For the month of hearts

[JustSumGai]

(newwriter @ Feb. 08 2008,16:42) Not surprised to see NF's response. Personally, I recently suffered through the lowest period of my life in the death throes of a long term relationship (with a gg) where my love was not reciprocated so I lean rather strongly the other way.

I'm with you, it's been a long time since I've felt I was loved more than *I* loved. I'd rather it be equal. If that's possible.

[JustSumGai]

(stogie bear @ Feb. 08 2008,16:50) However just recently I have been experiencing the stirrings of passion that I thought had long since died... I'll wait and see how it pans out!

I had that feeling recently Stoagie after a while of feeling it was not possible. My advice would be to RUN. Wish ya luck tho.

[JustSumGai]

(mesmer @ Feb. 10 2008,13:25)

(statuesque @ Feb. 10 2008,01:58) Fell in love for the first time. Gave everything to the guy - pride, dignity and all. Ended up completely heartbroken *shattering glass*    Now I prefer and feel happiest being with someone who puts me first before everything else. Or something like that  


S

You know S you might wanna try loving people without expecting anything in return? Real love is its own reward and it conquers everything - even the bitterness,resentment and heartbreak of having the person you love/loved not feel the same for you. Just a suggestion but what do I know - not much I guess

first response...how presumptuous
second....how insulting
third.....what poo
forth....what a lovely gracious response to it

[statuesque]

 Im a bit confused, these are your four responses to whom? Mine or to mesmer?  


S

[Naang Faa]

hi Miss Statuesque

He means Mesmer was rude to you..
....and your response was gracious
(which indeed it was)
x

[pacman]

Excuse me ladies, evening all.

I thought I might find you over here Miss Faa.
I just wanted to check up on your preparations for your grand arrival down by the seaside tomorrow.
I can report all will be in readiness at this end.
Sam said today he wanted to check on the Bacardi supplies.

We can't have the honoured guest going thirsty.

It will be our pleasure to make your aquaintance after learning so much about you.

To you Miss Statuesque, my assurance that Miss Faa will be accorded all the respect that is her due.
It would have been a nice touch to have flown you in as a surprise,
unfortunately the party budget was pretty much spent buying two packets of plastic doilies.

Nothing but the best for the Princess of the Forum.

Hey, nice place you have over here, this Powder Room, I might drop by again . . .

. . . if that's OK with the moderator.

Well good night all, I can hear a lonely beer bottle calling for assistance.

[Naang Faa]

[/QUOTE]Hey, nice place you have over here, this Powder Room, I might drop by again . . .

. . . if that's OK with the moderator.[QUOTE]

It's OK Paac Maan,
As long as you keep the language down to a minimum and leave
out the naughty emoticons you'll be welcome..

As usual with us lot.we can't organize anything...
First they were going to let me go alone.....
Then they all want to go....
Then we cut it down to 6....
Then one gets a customer who takes her away for a few days..
Then another gets summoned for dinner with her father,so another girl has to drive her
back from the temple in Chonburi we have to visit...
So now there are only three."the Trinity of Stupidity" ....and then we are going on holiday
after the do..and we don't even know where yet!!..
x

[pacman]

The Trinity of Stupidity is about to meet the Battalion of Depravity
in the Arena of Debauchery.

Only the strong will survive, which suggests SB may be short a
few members next week.

Are there any not coming?

We had a big turn out last night, & that was only a practise run.

[Fred_Nguyen]

I love to love a woman.

I'm a total romantic at heart.

[friedfrunk]

womantic

[chris9005]

Interesting thread, although I am rather surprised at the original question: "which would you rather choose - that you love the person more than he/she does, or he/she loves you more than you do?"

I'm unfortunately one of nature's romantics, so I want to fall in love with someone at the same time as they fall in love with me, and that we ride away into the sunset, hand-in-hand, blah blah.

Of course it doesn't happen like that (not yet - of course, it WILL happen one day, won't it?) but surely the ideal is to love someone with the same passion and urgency as they love you. Otherwise, one or other is going to feel hurt or disappointed.

A couple of years ago, 30-plus-year-old marriage died, for reasons too boring to recount. Yet even after that, and even at my age (62) I still hope to find a romantic attachment. Which goes to show that (a) hope springs eternal, and (b) there's no fool like an old fool.

On the other hand, if SB can experience "the stirrings of passion that I thought had long since died" there's hope for me yet.

Anyway, belated happy Valentines one and all.

[terryw]

A couple of weeks late for Valentines day but my girlfriend has confirmed that she will be collecting her UK Visa tomorrow.

Arrives Manchester on July 21st.

[fionasexyangel]

yes it is interesting.. i guess all gurls hoping to have someone love her, as it's a everafter love story...

but it's not always end up like that huh?
what been happened to me recently, hurt a lot but makes me stronger... we can't expect too much right?
but yes never stop hoping keeps me alive..
so before february ended.. wish everyone a happy valentine's day...

happy birthday for you skat... happy valentine's day for you too... jeg elsker dig.... jeg savner dig...


will travel to states again in a month or two.. and would be great to hear from some friends.. maybe we can meet for coffee...

been quiet time didn't get into the forum.. good to read some posting.. and hello for all gurls...
keep up good works guys... it's always good to come back....



fiona

[Monkey]

(fionasexyangel @ Feb. 27 2008,04:39) i guess all gurls hoping to have someone love her, as it's a everafter love story...

I don't think that's just reserved for girls.
Us guys want/need to feel loved as well, even if we won't admit it...

what been happened to me recently, hurt a lot but makes me stronger... we can't expect too much right?
but yes never stop hoping keeps me alive..

Keep hoping Fiona, don't let it make you bitter and twisted, one day your Prince will come.

[fionasexyangel]

thank you monkey.. that's so sweet of you...
yes.. i won't stop hoping... well, i have the capacity to share my life with someone.. so i guess just trying to find him outside there...

all the best luck for you and everyone too...


fi