More than one from a bar?

[Guest]

Hi all I'm new to posting but I've been a subscriber to this site for quite a while now, anyway, I've had a few ladyboy experiences in thailand, mixed in with GG's. I'm thinking on my next trip (soon) I might be wanting to concentrate on ladyboys and having looked at the pictures there is at least 3 I want to take out from Casanova. (Maybe more if there are some other new ones in the bar that I haven't see on this site)

My experience with GG's in Nana is that after you have barfined one girl form a bar, she doesn't like you coming back in and picking up another girl. You know, she jumps all over you as soon as you get in and won't let any other girls near you.

Is this the same in the LB bars, I would hope they are a bit more laid back as there are only 3 bars and accept that you might want to try something different, or am I just going to have to be a hard bastard and tell the girls to go away as i'm looking for something new?

Sorry if this has been asked 100 times before, I couldn't find a straight answer searching back so if anyone wants to take the time to give me a heads up I would be very grateful. Cheers.

[Skinhound]

Unfortunately this is an even bigger problem with LB than with GG Having been with Noon a few times, I cant even set foot in Cascades without her pouncing and making it impossible for me to even chat with anyone else. Anyone got advice on dealing with this..in a nice way I mean?

[dummy_plug]

I'm sure one of the regulars will yell this out, but really, you're the customer, it's your money, and it's your choice whether or not you want to play these bullshit games. If you let them steamroll you, then that's what you got coming to you. If you do take a girl, the best probably is just to make it clear you're a butterfly man (just say you are same same Snick) and you'll be back to fuck their best friend in an hour. No one's a happy camper when they get that news, but they'll piss off later and you're scott free and won't have to worry about getting shanked the next time you walk into the bar.

[kahuna]

They do piss on you and the scent can be difficult to remove...

If you really like the girl sit her down and talk with her...sometimes they understand, more than often they don't or give the appearance that they don't...Remember they're not your best friend...they are all hookers who just indulge us to get our money....

If you don't want to keep her on your list of regulars just ask her (tell her) to leave you alone...There is another one just like her on the next bus from Isaan...

Girls who are "professional" ...who know the game will understand...the newer girls just need to be taught...

You have the money so you are the teacher...

[stogie bear]

I would hope they are a bit more laid back as there are only 3 bars and accept that you might want to try something different...

Well first off; their are 4 bars in Nana Plaza and one just outside it.

Second... you are gonna piss off a lot of people if you stroll into a bar and ignore your previous tartners and even if you don't ignore them this can sometimes be worse because then they get to unload on you.

The first thing to do is sit down the first time you go and buy the mamasan a drink and tell her exactly what you want to do over the next few nights. In fact - lie and say you'll be in every night for a week looking for a different girl. She'll probably take care of you and protect you from the thin-skinned maniacs that comprise of the ladyboys inside.

Sit with her on each subsequest night too, if she's not too busy and you'll probably have a few moments of relative peace. But it's vital that the Mamasan knows your plans from the moment you go in to the bar the first time.

If you get hassled by a jilted Jane then ask nicely to speak to the Mamasan which, of course, by now you know by name!

OR! You could just be a hard bastard and tell them all to 'fuck off!'

[kahuna]

Worth a try but I've found that "some" mamasans are only interested in sucking bht from your wallet just like the girls and really don't care what you want and are often invisible (how they can hide their corpulent bodies is beyond me) when you have a problem...

[donnnnnny]

(kahuna @ Jun. 07 2007,16:16) Worth a try but I've found that "some" mamasans are only interested in sucking bht from your wallet just like the girls and really don't care what you want and are often invisible (how they can hide their corpulent bodies is beyond me) when you have a problem...

I agree with Kahuna. never bothered with mamasans , i just do as i wish, im a fucking helicopter and have the wallet to prove it.. look its fucking empty
just be polite and firm and say no me butterfly man and remebr the rule money number one in thailand

[Guest]

(Skinhound @ Jun. 07 2007,13:18) Unfortunately this is an even bigger problem with LB than with GG    Having been with Noon a few times, I cant even set foot in Cascades without her pouncing and making it impossible for me to even chat with anyone else.  Anyone got advice on dealing with this..in a nice way I mean?

Yes tell her to fuck off. Walk in and bar fine another girl. When she tries to sit down just tell her you want to look first. Mostly the customers let the girls do this to them.

Best thing is just to explain to them the first time you stay with them that you are a butterfly and that you might come back into their bar to take another girl. If she insists on making you her property then just tell the mamasan that you want to take another girl and if she does not leave you alone you will not come back and bar fine anyone out of her bar.

As DP says its your money you should dictate the terms of the arrangement.

[jimslim]

Some of them play this little game , but once you tell them you butterfly , they know the score and leave you alone , if they get annoying then tell them to leave you alone
Ive never had a problem returning to a bar and taking a different girl , a few times Ive got girls Ive been with to introduce me to their friends so I can go with them , as long as you,re upfront about your intentions and dont give them a lot of silly talk then go with one of their friends .... now thats a different story

[rxpharm]

All pretty sound advice and some posts from the past that discuss this topic as well:

Pissed On But Not Pissed Off

Question for the Experienced Punter

[bigmick22]

(stogie bear @ Jun. 07 2007,17:53) and ignore your previous tartners

tart + partner = tartner?

[thegame925]

I have always found that, like most things in life, if one is truthful up front, in stating that which you want, you will never have a problem.
By way of example, on my last trip in early January 2007 I went into KC 3 and talked to Liza Lee and made an arrangement for the following day. We met at Starbucks near Nana and went to the ST rooms above the Guess Bar. After we had finished we went and had a drink at Guess €“ where all the girls knew me (as a butterfly) from my activities over the previous seven days.
Next day I was back in the Guess Bar and took one of the girls upstairs. That night I was in KC3 making arrangements with the lovely sisters Nanci & Tina for the following day (after chatting on the phone to Liza who told the sisters I was OK) and the next day we met, had a great afternoon finishing up at the Guess Bar, with Nanci & Tina talking to their friends. I was back at the Guess Bar the following day, taking another of my new friends upstairs.
I always explain that I am a butterfly, but I am looking for someone to cure me of that curse (which is perfectly true €“ I really am) €“ I never have had a problem anywhere.
I have LB friends who I meet on an annual basis in Bangkok, Singapore, Hong Kong, Sidney, Amsterdam, Paris, London, New York, Chicago, San Francisco and all points in between with whom I have never had a cross word, and who I see for the original reason for my interest or merely for a drink for old times sake.
This is a long winded way of saying if you are straight with the person you want to see then the following day, go back into the bar you picked them up from, give them a kiss on the cheek, buy them a drink and ask them to introduce you to the person you have spotted that you want to take home that night.
As you leave the bar with the new date, stop by last night€™s date, thank her again for the introduction, blow her a kiss, and say goodnight.
It does not matter if you can€™t speak their language, sign language can cover all of that and on subsequent nights you must remember to say good evening or hi to all the dates you€™ve had on previous nights or even previous visits.
Remembering the faces €“ that is the difficult thing to do €“ but if you avoid being furtive and are open, relaxed, and charming you should never have a problem, unless you are unfortunate enough to have dated a psycho.
Finally, yes, ok, the charm-bit is a phoney act, but face it, €“ those LB€™s (and GG€™s) are being phoney during most of their time with you.
Just enjoy yourself, but do not hurt anyone's feelings in the process.

[jimslim]

well said sir

[Guest]

Thanks for all the replies. I think the general opinion is to be upfront, tell them you are a butterfly from the start and hope they will understand, if they don't that's their problem.

Ideally I would like to remain friends with the ones I like without limiting my options in the bar they work in. If they can't deal with that then hey   I'll live. There are PLENTY more fish in the sea.

And Stogie, there is no way I would ignore the girl I had boned the night before, don't worry, If I was capable of being that rude I wouldn't need to start this topic in the first place. I suppose my problem is I am too nice (Which the girls can see a mile off   )

And Mamasans! I've been in cascades 4 times now, I can't remember seeing a mamasan, but then I usually get mobbed at the door. Like I said, they smell the soft touch.

[vangough05]

I am all for the fuck off bit. It works for me