Regrets about you know what

[Guest]

Chompoo and I were talking a few nights ago; she came over to spend some time and like always we got talking about so many topics; for a girl who looks like a perfect barbie doll that girl really has a lot going on inside her pretty little head.

anyway, we got to the inevitable chat about being post-op. she had always told me that she wanted to do it 'soon', but now she is having second thoughts. seems as though cute little Peaw had it done recently, and she is regretting that move. seems as though she used to enjoy watching gay-boy movies and whacking off, but now she watches them and has 'no feeling'. we warned ye, didn't we??? so now Chompoo is thinking maybe it's not the thing for her to do and of course i am trying to reinforce that.

to each his own, sure; but,living with a lifetime of regret? I will try and talk someone out of that anytime.

Jon

[Guest]

Pheaw ...

It hurts just to think ..

[Guest]

Jon,

Maybe start a Poll and show her the results.
In my -humble- opinion a post-op is a waste of flesh. While my first preference for sex would be an "asian" ladyboy, a PostOp ranks way down on the list even below gay guy sex which I am not into at all.
If a girl was born in the wrong skin and has hated her dick from birth then it is the right decision. But anything even slightly less than that should not qualify. The bottom line is she should do what is best for her. Hopefully she can come to the right position.
While she is far cutter than I we both probably share some of the same mental state. While I want to be as fem as possible, I would never, ever, ever consider losing my dong.

Good Luck!
tami

[Guest]

thanks for the honest post, tami, we appreciate that.

i have said it many times and i will always say this; if any girl wants to do that, I will support her decision. so many of these girls have that dream from when they were very small children, and if the culmination of their dreams of becoming a lady means to remove her dick, than so be it and i will support them as best i can.

with that said, i have spoken to about 20 or 30 post-ops and a pretty good number of them have all said that they regret it, and i also hear 2nd-hand stories like the one i related from Chompoo above. Once they do it and regret i, well, that's too late. this isn't like getting a bad haircut. I just wish these girls would wait until they are at least 25 or so before they consider doing this. I feel like 19 or 20 is way too young to make such an important decision.

one more thing; as i said last week, the book I am reading now about ladyboys says that only 3 out of the group of 43 ladyboys he was studying had done the final surgery, so the author put the number of SRS girls in Thailand ladyboy circles at roughly 6% of all ladyboys. Well, i can tell you from my own research that the percentage of girls who want this life-changing surgery is MUCH higher than that, at about 40-50 percent of the girls i talk to. no lie; i ask every single girl that I work with if she wants to get cut someday and about half say 'yes'.

Jon

[stogie bear]

i have said it many times and i will always say this; if any girl wants to do that, I will support her decision.

Baloney, (and the pun is intended!)

Well, I can't say I agree that I would do the same, and I don't agree that the number of post ops is approaching anything like 40% of the population of ladyboys. If nothing else the financial constraints of this procedure alone, is enough to dissuade even the most enthusiastic!

Maybe in the bar scene, though, it is that high. Still, I'm no expert! (I'd like to be, but I'm not!)

Thais are famous for impetuous and child-like behaviour. Some of these girls think that this operation is no more consequential than having a tattoo!

The industry is so badly regulated that you can march in at a moments notice and have some pretty major surgery for the right amount of cash!

This is crazy, (but this is Thailand, after all!)

I wouldn't stay with Kui if she went 'post-al!' That's not what I'm looking for. I agree with Tami that a post-op is a waste of flesh.

But if you really are a girl trapped in a mans body then firstly you are probably not a hooker, and secondly seek professional help, (and lots of it!)

[ramboz]

I would prefer to see the girls get circumsized instead.

DAN