Without a clue!

[Guest]

I am a married man heading off to Patong in a couple of month's time. For a couple of years I have been fascinated with Ladyboys since seeing a group of them on the town in Roppongi in Tokyo. I love my wife dearly but I need to get this shit out of my system (or at least realise what it means to me). I am sure many of you have been through the same thing and I would appreciate some advise. I had guessed that a nice afternoon massage at Tootsies would be a nice gentle introduction.

[sev7en]

(jimryan55 @ Jan. 06 2009,05:18) I am a married man heading off to Patong in a couple of month's time.  For a couple of years I have been fascinated with Ladyboys since seeing a group of them on the town in Roppongi in Tokyo.  I love my wife dearly but I need to get this shit out of my system (or at least realise what it means to me).  I am sure many of you have been through the same thing and I would appreciate some advise.  I had guessed that a nice afternoon massage at Tootsies would be a nice gentle introduction.

Yeah, go to Thailand and cheat on your wife, good idea.

[Guest]

(sev7en @ Jan. 06 2009,05:23)

(jimryan55 @ Jan. 06 2009,05:18) I am a married man heading off to Patong in a couple of month's time.  For a couple of years I have been fascinated with Ladyboys since seeing a group of them on the town in Roppongi in Tokyo.  I love my wife dearly but I need to get this shit out of my system (or at least realise what it means to me).  I am sure many of you have been through the same thing and I would appreciate some advise.  I had guessed that a nice afternoon massage at Tootsies would be a nice gentle introduction.

Yeah, go to Thailand and cheat on your wife, good idea.

So I guess if my wife is with me, you would consider this as an even worse idea?

[marshal]

Listen mate, there are a few of us in relationships with women, i myself are one of them. It's not a nice predictment but the way i got over it, was when she said........" if you ever shit on me with another women that is it"........ well i ain't shit on her yet!!!!!!!!!
I do love my parterner very much, but she doesn't like lady boys! I think there are some guys on the forum who would say they wouldn't go with a ladyboy if they were in a relationship with aGG,but i think they would!
My only advice to you would be if you only wanted to experience a ladyboy once, fucking forget it- you will be back many times!!!!!!
Have fun mate

Gay,not gay, sexually liberated who gives a fuck! Oh i forgot Bi who cares!

[Guest]

(marshal @ Jan. 06 2009,06:17) Listen mate, there are a few of us in relationships with women, i myself are one of them. It's not a nice predictment but the way i got over it, was when she said........" if you ever shit on me with another women that is it"........ well i ain't shit on her yet!!!!!!!!!
I do love my parterner very much, but she doesn't like lady boys! I think there are some guys on the forum who would say they wouldn't go with a ladyboy if they were in a relationship with aGG,but i think they would!
My only advice to you would be if you experience a ladyboy once, and you want to experience once, fucking forget it- you will be back many times!!!!!!
Have fun mate

Thanks mate I just need to see how I handle the cock thing in real life, it may put we off for life or it may have the opposite effect!

[sev7en]

(jimryan55 @ Jan. 06 2009,05:41) So I guess if my wife is with me, you would consider this as an even worse idea?

Oh, i didn´t that was an option for you. That´s great. I can´t understand the cheating part.
Good luck!

[marshal]

I don't find blokes attractive, but i love ladyboys and they have cocks! I don't see the point in post ops, unless it was someone i knew and then i would probably decline.
The way i see it is, you have an interest, you have searched the net , you know you are going to try, if you really don't like it who is gonna know, you will forget and life goes on! The problem is if you find you like!!
First time i went with a LB was great the 2 monthe after thinking about it was hell. Then i realised that i liked it!

[bangkoksins]

I disagree with cheating in general. If both parties agree to play around then all is cool, but if not then I am personally against it.

I guess it depends on how much you value your wife and her love/trust.

Plus being caught is one thing, just make sure that if you do experiment that you do not catch something and give it to your innocent wife.

[Stogie]

Read the forum...

[great_shape]

I want to get over my lb addiction because i have a girl friend, and that was six years ago. I guess once you get some lb action you will never want to quit, at least thats how it is with me anyway.

[jimslim]

(bangkoksins @ Jan. 06 2009,07:45) I disagree with cheating in general.

Good chap ! We need a few like you with strong moral fibre around here

[manarak]

cheating or not, who cares?

is sex really cheating if it doesn't invole feelings? (hint: men answer no, women yes)

will you love your wife less after fucking a ladyboy?
would you be tempted to leave her?

...

who will really care at the end?
are you the type that is pursued by guilt until he blurts out what he did wrong?

won't we all return to dust at the end?

[petesie]

I personally think if you scratch this particular itch then your relationship with your loved one will be at risk....if, as you say, you love your wife very much, do not even consider this course of action...........

We are all different folks with different strokes and of course different circumstances.....I, for one, would not jeopardise a relationship for a fling, regardless of sexuality, common sense should be liberally applied here....you can certainly look........with the alternative being Pandora's box.........

[sev7en]

(manarak @ Jan. 07 2009,01:22) cheating or not, who cares?

[robbo]

fuckin hell guys,just what planet do you think your wives/girlfreinds live on? if your going to thailand bangkok in particular,dont you think they know what youll probably be up to? jezz