Advice on Classical Problem

[Guest]

I have made some of the standard mistakes that many members warned us about.  It is a case of trail and error for sure - mainly errors.  I have seen a LB sweetheart on 4 different occasions in BKK and Singapore.  She has been great for the most part except for the times I am called a liar and 'cold hearted,' etc.  The requests for ongoing financial assistance have been few, but lately they are increasing.  She claims that it is difficult to find customers these days in BKK and that money is running low, etc.  As the story goes, she will have to move soon if she does not get more money quickly.  Perhaps, it is true.  However, I am not sure.  We stay in touch by e-mail and electronic messenger.

I figured that this situation was inevitable based on warnings posted in the forum from the most experienced members.

Does this scenario fit into the standard tactics that have been employed in the past?  I am sure that it has.

Any advice?  How should I handle this situation?  Has the customer stream in BKK (i.e., Nana) declined recently?  Or is this just another story designed to evoke sympathy?  I though that this would be a high time for tourists.

Karl

[Stewart]

High season starts early December. On the other hand, that does not mean that all those extra tourists are flocking to Obsessions and Casa.

I got my request for financial assistance last time after a short time with a girl, and before my plane had landed back in Singapore!!

If you like her, pay her something. If you don't care, then don't. But I doubt very much if you are the only one she is asking, so as long as you are OK about that, fine.

[Guest]

I used to be nice when posting my thought's about this topic
but she is already calling you name's. So I dont think it will get better.
Dump her !

[Guest]

Let me see if I have this straight... The pickings are so low in Bangkok that she will soon have to move? Erm... WHERE?



You are communicating on-line with a hooker. It is her job to give you sex for money. If you are insane or she thinks you are she may well ask you for cash just for the sake of it...

If she is short on the rent ask her how she feels about selling that fancy mobile phone of hers!

Why not just meet a nice ladyboy? There are tens of thousands at shopping malls all over the country. The best way to meet them is to find out when the malls are having ladyboy fashion parades or beauty competitions. Loads of them go to these things. (There is one on Friday and I am gonna go and take some fotos for the site.)

The ONLY thing to do with girls who work in the bar scene is to pay for sex after you have had it.

Still, it's your cash... do as you wish.

Does this scenario fit into the standard tactics that have been employed in the past? I am sure that it has.

The pickings in the clubs are down. You know why? Because the clubs and girls that work in them are crap.

I went into one last week with the owner of this site and after a patient five minutes I walked out. These fucking shit holes are for deaf people! They don't even sell Chang! What's up with that shit?

These dumb fuckers have NO IDEA how to run a business, and as soon as these fucking cess pits are all out of business and closed down the better.

You really have to be on your last legs as a person to like these dumps. Why not just find a nice girl from this site, call her or email her, meet, eat and fuck! End of story.

Why anyone would try meeting the skanks in these rat and dog infested toilets is way beyond the comprehension of this writer.

And Karl... Keep your money in your pocket. Let someone else be the sucker.

[tropical]

Karl ,
These guys are right , keep your money dont become one of the majority that think she is only interested in you. She is working , this doesnt stop just because you have left Thailand.
tropical

[Snick]

Where is this fashion show on Friday ?
I'm in BKK and would be interested in going.
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oh, and as to the original question. They are experts at asking for money. Everytime I find someone who I think is different I am eventualy proven wrong.

[Guest]

The fashion show is on Friday and Saturday at Imperial World in SAMBLONG (SamutPrakan)

Good luck...

[Bit Beefy]

Dont part with your cash buddy.... The moment they ask for money they go.........What would have happened had you not paid her for sex in the 1st place? You wouldnt have met.....so how would she live then??? Dont become a statistic bro....Someone that we have all laughed at before....The guy that sends the £££ for someone who believes has now stopped working... Undoubtedly some of these stories may be true....But what has our experience taught us fellas???

Just my opinion...

[Mai-Kee]

It's not a LB problem - it's a hooker problem. If you get close with them - lb's, gg's, boys - you've lost (at least in 99% of all cases)! Find a nice lb - not a working girl - somewhere in a shop, a hairdresser, the university campus, wherever and leave the hookers for those who can handle them. It's service for money - not for feelings, very straight, very simple and sometimes very good! Do it and LEAVE! Save your emotions for those who are worth it!

MK

[Blue Ballz]

Karl,
Please dont think i am coldhearted or anything like that but you asked so this is my 2 bahts worth: You have got to be kidding me!! you want to see the light but for soe reason are still a bit blinded!! this girl uses the guilt trip on you and it seems to be working!!! Thats bullshit!! you are the man in LOS it aint like here in the West where guys are willing to be let around by the nose for some pussy!! Send her money? You really, deep down, know the answer to that question! Cuut her loose and cut your losses-NOW!!! Plenty more fish in the sea. Truly, if you wish to meet a good girl ladyboy it wont be easy but can be done. i wouldnt bother if you do not have the means to live there a large portion of the year. If you are there for a few weeks for your hols just be a slut and shag yer brains out! That Old BB's advice-ignore it at your peril!! BE CAREFUL OUT THERE-especially from Thai hooker LBs who expect you to send them your hard earned do$h!!!

[Snick]

Coin-Flip
Samut Praken is too far away for this weekend. If you know of any others coming up, please post them on the board. I'd like to take some pictures too.

Snick

[Guest]

Snick.....write to our buddy stogie bear at [email protected]. he is also going to a fashion show [may be the same one, actually] and taking my old Sony, so that could be a gold mine for pics. could be a place to meet a nice girl also.

Jon