Lifestyle or hobby?

[qwerty]

Just seeing where we stand.
Is it a lifestyle for you or just a hobby?

[stogie bear]

There are a lot of us singlies!

I keep my fornicating restricted to three trusted and tried girls and have them stay over each a couple of times a month. (Cindy is about once a week at the moment, though as she is the newest.)

It's the perfect life and I don't suppose it will ever change. I love being single and having the girls over when I feel like it.

I have learned the hard way to never make promises or commitments and to overpay the girls just enough so they will never say "No!" when you give them a call.

Also - there is no question of me separating them and going through the 'cloak and dagger' routine as they all work on the game and I couldn't give two hoots if they know about each other. The worst that can happen is that one will get miffed and I'll replace her with a new one.

Being single in Thailand is really the only option.

[TTChang]

   

Sounds good to me!

[rob69in]

I've been a singley forever, sussed the western women relationship / marriage scam very early on, & all the better, finacially, materalistically, emotionally & mentally, for it thank you.

[dummy_plug]

I think the perception of relationships is different for guys like us (me included). I've been seeing this girl (real btw) for a few weeks now, and I guarantee you she thinks we're in a relationship now but I know that in like 2 months I'll never call her again. A lot of us are probably less "single" than we make ourselves out to be. However, whenever a hottie is around, I'm always single.

[Looker]

(dummy_plug @ Nov. 18 2006,11:00) A lot of us are probably less "single" than we make ourselves out to be.

Very well said DP. Actually, women in general crave for a relationship more than what men do, and unless any guy is a very weird and asocial individual in all senses there will alway be a women or two around hoping to nail him down one day

[mirimark]

I'm married to a Genetic Girl. But my wife knew Long in advance That I'm Hot for Asian pretty boys. She Fucking Married me anyhow.

Is this just a hobby for me ? No,
I'm an Asian Femboy Cocksucker Through and Through.

Would I Leave my wife for the Prefect Asian Femboy ?
No, I wouldn't have to. My wife would ask me to share !

Shes no dumb bitch, even she knows Femboy Cock is good.
Its nice to have a wife who gets all wet & horny over Chicks with Dicks.

[dmlbl2001]

My shfiting from GG's to LB's happened over the course of my 3 trips to LOS. First trip all GG's but one LB just to check it our. Second trip was about 50/50. This was the time that I realized that the LB's where more fun and hotter. Thrid trip virtualy all LB's but one GG just to check it out. End result I may still do a GG if she is someting special. But my interests and intent now is to stick with LB's. It is to the point where GG's hold very little facination.

[surropan]

I'm not quite married yet, but I'm engaged. Actually I'm a bit fucked up at the moment-- I love my fiancee with all my heart and could not survive a week without her. It is totally incomprehensible to me to even think of breaking it off. We connect so deeply in so many ways, which I can't even begin to describe.

BUT, I have this insatiable lust for lbs. I love GGs too, but when you want an lb, you want an lb, you know? I really don't want to be an adulterer, and I probably wouldn't sleep with a GG other than my fiancee.... but I just can't deny myself the pleasures of the lb world for the rest of my life. I even somewhat justify it to myself saying that cheating with an lb isn't too bad because its satisfying a seperate need not related to my male-female relationship. I know this is bullshit though.

And, unlike the extremely lucky Mirimark, my fiancee would definately not be okay with the fact that I am into lbs-- not in a bad way, its just really so outside the scope of her extremely vanilla, straight-laced Japanese upbringing and mindset. I actually broached the subject jokingly once and she just thought it was totally disgusting. Again, not in a prejudiced way, just in an innocent, very normal way.

Compounded with all this is the fact that I am deathly afraid to pick up an STD from a working lb and give it to my fiancee.... I could deal with having the red + bumpies for the rest of my life, but the guilt would just be crushing if I gave something to her.

I'm sorry to ramble guys, really, but I don't have anyone else I can tell this to, and I would really appreciate any advice or support.

Please refrain from replying "just dump the bitch", any of you who have been truly in love know that this is not a viable option.

[kahuna]

In my opinion, unless the purpose is to have children, marriage only serves to make lawyers rich...

kahuna the cynic

[olekunde]

@surropan

the problem for you is that you are not so straight-laced as your soon-to-become wife. is it an act from your side so you can connect so well (as you put it), and do you try to be what she want you to be?
anyway, as i see it you have a few options:

1)wait until you get so bored of her pussy you wont even give it a second thought about being unfaithful(belive me, the time will come. i usually become this bored mid-way through a short time session).

2)start butterfly right now. the more and often, the better. you will feel a sting of regret and agony (and probably a little pain too, the fist time one of the casa girls enter you from behind)the first few times, but not soon after you will be a smooth motherfucker - ie you can receive cock and a facial and 5mins later go back to your wifey give her a kiss and be the perfect husband(do some lame-ass bedastichs under the sheets and tell her how much you love her, will always be with her - while your mind's on the latest lb cock in your brownie).

if you really are worried about stds & hiv dont enter the world of shemale prostitutes.