Engagement to an Asian LB

[rxpharm]

Hey Smuttley! I resent that you are calling Canada a red state! Right now the Conservative party (almost equal to Republicans) are in power, and they want to try and do things like repeal the same sex marriage act that the liberals (almost equal to Democrats) passed in the previous government. So our country is just as mixed up as your country, lol!

But of course getting a Thai lb a Canadian visa is easier than getting one for the USA (well theoretically )

[katoeylover]

Congratulations, and good luck.

Does this mean your summer trip is now off!!

[SamplerDoc]

(ziggystardust @ Feb. 21 2007,14:16) Pre or post?

Does your family and friends know?

What's the job?

So many questions!

Everyone here is hoping you success.

 
Pre

Some Do so far

Nurse RN

More info to come guys

[SamplerDoc]

(katoeylover @ Feb. 22 2007,06:03) Congratulations, and good luck.  

Does this mean your summer trip is now off!!    

Well.....actually we intend on going to Phillipines in June and after that Thailand for a total of 3 weeks. She wants 2 weeks phillipines and 1 week LOS.

She is down for the trip and my flirting with ladyboys, so long as she can be with me and join in

Her only concern is going in June/July due to rainy season

[katoeylover]

wow! you struck the jackpot then! well done!

[SamplerDoc]

(ozzie @ Feb. 21 2007,20:40) I think I speak for many guys on here who would love to know how things are progressing?

Wish you all the best mate.

Here is a timeframe that Her and I came up with
Feb she is changing job sites but still a RN
Feb thru April house shopping
April and May making sure house is furnished and set.
May thru June planning details of the trip to LOS and Phillipines (trip will be late June till mid July)
August rest and work
I am pushing for Oct wedding she is not decided on a date, we are talking about that this weekend.

November my funeral if she discovers this thread  

So by December we should have the house, the trip and wedding done.

I will share some more info later this week

[Guest]

(SamplerDoc @ Feb. 22 2007,06:57) November my funeral if she discovers this thread  

Don't piss off any of those Filipina bitches!

They can be vipers when they are mad!

[dummy_plug]

[PigDogg]

(SamplerDoc @ Feb. 21 2007,15:44) She is down for the trip and my flirting with ladyboys, so long as she can be with me and join in

[SamplerDoc]

It aint easy working 5 days a week and seeing her 3-4 days/nights
but finally I have time to get online

We have news:
She started working a new hospital today.
We are still house shopping and
We picked September for a wedding
It seems as we will wed in New Jersey

Now the bad news........
She wants to postpone the trip to LOS and Phillipines  until after all the above are over.  Which probably is a smart move.  However, I really want to go back to LOS for  some  

[gizmo]

Congratulation's SD. Wish you both
all the happiness in the world!

[andre459]

I'll add my congratulations as well SD and wish you luck, your a braver man then I. For me the anonymity of LOS is good your obviously very comfortable with who your are.

What do your family and friends think?

[SamplerDoc]

(andre459 @ Feb. 27 2007,05:23) I'll add my congratulations as well SD and wish you luck, your a braver man then I. For me the anonymity of LOS is good your obviously very comfortable with who your are.

What do your family and friends think?

Good Question......
Answer is I really dont know yet and I figure, some will be okay with it and some will not.
Bottom line tho....Its my life to live not theirs and I can only hope that most are happy with it.  I know I am

[Guest]

I dont know if this is meant to be educational after all "all people inc LBs are different than one another" I had a long relationship with a preop lb in nyc and broke it off for one reason only. She wanted to adopt after the surgery and then when the child would turn 12 or 13 or rather as soon as she felt that the child was old enough she wanted to share her history with the child. I thought that was rather presumptious on her part to tell the child that her mom is a LB. I hope you have had this discussion.

[SamplerDoc]

Update for All:

She changed hospitals again, I tell ya thats a concern for me, all that job changing but as she says, " I am in high Demand"

Wedding is still on for October so if any of you are NYC area and feel like attending just PM me

She just called me and now I forgot what the other items were   Probably all that sex talk

I will post the rest later and by all means post any questions or comments