Ladyboy vacation

[Guest]

I was a little discouraged to hear from a ladyboy the other day that she was paid 'only' 15,000 baht for a 5-day trip to Phuket with one of the members from the website. this kind of pisses me off, frankly, and is one more reason to me to be a little cynical when dealing with some, but certainly not all ladyboys.

I could be wrong, but it seems to me that taking someone from the bar for 5 days, buying her food and hotel room, maybe a little shopping, and letting her relax for 5 days and not have to go into her crappy bar and deal with old fat guys should be enough. but that's just me, and it's probably part of the reason my last GF and me were finished after our trip to Samui; I figured 12 days all expenses paid was a pretty good gift, but when Aon got no 'payment' after we returned she started looking for greener pastures. and that's her and every other ladyboys prerogative; I am sure there are guys out there willing to pay a girl 3 or 4000 per day to hang with them AND have a week or 2 on some tropical island, but i am not one of them.

i know that these girls have to make a living, but to me a vacation from work where they don't have to open their wallet, and are catered to and have nice dinners and good hotels, etc, should be a good deal for them. Isn't that enough? seems not to be the case.

jon

[Guest]

i totally agree with you Jon
this is just another reason NOT to get a bar girl. at least ask around and find one that doesn't think her time is money. i spent 4 days with a LB from patpong street and she never wanted anything from me. she was sweet and nice and not a MONEY BITCH that i have heard so many bar girls are. they are paid for taking up their time so many of them think they should get paid for every moment with them. i hoped that he was getting laid several times a day for giving her that much AFTER spending all that other money on her.

[tropical]

I feel sorry for that Guy ,
why would you take a greedy bitch like that on holiday especially to Phuket where there is an abundacnce of talent.
If you feel you must limit yourself to one girl and take her with you on a side trip at least know that she isnt a whining money hungry bitch, and that she genuinely enjoys your company and appreciates your gesture.
I made the mistake of taking a girl with me from Bkk to Pkt once, and although she appreciated this and we had a good time, I couldnt help but get bored with the one Girl, when there was so much more to try.
Butterfly For Life.

[Guest]

Beautiful Thai LBs' time can be engaged for as little as 500 Baht per day up to as much as "THE SKY IS THE LIMIT" per day.
It is our responsibitity to do things on behalf of OUR best interests just as they do things on behalf of THEIR  best interests.
If both parties are happy with "the deal", then that is the best possible outcome for all parties concerned, right?
Just make sure BOTH parties are happy with "the deal".
Mr. Lonely

[Guest]

yes, that is very true; the  British have a way of  saying this  by saying it's like  "taking coal to newcastle".  taking a ladyboy to Phuket or pattaya is a bad deal because there are so many around,  and even if you just want to be with one you can meet her there and hang for the whole week.  to her credit, aon never 'asked'  me for money after our long trips to Chiang  Rai and also to samui,  but she was probably dissapointed she didn't get a payoff because all her greedy friends  from KC3 get one after they go away with guys. as i say, i could never even imagine taking away someone for 10 or 12 days of relaxation and pleasure and then handing them 20 or 30,000 baht afterwards as some type of sexual payola. as the girls around here frequently say, "for what"?

     debating whether or not to take away chompoo for a  week or so in april,  but i know for a  fact that she will be expecting a payment after that and i am just dead-set against it. she will know that before we go anywhere, and if she says no, i will just find someone else.  again, i feel that if  these girls are getting a  nice week away from their bars and all expenses paid, that should be enough, but it rarely is.

       i'm sure i will  get shit about this post from some ladyboys  but as i said in january, it's not my job to protect these girls anymore. chompoo says to me last week "many girls are angry with you now because you told your customers not to send support payments to ladyboys".  as i told her, if  guys that read this forum are really in need of my guidance as far as  whether or not to squander their hard-earned money on ladyboys, they have some major problems and should wake up, frankly.   she didn't get it  LOL.

   Jon

[Guest]

Yea, gotta to agree with you Jon. Had planned to take a certain ladyboy away myself as she asked me to last time I was with her but after contemplating the fact of all the expenses and the fact that I'll be just another customer I think I'll ditch the idea and head off to pastures new. You would think that you would be doing them a favour taking them out to beach resorts and wining and dining them but it seems that it is not your company they want just your wallet. Nothing changes except the seasons ! Enjoy your trip with Chompoo - have fun.

Bricktop

[Guest]

ok all rocket scientists...
take a bar girl expect to pay (you get sex for money, business transaction)
take a country girl (you get relationship, which you prolly don't want)

whats so difficult?

[Guest]

Fucking hell - behold fellows the fountain of all knowledge. Do you happen to know were the Holy grail is too ?

Bricktop

[Guest]

Yeah guys I agree mostly with you.....but from a prof bar girls POV the situation is most likely that she doesnt actually like eating at those farang places which have shit food ( from her POV) and that consuming all that actually provides her nothing of value...and shed rather eat at the street stalls near Nana......do they have insects at Pket??

She prob doesnt actually really like you anyway and is away from all her support networks and has to entertain you and appear happy 24/7....hard work....and thinking about all those lucrative STs that she could be doing back at the bar.....

Anyway you are a fucking fool if you dont get the business end of the deal sorted out clear and in advance before you take a pro LB away.......You will prob find out a lot more about her attitude by that negotiation...and get a better feel if you want to be with her anyway...

Cheers

[Guest]

@ bricktop
yeah i've see the holy grail, but its not all its cracked up to be  

@perth
well said...its a "business negotation"
so peeps, if your playing with bar girls, do yourselves a favor and don't fantasize otherwise. even if you are brad pitt

[Guest]

Gentlemen: Just have fun before the worms begin eating out the jelly in your eye sockets.
Nuff said.
Mr. Lonely

[Guest]

hahaha......good point, Mr Lonely....and try to keep as much dough in YOUR pockets as possible until that time arrives.

Jon

[Mai-Kee]

Just like Ice said: They're hookers, it's their job - and going to a nice place on a sunny island is just one point on their menu. Take it and you have to pay - simple as that! Maybe you can negotiate a bit here and there - like you do it when you buy a car, but why the hell should she give it for free??? Of course going to a beach resort with a nice guy is one of the good things in their job life, compared to all the nasty fat and dirty shorttimers and I'm sure that's what makes the whole thing negotiable, but it's still job! Same like we have nice parts, such as business trips that we extend to paid leisure trips and tough parts in our jobs.
It's very simple: Hookers(lb's, gg's, guys)=payment, non-hookers=little gifts, kisses, love,......
I never took a hooker somewhere, I only go with them for st and do the lovy-dovy things with all the civilians out there.


MK

[stogie bear]

So let me get this straight... You take a bargirl/lb away from work for a week and she should be happy lounging around in your hotel room eating western food for that time?

This ain't no 'vacation' for these girls. They have seen more nice hotel rooms' that I have had hot bleedin' dinners. 3,000 Baht is about right I reckon if you are daft enough to want to take one girl on vacation.

Does she have to pay her own bar fine while she is away? Hmmm... probably. Does she enjoy eating steak and baked potato? Probably NOT!

saw Chompoo last night and asked her which would she like more... a trip to Khon Kaen or a week in Paris France... guess what? She went for Khon Kaen!

What is a week off for us guys is probably a lot more than just a pain in the ass for these girls!

[tropical]

I dont think you should expect not to pay something for their time away , but 3000bt + bar fine per day +meals and accommodation, no fucking way.
I wouldnt pay that for longtime anywhere in Thailand , theres just to many to choose from , fuck the greedy bitches, (literally) then fuck them off.