Now here's a funny story!

[donnnnnny]

Alot of interesting replys.
As i have stated before, whats on the forum should stay on the forum. it's about mutual trust. having met alot of you on recent trips i know you are all great blokes.
Unfortunatly there idiots  dont give a fuck about anyone except them selfs.
No harm done  this time between mint and i as she sussed him pretty quick. By the way when he was caught out he went on to say i was a big butterfly  and would  never change(like he knows me)
I  feel the bloke is just trying to fuck up my relationship with mint, for what reason who knows?My relationship with mint is  great, i have told her i"m not worried  if she is working(she has to live) and i don.t send money.I am purly  going with the flow  . we get on great and you all know the rest.For me its a dream, she is perfect   for me. not just sexually
As for the dope  and you know who you are, dont be such a silly idiot. done be jelous  because  some guy is rooting your  fantasy girl, get alife and rel;ax have fun and chill
donnnnnnny
ps stogie i reckon the idea about parts of the forum for members might have an = efffect, but it still wont stop idiots going round scoring brownie points and telling tails.
cheers

[andre459]

There are always some arseholes who want to spoil it for the rest of us. Obviously Donny knows Mint very well so I don't know how he expects to get away with it. I enjoy reading all the reports everyone posts and I'd hate it if this sort of thing makes people think twice before posting.

It's probably some loser who has never been to Thailand and lives with his mum. Like Donny said he has a stupid fantasy about Mint and it's not like she's even out of the game.

Like some of the others have said who is to say they are not a member already, I think it's good to have the forum free. Maybe something needs to be put in the forum rules about not tollerating this kind of stuff. Problem is these twats don't give a shit about anyone else.

If you offered an alternative method of payment that didn't involve credit cards or personal data at any point in the transaction (so paypal is not an option), then you'd probably see a lot more members and I wouldn't mind a members-only board.

It's pretty hard to have a membership without some personal data but on the joining page there are details about non credit card payment methods :

If you dont have a credit card, we have more options to join:
CCBILL WEB900
If you want to join us and would prefer to send cash or money order,
Please email [email protected] for details.

[BAM]

(donnnnnny @ Oct. 11 2006,13:37) IT apears one of the  members of this  forum is impersonating me> yes you heard it  right  i am being imperonated.Why the fuck would someone want to impersonate me??.

I get that all the time.... there is this guy with a skate board on MTV calling himself Bam after me.... what a Jackass!

[stogie bear]

 There are many ways to pay for membership...

Western union, cash and checks! Email [email protected] or [email protected] for more advice...

We are aware that the privacy issue is important for all those who are running for president so we have ways to make membership more anonymous.

Western Union is probably the best for most, but we have a PO box for checks and we also do cash deals in Bangkok!

So now when The Clubhouse and Forum go 'private' you'll have no reason not to be on the inside!  

[doug]

(stogie bear @ Oct. 12 2006,11:26) There are many ways to pay for membership...

True. But some good points have been raised. First off, there's the risk of potentially locking out ladyboy members (present and future) who certainly would not want to pay for a site membership just to TaLk LiKe tHis.

Secondly, making the forums "members-only" doesn't prevent a-holes from registering and narcing on fellow members.

It's a solution, but I don't think it's a solution to this particular problem.

[Guest]

Hi Everyone,

I would like to put my view forward as a "non-member" who has just registered on this forum about a week ago..

I have found this forum to be very usefull & full of info & great people willing to share info,stories, ideas, do's & dont's etc etc.

For me this is great because it's exactly what I was looking for, to better prepair & know what to do and expect during my trip to BKK.

I undersatnd when you guys are coming from when you have all done the hard work & paid money, then a tight ass like me comes round & obtains a wealth of information for free thanx all to you and this forum - but isnt that what a forum is all about?

As Donnnny has stipulated - what is said on the forum should stay on teh forum, nothing less, nothing more. How you police this i think is impossible.

Paid member or not - I dont think it will stop stupid fucks from ruening it for all of us. Just because your a paying member doesn't make you an instant saint..

Maybe one thing to do is keep the forum free - but any pictures posted should be linked directly back to the members section which requires you to login - I have had this happen to me when I have been reading some posts & obvioulsy I cant see the pic as I am not a member - so this now becomes my choice to become a paying member or not.

Another thing might be to have a seperate section for contact info for the girls which is only accessable to members.

What ever happens, I will totally understand your decision but hope that is stays as is & I thank you all for the openness and knowledge sharing that all of you have been willing to spill, for freeloaders like myself to take advantage of!

All the best guys & remember - I'll be there from the 19th Oct - 25th, if anyone is there around the same time, it would be nice to have a travel buddy..

[rob69in]

How could anyone successfully impersonate the FLASH !?! Too many morons out there i fear, looking to gain off the backs of others.

I have had considerable flack over some of the photo's I put in the field reports, & also some of the comments I may or may not have made, usually from LB's where someone has tried to put me down, hoping to score points for themselves with a LB. I think this will happen, in my opinion, whether the forum is "free" or not

Mixed feelings on paying to be a member of a forum, & i am not entirely convinced it will deter the determined "nutter", lots of them about.

[Guest]

I have to agree that keeping arseholes out of the system is is next to impossible and you almost have to feel sorry for the sad tosser who impersonated Our Hero.

As to making the forum members only I reckon that if we start letting these fuckwits change the way we do things we are just letting them win - and fuck that for a game!!!

Cheers

[Guest]

Hi troops, i go along with the three open forums idea, that seems to be a fair set up. And i may just add there is more than one ass-hole on here, unless its the same guy.

[dummy_plug]

I think Donny has a pretty good idea of who it is...

[Guest]

you should shove a frill neck lizard up the wankers ass.....
then again ,,,,he may enjoy

[mardhi]

I have had a similar situation with Jay where some guy was sending all the pictures of her to her email address. He must have then read about how she thought it was so funny and so then trawls all my posts and send her a list of every LB I have posted about, saying how many I have been with and what a bad man I am. Jay to her credit just laughed it off and said something Like "wow just so few LB, and I have met most of them in Bangkok & Pattaya with you before". She then went on to say, she hopes I dont ask HER how many guys she has been with as its considerably more than me.

But seriously, I dont believe there is anyway to stop it - if somebody is so inclined to that kind of thing, they are going to be sat in their little room, leading their sad existence and finding a way around it regardless. Hopefully they will come to their senses at some point and realise its a relatively small community and they can achieve more by not being such a jerk and frankly I find it quite amusing as do many of the LB's concerned. If anything, it just means they become less trusting of people they have not met which could have an impact for just those people - as an example, Jay mostly ignores people who try to add her to MSN as a result of this guy and she just deletes any messages from him and people she does not know. Now she is one of the most friendly LB's you could ever hope to meet but its made her think twice about even bothering to chat to people on line.

Cheers
Mardhi

[donnnnnny]

Yes mardi you are in a similar situation to me, with fuk wits running around behind your back trying to fuk up a nice relationship with a nice girl.
Mint and jay seem to be too smart for these idiots, and basically take no notice of the shit on the rumor mill.
It is hovever annoying that some people just want to cause you trouble because they cant stand the fact you are having a great time with a nice ladyboy.

[Guest]

This is an extreme (and odd) form of identity theft...

[post-op lover]

Thoughts:
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nnnny impersonator: who can count how many ns there are? That could also have tripped him up. Seriously, though, he's just some fucker. I can vouch that it wasn't me. As far as I've heard, Mint has a dick, therefore not my type. If someone went around impersonating me, well, I'd favor cutting off their balls. And if they try it again, well, I have a pic I'd like to whip out, but it'd get deleted.

On making the forum for paying members: if you do, can you increase the %age, number, and quality of post-op pics appearing here? One could make it read-only, and that could be compelling. It would be enticing and yet aggravating to see but not post (yeah, there are lurkers, but so what). My vote is against making it only for paying members. Just restricting it to paying members wouldn't solve the problem. It might mitigate it, but we've seen before how even "trusted" members can misbehave (myself not included ).

What you could possibly do is restrict non-paying members to just a specific section of the board, say a specific forum, where the only discussion and pictures are of post-ops. That would antagonize, thrill, tantalize, and whatever, and you would get conversion. Except for about 3% of the folks, who would just be tickled pink by such a forum.

POL