Philippine Blues

[divertwo]

...amazing you can feel they are solid when having never met them face to face.....The PI is not unlike Thailand in that you need to assume that all the LB's in Cebu talk with each other and will know you are "window shopping" and comparing all the girls with each other during your "test drive". Most are wise to the fact that 99% of the visiting westerners are there to "use" them for sex.....give false promises, and rarely if ever return. Here is a great quote from a pretty savvy LB in the Philippines:

"Have you wondered why Filipina TS€™ search for Foreign Lovers? If you consider Us to be one of the best looking girls in the face of this world, have u asked yourself why we still remain Single and if we are NOT, why do we keep on posting ads on dating sites such as this?

Well you don€™t have to think anymore. Here are some of the answers I€™ve come up through my personal experience and through experiences of my friends and other TS I€™ve met.

REASON NO. 1 FOR SEX

Since the Philippines is a pre-dominant Christian country, even if nowadays homosexuality is no longer consider a taboo or something that is out of this world, still we can never erase the fact that the idea of being with the same sex is still not yet accepted for some Filipinos. Even if we look like a woman or I should say even prettier than an average Filipina girl, Filipino men still have hesitations on having relationship with us. Yes, most of the men here are very open to have sexual relationships with TS but don€™t expect they can be your BFs. There are no special treatment for TS here in the Philippnes. Gay, Bisexual, Tg/TS are all the same in the eyes of Filipino men. They call us €œBAKLA€, which means gay. Somehow people here believe that if a guy falls in love with a TS he is presume to be gay. Some men don€™t think this way but most of this €œsome men€ will only have relationship with TS for MONEY. So why do u think TS wants You to be their lover. Well basically because foreign men are more mature enough for this kind of relationship and they are willing to love us without thinking of what other people will say behind their back.

REASON NO. 2 FOR SEX

I said that Filipino Men are willing to have sex with us rather than to be their lovers. But it doesn€™t necessarily means that they are really good in bed. In the Philippines, Most of the Men here are not versatile. Remember that they are willing to have sex with Us because they think of Us as Real Women. So it€™s always TS who gives oral and anal sex not the other way around. At some point of time I€™ve never complained about this with my ex-boyfriends but of course there came a time that I asked myself how could my bf be a good lover if he cannot sexually satisfy me. Foreign men are different, the reason they like TS because of what we can €œoffer€. So when it comes to bed, we are assure that these men are dying to be with us just to pleasure us. They exactly know what they want. (Note: I met some Filipino men who gave me a fellatio and offered to be stimulated anally but its very rare u meet a guy like this. RATIO is 2 out Of 100 Filipino men.)

REASON NO. 3 FOR MONEY/ FOR SECURITY

A lot of TS are willing to have sex with Foreign men because these men are willing to spend money just to have sex with them. I€™ve been with Foreign men so I really know how generous they can be just to be with the TS that they really like That€™s why most of the TS will do everything just to find a perfect catch. A guy who they like, a guy who is good in bed who and a guy who is willing to spend money for them. I .cannot blame TS who€™ve been into prostitution because it€™s really an easy money for them. I mean they enjoy the sex and they will have money at the same time.

After this posting ad, I know I will receive tons of replies like what I€™ve received in my previous posts asking me which of the 3 reasons I€™m IN. Well to be honest with you, it can all be 3. It depends of course of whom I€™ll be meeting with. If he€™s looking for love, romance or just sex, then any of this 3 reasons I can apply. Some men might think how crazy I am to write something like this if I know some will be offended. I€™m posting ads like this because I believe that the greatest challenge in life is to find someone who knows my faults and weaknesses but still willing to embrace me with so much love and without doubt. If offended you in anyway, I am sorry.. DIS IS ME, Love me, Hate me, I€™m just being ME. Good Beyond My Imperfections"

[jasperblubber2006]

you ask how do i know i am solid, well, not wanting to bore everyone with details i did leave out one thing, one of my closest friends married a lady from cebu a while back, even though he likes the ladies he still likes the ladyboys, after my first contact with the philippine lb's i asked my friend to meet them, he not only talked to them he has met two of them face to face, so i would think that saying i am in solid has some merit.
jasper

[divertwo]

indeed a great way to weed out the losers. We all should have friends like that!

[bigmick22]

the comments in this thread annoy me for a number of reasons

1. The inference is generally that PI is worse than LOS because of tips, bribes, scmas etc. But that shit is just as rampant in LOS - I see posts on that in the forum every day and have experienced it myself.

2. A lot of comments are based on experiences in P4P scene. Just as in LOS, the P4P scene in PI is not representative of the whole country. Also, a number of people here are commenting on PI without having been there - no need to comment on how ridiculous that is

3. A lot of people in PI generally like westerners. That's certainly not the case in LOS. I lived in manila for a year but before that I lived in CHina. WHile in China I travelled regularly to PI and it was heaven in comparison to CHina. Now that really is a corrupt country where the average person does not like foreigners.

4. Taxi drivers in most countries are bloody scum and out to screw people. I have experienced this in many countries. Once in DUblin, I git a taxi but had no luggage with me. The driver was pissed off because he thought I worked at airport and apparently there is an agreement that airport workers get their taxis elsewhere. He explained this was because he was hoping to get a "Yank" so he could charge them 100 euro to city centre (instead of 30 euro)

5. Manila and Angeles are not PI. There are other parts!!

6. Regarding tips, I never feel under such pressure to tip as when I'm in the US. And it was americans who introduced the idea of tips to Asia - it's not a traditional thing in these countries. I absolutely hate american hotels where you will indeed have staff waiting with their hands out for money and doing bugger-all to earn it. And they expect a  more than their PI or LOS equivalent. And it's generally not optional. A tip is supposed to be for outstanding service only!!

[liisawinkler]

i can perfectly sympathize with you about the taxi driver shit going on here in the Philippines...if taxi drivers can scam and WOULD scam the locals how much more farang people??? that's why I never go to manila and will avoid that place if I Can because they have the worst taxi drivers in the country.....