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[Rocket J. Squirrel]

Been there.  The 3 month wait is indeed horrible.  Hang in there.

re the endless debate about what is safe, the link for San Francisco City Clinic from Craigslist seems to be a good source of information:

San Francisco City Clinic

[machodik]

(PigDogg @ Jan. 13 2010,22:36)

(machodik @ Jan. 13 2010,06:51) I am freaking out

MD, I can see you're worried.

The risk of exposure is minimal from this one incident is minimal.  Some claim that if you're topping it's very, very difficult to be infected.  While I wouldn't top without a condom, I have some friends that do.  Also I'd imagine that a broken condom is better than none at all.  I'm not a doctor though so what I say really doesn't mean too much.

It's a good sign that SHE is worried about the broken condom, IMO that means she doesn't want to be infected rather than her worrying about infecting you.

Not much you can do about it now.  Maybe some xanax to calm you down until you find out in a few months that all is well.

Thanks PD,

Actually it was until this broken condom incidence that giving me a corrections of the wrong idea that you will only be infected when your cock sucked in vag. fluids after ejaculation (as what I think when I am fucking the gg in Myanmar last month).

Now I think, this is an end to my mongering life, I have to resist the temptation of those lovely creature at Cascades etc whenever I travel LOS. I think it is not worth for me to have around 3 months of worriness, pounding pressure and even destroying my family relationship before then(gosh I dont know how I can do or what reason to use in avoiding having sex with my wife for 3 months, I don't. want to infected her (just in case), she starting to feel something wrong with me after I come back from LOS), I still can not concentrate much with my works for the past few days and I don't. know what will be the result of my HIV testing after 3 months. I also don't. know if I should take the HIV testing here in my own country or should I take it in LOS as the result will be more confidential over there just in case the result is.... I wonder if anyone of you guys can suggest which hospital or clinic in BKK that is good and dependable for HIV testing and also if the patient's name will be publishise and be deported or banned for any future visit to Los in case he has found to be postive from the testing result.

I feel this is not good and I am really really worry a lot. I swear as long as the result comes out to be negative, I would like to live happily and that I mean I will practice abstinense, it is not worth for me to have this kind of pounding worriness like you are waiting for your execution of dead sentence.

Anyway, thanks for your support and hope to have some more info.


MD

[EyeMahk]

Taking two (or one).  Lock all valuables in the safe, including all money, phones, etc.  The only thing you can bury somewhere outside the safe is the money you have committed to paying them.  This is actually good, since you never have to open the safe then.

If you are taking two, then clarify in advance the compensation, and exactly what you would like them to do with each other.  And take them from a bar. The best way to go with two is to have been with one of them 1-on-1 one time before. Still, you need to make it clear what you want them to do with each other.

[PigDogg]

(machodik @ Jan. 13 2010,06:51) I am freaking out

MD, I can see you're worried.

The risk of exposure is minimal from this one incident is minimal.  Some claim that if you're topping it's very, very difficult to be infected.  While I wouldn't top without a condom, I have some friends that do.  Also I'd imagine that a broken condom is better than none at all. I'm not a doctor though so what I say really doesn't mean too much.

It's a good sign that SHE is worried about the broken condom, IMO that means she doesn't want to be infected rather than her worrying about infecting you.

Not much you can do about it now.  Maybe some xanax to calm you down until you find out in a few months that all is well.

[machodik]

(manarak @ Jan. 12 2010,22:37) and even if because of her reaction you think she might know that she is HIV+ , this doesn't mean increased risk of transmission.

If she knows she's HIV+, she then probably takes medication against HIV, which has the effect to reduce occurence of the virus in her blood.
In that case the risk of transmission is even less than 0.5%

Hi M,

Thanks for your informative answer, although you make it cleared that is is even less than 0.5% but still I am freaking out and I also recalled that I also have once bareback with a gg in myanmar that also just inside her for about a min or so without condom but did not ejaculate as well. becasue I was then having some wrong idea that only thru ejacualtion that is the time you sucked in vaginal fluids etc. well this is really a wrong idea and this make me feeling very very worry now. throughout the long time of my mongering, I always have it with condom just only this 2 incidense that making me miserables feeling and affecting my job.

I really wonder that how about those guys doing BB arounds, I wonder if they have no fear at all or it is just me making too much anxiety. I heard it has to wait for 3 months for a conclusive test for HIV. gosh, this is indeed a very pounding punishment for me. I really wish I did not have this encountered in my entire mongering life.

MD

[laputanegra]

hey no gays here but  

Hi

50 year old Danish LB lover, living in Phuket, just want to say hallo, and thanks for a great forum. I live in the Chalong area, but try to go to C&D at least once a month, so hope to see some of you gays there.

[manarak]

and why is it that I can't edit my own messages anymore

[manarak]

and even if because of her reaction you think she might know that she is HIV+ , this doesn't mean increased risk of transmission.

If she knows she's HIV+, she then probably takes medication against HIV, which has the effect to reduce occurence of the virus in her blood.
In that case the risk of transmission is even less than 0.5%

[manarak]

I think the idea with transmission through the tip/eye of the penis is bollocks.

HIV gets through the skin, especially the thin skin just under the penis' head.

And it is not relevant to your risk if you ejaculated in her arse or not.

[machodik]

(manarak @ Jan. 12 2010,21:53) she sucked you with a condom on?

I never saw a LB in Thailand who wanted to put a condom on my dick for a blowjob...

Must have been that rare bird then!


Relax about the risks with the broken condom.

Risk that your partner had HIV: about 1 to 5%, let's say 5% for the sake of the argument
Risk that a transmission took place: about 0.5%

0.05 * 0.005 = 0.00025 or 0.025%, even I exagerated the risks.

So relax, go take a test in some time, but don't freak out and use condoms.

Thanks

But I also fell weird that she wanted to use condom while sucking my cocks. and she also panicked after knowing my condom breaks. on top of all I feel very mad at myself why the condom broken. although that no ejaculation inside her anus but I am worry that the exposure of my penis inside her will make the membrane absorb any fluids or bloods inside her anus. I understant that transmission of fluids take place when a person ejaculate of which the force will pull back some fluid once ejacualtion finished and this is how a person get infected of any STD including HIV. not unless there is finding that fluids with HIV can penetrated the skin of teh penis or the opening of the urethra on tip of teh penis opening which I REALLY DON'T. KNOW IF THIS IS ANOTHER WAY OF TRNASMISSION.

I also feel sorry that I did not go to the local hospital to take some pep AFTER TEH EXPOSURE.

I feel very very upset and this has ruined my trip to LOS which initialy I wish to meet Eye and otehr beauties in cascades.

More info will be helpful to me.

MD

[manarak]

she sucked you with a condom on?

I never saw a LB in Thailand who wanted to put a condom on my dick for a blowjob...

Must have been that rare bird then!


Relax about the risks with the broken condom.

Risk that your partner had HIV: about 1 to 5%, let's say 5% for the sake of the argument
Risk that a transmission took place: about 0.5%

0.05 * 0.005 = 0.00025 or 0.025%, even I exagerated the risks.

So relax, go take a test in some time, but don't freak out and use condoms.

[machodik]

(celentano @ Dec. 31 2009,13:30) forget this shit..
Why you have to do this risk?
Do you like Russian Roulette?

Dear All,

I have a very very serious incidense happened during my recent visit to LOS. I have had an Anal Sex with a LB freelancer that I met outside the NEP. While during doing anla sex on her, I have discover my condom broken before ejaculation. at first I thought it isn'r. so I change a new one then I pull out the said new condom and finaly cum into her face.

Right after she left, I checked the first condom and found out it is broken. now this is fricking me out I don't. know what to do since this is the 5th days and I think it will be too late for PEP.

Can anyone advise if condom brokes before ejaculation how is the risk of being infected. this LB suck my cock with condom on and she also scare after knowing the condom brokes, but anyhow I presume she is high risk eventhough she told me she just got the exam last month.

So please give some advises.


MD

[donnnnnny]

GO the marons queenslander woo hooo

[f0xxee]

Actually so am I Azza,

And unless I am in a pub in Sydney or Bris-vegas actually on the night of an origin game I find the whole "Queeslander!" thing a bit ... mortifiying.