it is my most favorite type of porn to jerk off to. I get so horny just thinking about a hot and sexy LB.

I have been very close to making an appointment with a LB pro only to back out at the last moment. My worry is that the sexual fantasy is mostly in my head -- because it is kind of taboo and out of the norm.

I'm wondering if I am going to have regrets afterwards... does anyone else feel the same way? Can people share their first experiences and let me know what it was like, were you disappointed, were you ashamed, did you regret it?

Also, I am only into extremely feminine / passable LBs (i.e. not dominant ones) -- I am not gay (I have never had any gay thoughts or never wanted to be with another guy sexually).... but I am conflicted, because an LB really is a "guy" at the end of the day right?

Please share.

Thanks!

[si geena]

I know you're not but I am... GAY!

Bring in the gay parade boys, let 'em have it!

[rxpharm]

from Trip Reports Forum

Not a trip report!

Read this thread: The Rookie Thread

[Guest]

oops, sorry for posting in the wrong section...

anyways.... any insights from anyone???

[si geena]

Well stay with your conflicts. Dun cross the damn river. Once you're across, you'll never be the same again.

Listen to that damn voice that says you're a raging pink once you touch another penis.

Oh the horror!

[Stogie]

I am not gay (I have never had any gay thoughts or never wanted to be with another guy sexually).... but...

I was reading this thinking to myself 'Bloody hell... a poster who doesn't have to tell us that he isn't gay', but then, of course, he did...

Oh well...

[Guest]

I guess its "take the newbie out back and beat the shit out of him"....

Look, I'm just looking for some insight and for other people to share their experiences... nothing more, nothing less.

[Stogie]

All the insight you need is already here on hundreds of posts all saying/asking the same thing.

Be a bit more thick skinned. "I'm not gay, but..." is a running joke on this forum.

Lighten up and join in the fun...

[andre459]

At least he's not telling us we aren't real men.


Try reading through some of these goodfella.

https://theladyboyforums.com/cgi-bin....;hl=gay
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https://theladyboyforums.com/cgi-bin....;hl=gay
https://theladyboyforums.com/cgi-bin....;hl=gay
https://theladyboyforums.com/cgi-bin....;hl=gay
https://theladyboyforums.com/cgi-bin....;hl=gay

[Guest]

Thanks for the links! I've got a lot of reading to catch up on...

sorry for the "gay" comment, didn't know it was such a sore issue...

[blonde_havoc]

Dude, I'll offer some insight for you. My first experience with a ladyboy was in 2004. I was 21 years old and was dating a Filipino-born ladyboy in Chicago, IL where I live.

I had been obsessed with shemales (particularly asian and latin femmeboy types) since high school, but I had never acted on any of my impulses and only dated ggs.

I know what you mean about your concerns, because I had a few of them myself. I know a few guys who slept with a LB and then regretted it, feeling guilty (a product of Catholicism probably ).

But anyway, I just went for it. She came to my apartment after a date one night. I had never sucked a cock before, and I was nervous because I didn't know the size of hers. She was my first, and I really wanted to have a bigger cock than her (some sort of macho bullshit that I'm now completely over... in fact I'm turned on if the LBs I date have a bigger one than me now!).

Anyway, I made a move, and ended up giving her a blow job. Sucking her dick was the most amazing thing I'd ever done with anyone sexually. Just remembering it now makes me super hard. After I blew her, we fucked. I was her first boyfriend in America. We lasted 7 months together before she ripped my heart out (wanted her freedom to date and sleep around).

Probably still the most significant relationship of my life.

Long story short, don't worry about that guilt/repulsion you might feel at first. It'll pass and you'll be a more experienced person. Just go for it, man.

Oh and my next date with a LB is Halloween night... and she's already promised to make me "cum hard."

[hardpaolo]

Not so much a sore issue, just funny when guys say they want some cock but they are not gay. It's defensive and dillusional. By the way i'm not gay.

[Guest]

(hardpaolo @ Oct. 23 2008,13:41) Not so much a sore issue, just funny when guys say they want some cock but they are not gay.  It's defensive and dillusional.  By the way i'm not gay.

Hmmm, "defensive" I might give you that (hey it was my first post!)

But "dillusional"?

Look, I'm not here to sort out my sexuality -- I'm very comfortable in my own skin. I've only dated / have been with GGs my entire life. Never close to a "gay" encounter. Never been curious to find out what it would be like to have "gay" sex with another "man".

But as Seinfeld said "not that there is anything wrong with that". I am very much a "live and let live" type of dude. As long as its between two consenting adults, who cares?

The "3rd" sex to me is the last frontier -- it gives me the most excitement. I'd never be with a "man" straight up and the thought, frankly, repulses me.

But a gorgeous, tight, sexy, feminine LB? Nothing hotter IMHO. Nothing gets me harder, faster than the thought of a sexy LB.

Does that make me "gay"? I guess it depends on your definition. I like one of the posts I read in one of the link provided above. To view sexuality in a harsh black and white dichotomy is way, way to rigid.

There are degrees of sexuality -- i.e. a GG can, on one extreme be very "butch" very "masculine" and by the same token, a guy can be very "girlish". There are shades of grey. If by gunpoint, I had to choose to fuck a GG who was hairy, muscular and more butch than an NFL linebacker or a very "beautiful" LB who had been on hormone therapy, breast augmentation -- the whole nine yards, and fully clothed would fool 99.99% of the general population -- and I chose the LB, does that make me "gay"?

And if it does, who cares?

[andre459]

And if it does, who cares?

Yes! Yes! Jesus H. tap-dancing Christ ... I have seen the light!