How do you prepare to be topped?

[realdbow51]

What do you all do to prepare to be topped by a LB? I got myself a nice big 8 inch dildo to get my ass ready. Been using it often. But anything specific you do or a routine? I know its a weird question but I know I can't be the only one thinking about these things. Curious what your routines are for it.

[Escierto]

My girlfriend is a pure top who has fucked me hundreds of times over the past seven years.

Normally I am very clean down there and I seldom need to do anything special to prepare. She puts a little lube on her dick and a little in my hole and away we go.

If I feel I need some preparation, I have a bulb syringe that I use to put water up my rectum. When the water comes back out clear, I am done. That usually cleans out anything hiding up there.

In all our time together, we have never had any "mishaps" and she has a pretty big cock that gets way up there.

[realdbow51]

My girlfriend is a pure top who has fucked me hundreds of times over the past seven years.

Normally I am very clean down there and I seldom need to do anything special to prepare. She puts a little lube on her dick and a little in my hole and away we go.

If I feel I need some preparation, I have a bulb syringe that I use to put water up my rectum. When the water comes back out clear, I am done. That usually cleans out anything hiding up there.

In all our time together, we have never had any "mishaps" and she has a pretty big cock that gets way up there.

Good tips. I did buy a bulb syringe that I just got so going to start using it. Its been awhile since I have been fucked in my ass so I want to make sure its good and prepared for my trip to BKK. Thanks for the feedback. Very valuable to know.

[Rockheart]

Just get like an 8" ribbed dildo and practice with it.
Use it in the shower beforehand to help clean and prepare.

Use real KY jelly as it is the perfect consistency and available at the till at any 7-11.
Water based lubes often don't lube enough. Silicone based lubes often lube too much.

Have several alcoholic drinks, if possible.

[realdbow51]

Just get like an 8" ribbed dildo and practice with it.
Use it in the shower beforehand to help clean and prepare.

Use real KY jelly as it is the perfect consistency and available at the till at any 7-11.
Water based lubes often don't lube enough. Silicone based lubes often lube too much.

Have several alcoholic drinks, if possible.

Can you get sex toys/dildos in Bangkok? If so where? I am not sure I can bring my from the states. I read that its illegal to bring in sex toys. That could be bullshit, but this is my first trip there so I have no idea. Any insight on that would be great.

[KathoeyStars]

Can you get sex toys/dildos in Bangkok? If so where? I am not sure I can bring my from the states. I read that its illegal to bring in sex toys. That could be bullshit, but this is my first trip there so I have no idea. Any insight on that would be great.

If you're walking through Sukhumvit / Nana area of an evening (and probably during the day too) you'll see street vendor / market stalls with them on offer. Your home government and local Thai embassy websites should contain details of restricted items if you want to check and see if they frown upon personal massage devices 😁

[realdbow51]

"personal massage devices"

Notice I put it in quotes? LOL.

[Rockheart]

If you're walking through Sukhumvit / Nana area of an evening (and probably during the day too) you'll see street vendor / market stalls with them on offer. Your home government and local Thai embassy websites should contain details of restricted items if you want to check and see if they frown upon personal massage devices 😁

I have taken dildos to Thailand every time I have gone to Thailand.
I have entered the Kingdom 50 times and never been flagged for search. I accidently got into the search line once and they kicked my out. Couldn't even get searched if I tried.
From what I have seen they mainly search Thai citizens returning from trips. They only search tourists if they have a specific reason to. Like if you were a reported drug dealer or something.

There is no mention of Personal massage devices or sex toys. Only pornography or obscene materials.
Post Op ladyboys have a big bag of dildos wherever they go for medical purposes. It could also be considered a medical device for yourself.
If you had a personal massage device with a lithium battery, it would need to be in your carry on.

Prohibited goods are strictly illegal to bring into or out of Thailand. There are no permits for these.

• Vaping Devices & E-Cigarettes: This includes all "Electronic Nicotine Delivery Systems" (ENDS), e-liquids, and Heated Tobacco Products (HTP) like IQOS.
• Narcotics & Unlicensed Cannabis: As of mid-2025/2026, Thailand has re-regulated cannabis. Bringing any cannabis, hemp, or CBD products into the country without a specific Thai FDA medical import license is a serious criminal offense.
• IPR Infringing Goods: Counterfeit designer clothes, fake watches, and pirated software/media.
• Obscene Materials: Any media considered pornographic or that insults the Thai Royal Family (Lèse-majesté laws).
• Fake Currency & Royal Seals: Counterfeit notes or official government stamps.
• Protected Wildlife: Souvenirs made from ivory, turtle shells, or certain types of wood (like Agarwood) are strictly banned under CITES.

Don't put sextoys you buy on the street in your body. If you can't guarantee they are medical grade then don't use them. They could be toxic and you could get sick or hurt.
Just buy safe toys at home and bring them. There is no specific law against it.