First of all I choose to post here on the Board where I have been a member the longest time (1.5 years) vs. a board that I have been on a few weeks. Secondly, after reading that outrageous thread on that lb69 board and seeing the 95%+ support for an individual that posted a thread filled with pure BS with no facts or evidence whatsoever€¦.there is no way I could give that facts there without a bias already existing.
I must refrain from giving some details, and I am sure you all understand due to the fact I am living here. This is NOT an interesting read or movie€¦€¦€¦€¦.its real life with real people involved.
I have lived in Pattaya since Aug 1, 2007 and butterfly very often due to the many high quality girls available. All the girls know that I am a huge butterfly. I went with Pond several times during August €¦.we were in a business relationship during that time. She received ample pay for services rendered and I was also satisfied. I avoided seeing her by the end of August due to her increasing possesiveness and jealousy over my barfining other girls. I had advice from another BM that saw her erratic behavior and jealousy as did I. I thought it was best to move on and only see other ladies. Pond continued to quite literally stalk me. I found new rooms or hotels to stay at and I kept changing rooms and hotels to avoid her. She would often get angry that I was in town and not calling her or seeing her. During the time I was avoiding her, she deliberately had my name tattooed on her body which I could not believe after telling her how much I hate tattoos in a previous conversation. She went as far as e-mailing me the pics of it while I was in Bangkok hoping that would make me leave the girl I was seeing there and rush back to her.
During the two months of Sept and Oct, I avoided contacting her. She on the other hand would call multiple times a day. When she would reach me I would only say hello and chat briefly with her€¦€¦€¦€¦.there was NO Sexual Relations€¦€¦€¦..She would often call me or send an SMS multiple times daily saying hello, asking for advise, or help with problems at 131 or with a customer etc€¦and even asking for money for taxi or food.
On Nov 1, 2007 I came out of my Apt. to find my new motorbike was trashed. I saw that somebody tore off both mirrors, stole the bike helmet (brand new), attempted to steal the bike, jammed the ignition switch€¦€¦pulled out a knife and slit open the seat from end to end. Inquiries were made to management. Examination of the security tapes found that Pond had trashed the motorbike during a 12 minute time frame.
I challenged her about this. At first she denied it. Later she sent me several messages saying sorry and that she would fix the bike. After 3 days she failed to repair the bike.
I called her to ask if she would fix the bike finally. She responded by saying, she would rather spend the baht on hiring Thai men to injure me. It was at this point I was advised by My Thai friends and falang friends that this information along with security tapes should be taken to the police quickly so as to ensure my personal safety.
The police viewed the tape and immediately questioned her. The Police wanted to know if I wanted her imprisoned. I answered I only wanted compensation for the damage to the bike and for her to leave me alone. They obtained 1k baht on the spot with the promise of more to follow. The police assured me that she would not contact me again, nor would I be injured or killed as a result of the above. They also stated that if anything at all were to ever happen to me, she would be immediately arrested and jailed. They assured me that it was all over.
A day later, she was calling me once more for money. Two days later she was asking me to buy her a gold ring as a token of my love. Three days later she was phoning me to ask for 100k baht and she stated it was so that I can live. These types of calls and threats went on for several days. There are independent witnesses that overheard her threats and demands for 100,000 baht for me to stay alive.
She has since then gone home and continues to request money thru her daily phone calls to me. She even went as far as asking me to let her live in My Apt here in Pattaya when she returns.
The last several weeks of my life have been very confusing and very frightening. I have never in my life been stalked in my own country, but to be stalked in a foreign culture is almost more than I can stand. I further had to suffer the condemnation from falangs on internet boards who not only believe her 100% but also have caused her to profit 25,000 baht based solely on her word as a respectable prostitute in Thailand. Matters have been made even worse by locally based falangs that have known the real truth as posted above but who deliberately distorted the truth for their own malicious reasons when posting on another ladyboy website. Such people even post my Forum name and alleged details of my personal life on that website based on only their own speculation and fantasy. Said person should be advised that people that live in glass houses should not throw stones.
I must refrain from giving some details, and I am sure you all understand due to the fact I am living here. This is NOT an interesting read or movie€¦€¦€¦€¦.its real life with real people involved.
I have lived in Pattaya since Aug 1, 2007 and butterfly very often due to the many high quality girls available. All the girls know that I am a huge butterfly. I went with Pond several times during August €¦.we were in a business relationship during that time. She received ample pay for services rendered and I was also satisfied. I avoided seeing her by the end of August due to her increasing possesiveness and jealousy over my barfining other girls. I had advice from another BM that saw her erratic behavior and jealousy as did I. I thought it was best to move on and only see other ladies. Pond continued to quite literally stalk me. I found new rooms or hotels to stay at and I kept changing rooms and hotels to avoid her. She would often get angry that I was in town and not calling her or seeing her. During the time I was avoiding her, she deliberately had my name tattooed on her body which I could not believe after telling her how much I hate tattoos in a previous conversation. She went as far as e-mailing me the pics of it while I was in Bangkok hoping that would make me leave the girl I was seeing there and rush back to her.
During the two months of Sept and Oct, I avoided contacting her. She on the other hand would call multiple times a day. When she would reach me I would only say hello and chat briefly with her€¦€¦€¦€¦.there was NO Sexual Relations€¦€¦€¦..She would often call me or send an SMS multiple times daily saying hello, asking for advise, or help with problems at 131 or with a customer etc€¦and even asking for money for taxi or food.
On Nov 1, 2007 I came out of my Apt. to find my new motorbike was trashed. I saw that somebody tore off both mirrors, stole the bike helmet (brand new), attempted to steal the bike, jammed the ignition switch€¦€¦pulled out a knife and slit open the seat from end to end. Inquiries were made to management. Examination of the security tapes found that Pond had trashed the motorbike during a 12 minute time frame.
I challenged her about this. At first she denied it. Later she sent me several messages saying sorry and that she would fix the bike. After 3 days she failed to repair the bike.
I called her to ask if she would fix the bike finally. She responded by saying, she would rather spend the baht on hiring Thai men to injure me. It was at this point I was advised by My Thai friends and falang friends that this information along with security tapes should be taken to the police quickly so as to ensure my personal safety.
The police viewed the tape and immediately questioned her. The Police wanted to know if I wanted her imprisoned. I answered I only wanted compensation for the damage to the bike and for her to leave me alone. They obtained 1k baht on the spot with the promise of more to follow. The police assured me that she would not contact me again, nor would I be injured or killed as a result of the above. They also stated that if anything at all were to ever happen to me, she would be immediately arrested and jailed. They assured me that it was all over.
A day later, she was calling me once more for money. Two days later she was asking me to buy her a gold ring as a token of my love. Three days later she was phoning me to ask for 100k baht and she stated it was so that I can live. These types of calls and threats went on for several days. There are independent witnesses that overheard her threats and demands for 100,000 baht for me to stay alive.
She has since then gone home and continues to request money thru her daily phone calls to me. She even went as far as asking me to let her live in My Apt here in Pattaya when she returns.
The last several weeks of my life have been very confusing and very frightening. I have never in my life been stalked in my own country, but to be stalked in a foreign culture is almost more than I can stand. I further had to suffer the condemnation from falangs on internet boards who not only believe her 100% but also have caused her to profit 25,000 baht based solely on her word as a respectable prostitute in Thailand. Matters have been made even worse by locally based falangs that have known the real truth as posted above but who deliberately distorted the truth for their own malicious reasons when posting on another ladyboy website. Such people even post my Forum name and alleged details of my personal life on that website based on only their own speculation and fantasy. Said person should be advised that people that live in glass houses should not throw stones.
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