Jaded, but still going out!

[Guest]

despite  what i say up here i still like ladyboys very much and have fun with them;   sure, I can be pissed  at the things I see and hear while doing this job,  but when all is said and done they are the ones i like  spending my time with the most.

   2 weeks ago before i went to  Phuket I met a  cute girl  in cascades  named   Natcha, and  we talked about going out sometimes.  only 18 and  from Chiang Mai,  this girl is  very  cute and  friendly and speaks  very good english, and  like all ladyboys  has a great memory.  she contacted me  through a friend yesterday to remind me about our promised date and  tonight we are going out  for some  fun and games.

 sure...i can talk tough.....but the bottom line is that i still like ladyboys and always return to the well, and tonight we   will have a great time  I am sure.   will she  be  my true love and  will we fall madly in love and live  happily ever after?  probably not.   but for  one night  we  will have a great time and all will be well  in ladyboy-land.

 jon

[Bit Beefy]

Thats the spirit.....

[Guest]

Jon,

I have been reading all your new posts with great interest.  I met up with you and your beloved of the evening (better than names at this point?) and another couple at Big Dogs just before you left for Phuket.  We went upstairs after to Cascade and I left with Oh.

There seems to be a great difference in your demeanor between that very pleasant evening and your posts.  What happened to you in Phuket??

There are two things I would like to comment on:

1.  Your aversion to the big cut.  I think that something is missing here (so to speak).  I don't think we are in a position to be for or against this.  It is good to share with the LB the problems others have encountered.  But what we are ignoring is their girl-inside-a-boys-body-wanting-to-get-out-needs.  There may be problems with the operation, but there are definitely problems mentally with being in the "wrong" for you body.  They do not exist just to give us pleasure, although God knows they do--they also exist because of the phenomena of which I speak.  It seems we should take this into account when we speak of this.

2.  Your amazement that girls that go with a guy for money are mercenary seems naive.  When you introduced me to Oh that night in Cascades, I am under no illusions that the reason she went back with me to Jasmine Suites was because of my thinning hair and exciting 57 year old body.  But even here, money wasn't all that was involved.  It was clear that after having orgasm'd my way thru Phuket and BKK (cumming 8 times in 7 days) at my age, I didn't have much left for Oh at the end of my trip.  It was clear that she was disappointed.  But I don't think she was disappointed with the money I gave her.  

Why would we think, though, that a young girl who agrees to have sex with a stranger after a six minute relationship in a go go bar would be anything other than mercenary?  That was the beginning of the relationship, why should it not be the end?

Anyways, glad to see you are back in the swing of things after getting some serious things off your chest.  Look forward to hooking up with you again when I'm back in los 5/5-5/15.

PS You will be glad to hear that when I got in contact with Aon she wanted to meet me at the Chanel store at the Emporium (you rest your case).  Instead I just had her come over for a pleasant afternoon.

[Guest]

hi there, and yes, I remember  you........we had fun that night and the  girl I was with was chompoo, and i was happy to introduce to  Oh because she is a very good friend of mine and  I like   sending her customers  when I can.

  no, nothing has  really changed for me  since   we met. I am usually in a  good mood and all this  stuff  is  just some pent-up shit that i have to get off my chest now and again.  it's just that i see a lot of shit in this  job and sometimes it bothers me.  the  post-op thing is one of them and has been discussed to  death   up here and on other forums and we all agree  that these  girls have a right to lead their own lives an do as they choose; that's true for  of all of us.   but remember,   I have talked  to a lot of these  girls and have heard stories of regret and  sadness from many of them, and that bothers  me greatly because many of them are my friends and they tell me they are upset  with their decision.  naturally they can do as they choose and i wish them luck  but I still believe it is a hard life and a bad move.

       <<<< Your amazement that girls that go with a guy for money are mercenary seems naive.>>>>>

         I  have no illusions  that these girls sleep with us because  we have cash;  i am wise enough to realize that. Of course that is  what they want, and for  guys like you and most guys that come here on short trips,  it is all you  want or need.   the guys that live here, however, may  want something more and  actually spend  real time  with these girls, and it's very difficult to do that.  especially with bar girls.  as  i said, i think the key to having a long-term relationship is  to find a girl that is  young and  not hardened yet....not in the bars either, maybe in the university crowd.  I will let you know  if that happens  LOL.

      good move  not meeting a  ladyboy at the Emporium; that place is pure evil and  there is no reason to ever go there.   unfortunately for the guy that is now bankrolling her new life, he DID meet her there and blow mad cash on her.  hopefully  he doesn't  read this   forum because  you and paradisio have both mentioned today that you have spent time with his new sweetheart in the last week, whom he thinks is over here being a  good  girl  patiently waiting for his  return.  trully sad, actually, that someone could really believe that.

    anyway, the girl I took out tonight is here and watching TV and we will head to the rack soon [hello stogie].  very nice 18-year old  from Cascades, and yes, i have no illusions that she is here for my good looks or  charming  personality.   we will do our business, she will leave and i will pay her. I know that's the way it works and it  is something i  have accepted, but  it still kind of disenchantments me.

 happy you had fun and it was nice meeting up with you at  Nana......  anytime  you are back in thailand send me a note and  we will  hook up again.

 regards Jon