BM code of conduct

[simon_125]

We all have a soft spot for particular lbs. For some its an lb they take everytime time they visit los for a st/lt and then carry on butterflying, for others they take their fav for their entire trip. When i first went to nana with a group of board members there seemed to be a gentlemans agreement among some that you are allowed 1 exclusive lb that the other guys wouldn't take while you were smitten with her.
Under what circumstances would you not bar fine a friend or fellow BMs favorite?
I think for me if a friend was really into a particular lb and only saw her when he visited los and didn't butterfly around then I wouldn't bar fine her. But if a BM I knew had a real soft spot for a lb but still butterflied and saw other girls I wouldn't have a problem bar fining her.
We have all probably stepped on each others toes at one time or another. You might end up having to discount half your favorites lbs if you felt uncomfortable bar fining a lb that had history with one of your friends.
What do you reckon guys?

[seamus]

Shit, this could be a fun read ! How many are still gonna be friends after this one ?

[seamus]

I know wot My GF (avatar) does for a living,but I dont want to read about it on here.

[Monkey]

Under what circumstances would you not bar fine a friend or fellow BMs favorite?

If he was there and wanted to BF her!

I mean, c'mon these are hookers we're talking about, not some chick in the typing pool.

If it breaks your heart to see someone else banging your favourite girl then get over it, it's what they do.

A real friend would share her anyway....

[Stewart]

Under what circumstances would you not bar fine a friend or fellow BMs favorite?

WTF ....absolutely none   ...unless I was too pissed

This is the PAY FOR PLAY scene - if she wants to take my money, she is fair game

[divertwo]

(seamus @ Dec. 19 2007,09:57) I know wot My GF (avatar)

come on, give me a break .....she is your "girl friend"? I must be old school in my definition of girl friend....but I suppose if you use the LB p4p definition........anyone you sleep with is your GF/BF...at least for the moment I'm just pulling your chain a little....but I'm still using my brain like a westerner..... ...and cautious with the words I use....

[daveduke007]

I actually would "not" go with a friends "favourite" with whom he would see every trip and that would go for friends who b/f certain girls many times also ( damm you TT with Candy )

[Guest]

Many BM's on here know my take on this. Basically if she is still working in the bar then she is fair game.

I guess the only time I would not bar fine someone elses preferred would be if we walked into the bar together and I knew he wanted her. However if I was there alone then all bets are off.

[katoeylover]

We all know what they do for a living, so I guess, as Ozzie says, if they are in the bar, they are fair game.

However, if i knew it was a close mate's favourite, i probably wouldn't go with them.

But to each their own.

[thaibound]

if a mate's favorite were working in the bar when i walked in, i would hope he'd rather know she was safe from harm and sponsorship on a one-time date with me, rather than up for grabs by some other punter looking to steal her away for perhaps an extended and more "involved" relationship.
but the one time i mentioned this concept, my "friend" said "stay the fuck away from my ***!" lol

[stogie bear]

I can't believe this thread has had any responses!

[PigDogg]

(daveduke007 @ Dec. 19 2007,14:53) I actually would "not" go with a friends "favourite" with whom he would see every trip

Every situation is a bit different but I'm more or less with Dave on this one. I'm not saying others should do the same.

[Guest]

(PigDogg @ Dec. 20 2007,13:36)

(daveduke007 @ Dec. 19 2007,14:53) I actually would "not" go with a friends "favourite" with whom he would see every trip

Every situation is a bit different but I'm more or less with Dave on this one.  I'm not saying others should do the same.

What exactly is the issue? Is it because you know the guy because if a girl is working in a bar it is likely she is being shagged by many other guys the BM may or may not know.

Looking at it from the girls point of view this is her work and the BM is stopping her from making money.

I really do not understand what the problem is here as these girls are hookers right? They are not a girlfriend, because if they were they would not be in the bar.

Maybe if the BM saw his preferred girl going off with someone else he knows it would make him wake up and realise it is a business arrangement and not some romantic interlude.

[kahuna]

It's not an issue if you do like me and just take the ugly girls...

[skeeterboy069]

So,what if you and your mates walked in to your"favorite's bar and you saw getting BF'd and she saw you also,is it any different just because you don't know the guy getting her?