I Can't Be Trusted

[Road Runner]

Two things strike me about Solice's threads  -  I'm not knocking him just a couple of observations.

He seems to think that his girlfriend has got most/all of her information specifically from the internet and yet he states:- The ex gf had suspicions about Paeng
Why did the ex-gf have suspicions?  Previous experience, photographs she'd seen before?   As Deepthroat stated most people leave a trail of crumbs to their crimes.

The other thing is both Solice and Tan say they don't know each other and Tan does not know Paeng.
I take that as read  -  so that being the case how would Tan give;-  details about me and Paeng.     Maybe Tan should go into business reading crystal balls.    

RR.

[Steff]

Tan, there is an old saying: "No good deed goes unpunished"

You did what you believed was right. You were kind, caring, charitable and supportive to some gal you don't even know. I think what most are saying above is you have nothing to feel badly about. We all think you're a remarkable lady. So don't worry about it.

[f0xxee]

So:

This dude has a GF back in Blighty.
He is engaged to Paeng from Ezy.
He is so gormless that he posts ladyboys all over facebook in his own name.
And then he has the hide to pillory our poor Tan?
He deserves the wasabi and jalepeno enema he is currently receiving for firstly stringing along Paeng from Ezy when her was already committed elsewhere, and secondly for being such a fucking dipshit as to post it all on Facebook.


I know that "heros' on the forum is definately the flavour du jour... But honestly, how many twats get caught out because they are breaking some sort of societal norm in the first place?

About the only ones I have had any sympathy in the last 12 months for are Tan for lending a shoulder to cry on, and FF who is a single and simple monger in CM. Most of the rest have got what they deserved. Of course in my humble opinion.

[manarak]

yeah - I am Transgirls on the other forum.

Because of all the last cases of Heroes and leaks of forum info to ladyboys and other persons, I am still very angry and I may have overreacted a bit with Tan.

But I still do think Tan should have stopped the chat as soon as the topic went onto ladyboys and boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.

The Facebook thing is a really stupid thing to do (even he has just a couple of pics of a ladyboy in his hundreds of FB pics), but why would Solice just make up a story? His side of story has to come from somewhere.

Maybe the GF told him that Tan told her the story so the GF would not look like she spent hours on the net playing PI in his back.

[Road Runner]

Perhaps the truest statement of all:-

Mr Tiew

If anybody puts ANYTHING on the internet ANYWHERE, there is absolutely no expectation of privacy.

RR.

[laputanegra]

Thank you guys that you understand what is going on here.not like on the other forum They can't understand the fact that there was no information exchange and that twats gf already knows everything about thru his facebook photos and comments. thanks for the support i feel so loved. i wanna hug and kiss you all.

I wonder where is Transgirl i know he is a poster of this forum too. and he hates the word CHEATING there in bold letters again for you.

[laputanegra]

(manarak @ Nov. 22 2010,17:51) But I still do think Tan should have stopped the chat as soon as the topic went onto ladyboys and boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.

The Facebook thing is a really stupid thing to do (even he has just a couple of pics of a ladyboy in his hundreds of FB pics), but why would Solice just make up a story? His side of story has to come from somewhere.

Maybe the GF told him that Tan told her the story so the GF would not look like she spent hours on the net playing PI in his back.

Whats your problem if I chatted with her? like i said i will talk to whoever i want.

That guys gf knows everything no information i have given to that girl as she knows everything already. what we did was talk and i listen to her story. i don't see anything wrong with that well if you think thats wrong then that is your problem. and you are not part of this problem in the first place you are over reacting and so exaggerated. you are entitled to your opinion but you your taking it personal on me. if you have nothing good to say here just shut your mouth. you honestly don't understand what is going on.

[manarak]

I think she may have lied to Solice about how much you told her.

If that is the case, I apologize.

[Jake_Sully]

Tan there's no reason to get stressed over nothing. There is a very simple thai proverb that covers this entire situation: "Wear a mask!"

The bottom line is, If you didn't do anything wrong, then no one should be interested at all in what you did. Just let it go. No one will remember anything in a few weeks, except "someone did not wear a mask on facebook".

Go out party and have fun!  

[deepthroat]

Don't let it get to you Tan. And YES Manarek you owe Tan a big apology.

To clarify one thing - Solstice doesnt really seem to be a dickhead, he's justifiably upset and it's human to want to blame someone else, especially when the wounds are very deep AND self-inflicted. And as I understand it, he's not stringing Paeng along, but seems to be very sincere. I believe this woman (GG) is either his ex-wife or ex-GF and not someone he's currently with. But you know the saying, the fury of a woman scorned.... she was scorned and has now taken it upon herself to make his life miserable by "outing" him for his ladyboy love. She is telling him that she found out the information by searching his Facebook and doing internet searches, as well as speaking to Tan, so he's naturally making a big leap in logic and assuming that Tan told him more than she should have.

So let's not all jump to conclusions and vilify him either. It's an unfortunate situation, he's justifiably hurt and angry, but at the wrong target. I think he'll come to see that as he calms down. The mods have "closed" the thread on the other site which is good.

Hang in their Tan, we love you.

[manarak]

I believe this woman (GG) is either his ex-wife or ex-GF and not someone he's currently with.

You got that wrong.

From what I understood he has an ex-wife as well as a current GF, a stunning Thai girl in London.
AND
he clearly wrote that Tan disclosed info to his GF.

That last part may be a lie that was told to him by his GF, but I don't think he made it up.
...
Solice posted that he would contact Tan, I wonder what truth or truce will come out of this.

you owe Tan a big apology.

As I already wrote, if Tan really kept completely shut about Solice on MSN, I apologize to Tan.
But... how would YOU know for sure what was exactly said on MSN?

[laputanegra]

His current gf is not a Stunning Thai Girl. she is a British Girl.

Im talking with the girl right now to ask her whats going on. and why is her stupid boyfriend blaming me for all of this.

some part of the chat.

A says:
he is a idiot, i have told him if he didn't want anyone to know he should shut his own mouth
as he was the one that told me everything
i just peiced it together

[iceberg]

Glad to see you've made a new friend Tan way to prove how much you like to talk to others outside this forum about what goes on here.

[laputanegra]

(manarak @ Nov. 23 2010,02:25)

you owe Tan a big apology.

As I already wrote, if Tan really kept completely shut about Solice on MSN, I apologize to Tan.
But... how would YOU know for sure what was exactly said on MSN?

I don't need your apology. what we have chat in MSN is between me and the girl or if she want it to share with her bf. you absolutely have nothing to do with it. why not go to solice and comfort him he needs someone like you so bad.

[spare wheel]

To much name calling to get involved.

waste of a time reading any of it or this thread.