Pond - The Real Story

[Stewart]

(shrimpsoup @ Nov. 25 2007,14:28) The weirdest part of this thread was the post about Sampler dressing up as a ladyboy on Halloween and going out trick or treating with the ladyboy who he was trying to avoid, Pond.

That's plain weird.

Especially when he wrote:

During the two months of Sept and Oct, I avoided contacting her.  

Hmmm...unless 31st Oct does not really count as October  

Hold on....something just occurred to me! Maybe Roscco or SamplerDoc is lying! Fuck me, and I thought everything said on this forum was true

[stogie bear]

Everything on this forum is true to the best of my suspension of belief!

[Guest]

To a large extent Doug, good posting indeed I can relate to much of what you write especially under the heading of irresponsible recklessness   However, discipline is one thing but attempting to apply these principles whilst being consumed by Pattaya is quite another  

I tried for six months    

But am willing to give it another go  

[blonde_havoc]

Doug, you are the man. You have honestly given good advice that I will try my best to stick to for life.

[stogie bear]

ladyboys, especially the bargirl-variety, are the distilled essence of chaos...

Even the 'one liner king' Kahuna would like that one.

[boofhead007]

Doug, you made the best post with all the right advice.

Thanks.

[Torurot]

Doug's exposition on the "sleep with Dogs, get fleas" theory. Excellent, and Doug, how about an update on your "Lolita" thread, that "story" needs filling out. Riveting reading.

[stickyfinger]

Good advice and to which i should heed to aswell as have had my own little stalker problems fr a well known nana freelancer (remember these Lbs can be nice as pie 1 min then go complete pyscho the next) over the years but have got used to it and as long as your straight with them and dont "fall in love" on the net chatting and webcamming or webscamming which they lead you into to much.

Think 30 missed calls and 18 sms to my uk mobile was the record in 1 day???

Very good read Doug

Cheers

Sticky

[doug]

(Torurot @ Nov. 25 2007,19:33) Doug's exposition on the "sleep with Dogs, get fleas" theory. Excellent,   and Doug, how about an update on your "Lolita" thread, that "story" needs filling out. Riveting reading.  

Thanks for the comments guys, much appreciated.

And SamplerDoc, no offense, I got nothing personal against you and I wish you all the best in sorting out that nasty mess you're in.

But there comes a time in everyone's life where we need a good swift kick in the ass to remind us that most of our problems are self-inflicted. So I'm not trying to kick you when you're down just because you're down. I'm hoping you'll remember that you got yourself into this mess, so good luck getting yourself out of it.

As for the Lolita project, I haven't posted any updates lately because it's been pretty boring. Just lots and lots of normal sex. Nothing unusual to report.

However, my girlfriend is back in town now and I've been getting some "come hither" looks from Katie, so things should be getting interesting soon .

Thanks again!

[rxpharm]

Remember the movie "Basic Instinct" with Sharon Stone and Michael Douglas? Well, it highlights that crazy obsession doesn't just happen with lbs - and although a fictional movie, there are enough cases that happen in real life.

The advice Doug gives is good if you want to maintain an active sex life (works with ggs and/or lbs), without the worries of trying to develop a serious relationship. By the way this is also a strategy that very wealthy men employ with their mistresses - so Doug, well thought out planning!

However, this doesn't really work well if you want to attempt a long term relationship - but then again attempting it with a p4p lb or gg is asking for trouble as is even giving her the idea that it may develop that way. Also complicate this with the differences in culture, language, and understanding and you have a volatile combination as Doug has pointed out.

So, in short as many have said here, pay them to leave, don't try a longterm relationship with a p4p gg or lb. If you're looking for a long term relationship, look for a "good girl" if want to have a reasonable chance of success.

[batman4ever]

CHRIST.....

it must be easy to judge....when everything is only black or white....


i just believe....there is a lot of grey coulers in between.....
Doug....calling the people from "69" for idiots....reminds me of the old saying..

it takes one to know one

but otherwise....you had a lot of good things in your post..

[andyroma]

i'll be there next 11 on december...i am sad to listen this story...why is the world so bad???
CHEERS MY FRIENDS

[bangkoksins]

Doug, excellent post.

By the sounds of it you could write a book, the sequel to Leather's Private Dancer or whatever it was called.

Sometimes though knowing and doing are two different things.

Now where did I put my cigarettes....

Oh and just to add, I do feel for the OP. I have personal experience of a stalker and she was not p4p, nor a LB, in fact not even a gf, never even kissed the lady.

She is (or was in my view) a nice girl, good job, good family, etc.

But it was a very frightening and worrying time, so no matter what I can understand what the OP must be feeling.

[Guest]

To my fucked up ludicrously twisted mind,all i see,is two or three members,of two forums,creating a scene,to fleece people out of money.
Do you honestly believe,pond would rush to a forum to warn all punters of a nasty fellow punter?
No she wouldn't,she would simply warn HER CLOSE FRIENDS of him,and advise them to avoid him,and him alone.

Why is it only Rossco who can contact her,and raise * unwanted * funds of assistance for her.( anyone got their money back?......after all,it wasn't used to pay the police...... she had to sell her necklace to do that! ).

( can you all see what i am trying to say here? )

If Samplerdoc,suddenly starts telling everyone fresh stories of despair,and suddenly finds a * mysterious * occurence,has removed lots and lots of his personal money,or needs to break free of the whole harrowing situation where he is and move away,and requires money to leave the area,on advice from members ( that would be hitting our '' we are responsible,guilty spot'',and the offers of sympathy and money to help would flood in to him! ),would anyone in this forum,and the other forum,picture all 3 people,sitting in a small room,splitting up the 25,000 and laughing over a table at all the pricks they've fleeced?
( Sampledoc could be simply a victim of the other two ).

It just seems too sudden and wild to be real,like it was lifted from a couple of cheap asian film noir novels or films.I simply picture thai ladyboys/hookers etc,in a class room,with a madame standing at a blackboard,teaching them how to go about it all.from the apparent sudden madness that creates a stalker to sob stories of misery,brutality and theft.even,how to work a computer and type in conveniently perfectly understandable,yet badly typed illegible english,so everyone can understand HOW MUCH MONEY THEY NEED!!!
mefuckingow

[rxpharm]

hmm, do you also believe in the grassy knoll, the other two shooters, and the magic bullet all that was involved in the JFK assassination?

Samplerdoc has an open return air ticket to the USA, so if he does need to leave Thailand all he has change the date and off he goes if things get that bad for him.

Rossco is a long time resident of Pattaya, and I doubt that 25,000 Baht (about 750 USD) was going to be something he was desperate for.

Still, it is entertaining to read various theories of what people think happened.