ok so I know we've been down this road before but I'm slightly torn between reason and fantasy at the moment.
Like a lot of people on here, the months (far too many months in my case) between visits to LOS are spent trawling websites and checking this forum gathering material to fantacise about until I get back on that plane again.
Sometimes I even wander on to the webcam sites and, although I find it a mostly disappointing and costly exercise, I occasionaly find a girl who's a real sweetheart.
Some of these girls I will revisit maybe once but there's one that I'm totally in lust with. Like most of these girls, she lives in the Philippines and I've told her that I'm coming to Thailand this year and mentioned that I might visit her in PI (in fairness I was drunk at the time).
Now I know it's logistically possible to fit in a trip to PI during my three weeks but I have serious doubts about the logic of actually going through with it...I mean it could be good fun but it could also be a complete and utter nightmare. If it works out, great but, if not, I don't really fancy being in a country I've never been in before where the only person I know is also the person I least want to be with.
My other concern is my privacy; I'm happy to discuss my thoughts and desires with the members here but I don't want to get into a 'relationship' with this girl and have her phoning me or trying to contact me when I get back home....that's not to mention the possibility of money demands etc.
Anybody have any experience in this area ?
Opinions will of course be accepted in good faith.
Like a lot of people on here, the months (far too many months in my case) between visits to LOS are spent trawling websites and checking this forum gathering material to fantacise about until I get back on that plane again.
Sometimes I even wander on to the webcam sites and, although I find it a mostly disappointing and costly exercise, I occasionaly find a girl who's a real sweetheart.
Some of these girls I will revisit maybe once but there's one that I'm totally in lust with. Like most of these girls, she lives in the Philippines and I've told her that I'm coming to Thailand this year and mentioned that I might visit her in PI (in fairness I was drunk at the time).
Now I know it's logistically possible to fit in a trip to PI during my three weeks but I have serious doubts about the logic of actually going through with it...I mean it could be good fun but it could also be a complete and utter nightmare. If it works out, great but, if not, I don't really fancy being in a country I've never been in before where the only person I know is also the person I least want to be with.
My other concern is my privacy; I'm happy to discuss my thoughts and desires with the members here but I don't want to get into a 'relationship' with this girl and have her phoning me or trying to contact me when I get back home....that's not to mention the possibility of money demands etc.
Anybody have any experience in this area ?
Opinions will of course be accepted in good faith.
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