la transexual de filipina

[snejana_demientrovska]

how many guys in this forum ever criticised about how filipina ladyboys are.....some of them say they are hookers, some of them say they are a bunch of second rate trying hard copy cat from thai girls...but the ugly version of it.....some of them are just femboys but never been in the peak of femeninity...some of them say they are scammers,thieves robbers,hustlers....


let me tell you something how filipina ladyboys evolve.......we live our life through our family...we dedicate our life with them and even obeying what they wanted for us.......living in a catholic society.....back on the younger days of our life and living our life with our family...we started the feeling that we are in a wrong sexuality.....but as we see our parents how much they are disgust by micheal jackson or boy george showing thierself on TV and our parents says yuck disgusting faggsss.......we tend to realize or hide ourself act normal as a boy...and fight the feeling of having our femenine side to live normal life just for our parents not to notice cause we are afraid to come our and be rediculed being embarassed by our parents......as years go by we go to highschool and we are much confident enough to show to the world the effeminate we are and tend to flirt with our crush and guys from the basketball team.....but go home and act and try to behave be a man.....but as our parents notice that there is something wrong...comess the most saddest part of being punished or grounded......but it cant stop us from getting out of the closet but still we have to behave infront of our family....comes the part that we go to college we meet a new circle of friends from girls to gays to transvestite and even transsexuals and femboys from the campus...while some of those girls dont want to go to college and better apply on an entertainment scene....apply for japan to become a cabaret dancer while some are just contented or joining beauty pageants from small fiesta to a big and prestigious gay beauty pageants for the honor and some extra income....while some girls chooses to be a prostitute and work in the streets or in the mall or even in the clubss hooking up some forieghners....

in this part of life we are almost as free....free from the highschool uniform and haircut policy..where we can decide to dress up as a girl and live as a girl...some of us runaway from home to seek refuge from our family who cant accept us for what we are we meet some freinds who influence us to take hormones to become beautiful and femenine and have some tits....some of us become sexually agressive.....some of us are really hardworking in finishing college just to impress our parents......

filipina ladyboys have a hard time being into transition as they live with a harsh society..pressured by our family....and wanting to live what is right on the catholic society......some of us give up some of us wanted to go on and live happily for what they are......its hard for us to get a job even if we are topnotchers from the univiersity having this kind of gender identity....we want to survive but no choice but to live as a hooker go to HK or singapore and have high price tag just to satisfy our transistion fo being a woman and at the same time we want to help our familly and not think that we are useless

being a late bloomer taking hormones when they are 19 or 20 or even above that age.....you see so many ladyboys in the philippines who are still a femboy and still need a little bit improvement....we wanted science project but science project is expensive......

so may guys here try to see how expensive and exorbitant the filipina ladyboys name the price......think about it honey our demand in the philippines is not too high like in thailand where they can hook up more than one guy in one night....while so many filipinas....can only hook up for one day in one month and to think our services provide so many things like tour guide...and everything a good girlfriend expereince you can have for the whole day.....and some of them do it heartily cause girls in the philippines also love to have companions some of them do it for the money.....so many incentives that most guys can get from a filipina ladyboys but we cant even get any thank you from them except nagging about the high price or ladyboys who looks like a man with long hair.....

another thing how many guys in here try to complain that filipinas are a big hustlers while the fact that this girls in the interent do need money cause most of them are going to school..help thier family.....and so many things to nagged about being a man in drag where hormones is expensive to maintain and science project is expensive....if you want your ladyboy girlfriend as femenine as they want to be then stop nagging just help them to achieve those things

thai girls started transforming so young that they really achieve some femenine perfection cause thai has liberal society...while filipinas start so late cause so many pressure from the family and the society.....

we hate being compare to thai girls...we envy them but we dont want to follow thier footstep cause most of us wanted a true boyfriend expereince and most of us wanted to travel abroad and live a new life as a girl and live a liberal life....we live in true transsexual empowerment....

thats why there so many filipina ladyboys who are a regestered nurse or a physical therapist in the western country cause they try hard to get there....be a man when they enter but once they are there they slowly start to transform thats why more filipina ladyboys abroad are in thier 30's already

[brocklanders]

There is no doubt that I believe it is difficult for a billyboy to grow up in the PI because of Catholicism. Catholicism has completely screwed up the PI. It is the most corrupt country in Asia and definately the most dangerous in Asia IMHO. Why is this? Pinoy think that they can do immoral acts as long as it for the benefit of the pamily and as long as they can pray to God for forgivenes at church or with the priest. It is ok to commit bad acts as long as God will forgive diba? This is the reason why tourists prefer countries like Thailand as Buddhism teachings are more peaceful, lending itself to a safer countries with less scams. Sure Thailand has their fare share of scammers also but Thailand is rich compared to the Philippines and the families of the PI can be lazy as hell and expect the children to do everything.

I do empathize with Filipina ladyboys in that regard but it doesnt mean I have to deal with overpriced femboys. Better to skip the PI and head over to Thailand, Indonesia or Singpore if you ask me.

One last thing...snejana states
"another thing how many guys in here try to complain that filipinas are a big hustlers while the fact that this girls in the interent do need money cause most of them are going to school..help thier family.....and so many things to nagged about being a man in drag where hormones is expensive to maintain and science project is expensive....if you want your ladyboy girlfriend as femenine as they want to be then stop nagging just help them to achieve those things"

You see this is the Pinoy rationalization to begging. The foreigner has the money and it is for their family so begging and scamming is justified. It's not. Put it this way, I have chatted with hundreds of Filipinas on web sites and yahoo and nearly every single one has made up some bullshit story eventually to try to extract money. Even the sweetest girls. Have chatted with nearly the same amount of Thai girls and have yet to have a girl make up a bullshit story or ask for money..not once.

Its not the English differential or the poverty...it's cultural and begging strangers for money on the internet is now a Filipino industry. I have met some very sweet girls but invariably the money questions start coming. If the girl is a gf or otherwise then of course I should be supporting her but they ask guys they have never met before, its the norm.

[snejana_demientrovska]

honey this is totally the reality of the philipian society thats why some of them become a bad hustlers cause everyone is doing it inspite of having hopes.........the goverments and the corruption the bad reputation of our country is making us hopeless.........especially we ladyboys whom people think in the philippines lives in the underworld compare to thai girls were they are part of the society...accepted.............filipina ladyboys are one desperate human beings trying to seek acceptance, oppurtunity, love,hope and better life and just like normal people but where is that.........in the place we are living in....thats why there is a tendency most of us girls become a cold hearted mercinary bitch......you see how hard working these ladyboys are even risk on playing fire...

youve been in the philippines for 3 years as you said that and havnt you seen so many ladyboys trying to be in a freelancing job from house decorator to a beautician to everything from fiesta activites and lots of it......and see how they work hard on it just to survive.....even making themselves a clowns or a laughing stuff in the public just to earn money..........

look at thai ladyboys they have cheap cosmetic surgery....they have cheap hormones....and as a working girl they can even earn a lot of money in one night.....well what do you think thier money goes to....of course to femeninze them...to make them eat....to give to thier family......to survive...they have all the oppurtunity in life


while we in the philippines we have expensive cosmetic surgeon, hormone maintanance is too expenisve......less demand on the market...no job hopeless

and is that all we get too many redicules from you people...were we also try hard to be one to be femenine...to be nice to anyone...to live a life....to be decent as we want to be...but where is that?

all we get is an criticsm we are trash....we are nothing but an ugly copy

expensive as you always nagged about but you never say thank you for the service we did our best but all we get is bitching about the price but im dating an ugly girl...come on why did you choose her for the first time

and lastly most of this girls are totally hopeless and broken hearted

we try our best to be beautiful, to be appreciated but all we get is the criticism of being low...nothing but a bunch of lowlife

[donnnnnny]

I agree brocklander
my last trip to the phils was way back in 1987. i always remember the place as being one big hassel from the moment you left the terminal on arrival until the time you re entered the terminal building and departed.
enough said

[brocklanders]

I understand snejana that the struggles that Filipinos(especially ladyboys) go through on a daily basis is criminal. It is a corrupt and unfair society but that corruption stems from the culture. Filipinos often forget that it is Filipinos themselves that are the politicians, police and other corrupt members of society.

I honestly cannot imagine how hard it must be growing up a ladyboy in a macho, catholic society where men are treated like kings simply for laying around all day long and making babies. A country full of small men with Napolean's complex...very similar to Mexico in that regard.

It's not Filipino's fault that the people in that country are not as beautiful as Thai people but it doesnt mean that Filipinos don't have a kind heart and are not hospitable. They are in general very kind. But I am sorry in that I cannot give an excuse for scammers simply because they have lost HOPE. Filipinos have really taken advantage of the internet in a negative way and now the entire world has them branded as con artists....the Nigerians of the East.

This doesnt mean that guys should not attempt to try to have a relationship with a Filipino ladyboy or woman. There are plenty of wonderful girls in that country but you must be careful in who you choose and meet their family before giving any support whatsoever. Filipino men are the laziest on the planet and the pressure they give their children is immense. It's important to see if the LB or girl comes from an honest family or wants their daughter to marry a kano for money. One thing is for sure, nobody should be complaining about sending money to a girl/lb they never met because anyone that does that is doing so at their own peril. I cannot imagine sending a complete stranger money but Filipinos seem to think Yahoo Chat is a form of courting.

[stogie bear]

Thanks brocklanders for your thoughts...

One of the reasons that the PIs are web-beggars is because it works! Otherwise they wouldn't do it!

Catholocism and other herd-forming fairytales are an insidious stain on any society. If you want to believe in voodoo or other mumbo jumbo then fine, but for heavens sake don't poison your kids with it.

Religions and child sexual rape are one and the same. If you are religious and poisoning kids then you should be segregated from society. Same goes for the Muslims, mormons and any kind of similar child abuse.

[Guest]

(donnnnnny @ Jun. 14 2006,03:24) i always remember the place as being one  big hassel  from the moment you left the terminal on arrival until the  time you re entered the  terminal building and  departed.
enough said

I lived in Manilla at about the same time and worked right throughout the country, and never had any problems.  Never even got mugged in Devasoria

I only remember fun times and accomodating people.

Dear old cardinal Sin never even gave me any problems. Great name for the head of the Catholic Church.

[bottomfeeder]

catholicism/religions- Boy, have they ruined lots of countries/societies! My heart goes out to anyone born with the brain of one gender and the body of another from any country where that idiotic dogma is prevalent.

[jmaryt]

brocklanders:...terrific post!..right to the heart of the matter!..very insightful!..truthful information!,and a great read!

[Stewart]

[/QUOTE]You see this is the Pinoy rationalization to begging. The foreigner has the money and it is for their family so begging and scamming is justified. It's not. Put it this way, I have chatted with hundreds of Filipinas on web sites and yahoo and nearly every single one has made up some bullshit story eventually to try to extract money. Even the sweetest girls. Have chatted with nearly the same amount of Thai girls and have yet to have a girl make up a bullshit story or ask for money..not once.[QUOTE]

Not once from Thai girls??? You have got to be fucking joking

On my mobile phone this morning, SMS from Ao in KC3 in BKK. Met her for 20 mins last Sat, bought her a drink, cute. Left saying I might give her a call next day. The SMS says "You come back in 2 weeks, It is my birthday, you can buy me gifts"

Brocks, give me a fucking break. The sick buffalo/sister/motorcycle story is endemic in Thailand, as has been posyed on this forum literally hundreds of times

[brocklanders]

The sick buffalo story is endemic of prostitutes in Thailand Stewart but with regular Thai girls, they dont beg for money. With Filipinas, whether they are working girls or regular girls they all beg for money. I was not referring to working girls at all in my post but next time I will be more specific when comparing Thai and Filipinas.

[Guest]

(stogie bear @ Jun. 14 2006,05:26) Catholocism and other herd-forming fairytales are an insidious stain on any society. If you want to believe in voodoo or other mumbo jumbo then fine, but for heavens sake don't poison your kids with it.

Religions and child sexual rape are one and the same. If you are religious and poisoning kids then you should be segregated from society. Same goes for the Muslims, mormons and any kind of similar child abuse.

[Guest]

I have a long history with Thailand and about of year with the Philippines. Many Thai bar girls, ladyboys, etc. will indeed find reasons for asking for money for there is always a bill to pay, gold to get out of hock, birthday party etc. It is very obvious that Philippinos have even more reason to beg, since they are poorer. And begging is acceptable when the pressures are more deeply felt not to become a prostitute because it is sinful or the society looks MORE down on you than they would in Thailand. The Philippino character has been corrupted by this situation. BUT the foreign man although aware of this situation, doesn't really have to partake in it. People take vacations for reasons. We have the freedom to get the best experience for our hard earned dollars and the best experience is to go to Thailand and avoid all the crap in the Philippines. The Philippinos have no choice. It is like a guy who makes a bad product and can't sell it because there are alternatives. Tourists don't go to Chad to surf and they don't go to the Philippines for a great sexual vacation because they have choices. It is no wonder that smart Philippinos want to get the hell out of the Philippines because it will never improve. It is a doomed country because the people cannot organize a change. But should we spend our lives paying double for bad hotels, bad food, and no so hot lovers? Look at the food and compare it to Thailand. Same ingredients--fresh fruit, vegetables, seafood etc. End result Thailand has a high quality cuisine and the Philippinos take the same ingredients and make foul sloopy greasy food. Who's fault is that?

[snejana_demientrovska]

hmmm thats quite sad

can you imagine how this internet scam started...as this ladyboys seeks for love or relationship......they end up broken hearted when they meet them in person..cause they are not comming back as this girls expect much of some spark to happen.....so many broken promises guys do..and not even one thing they never do.......why and what do you think.......why this girls have devils horn in thier head..use to be nice and innocent girl now eating up so many souls.....why do they become cold blooded isnt it you guys.......as ive said before......look and see the yahoo friends list of a ladyboys there are 10 guys from different country....and i believe only one out of 10 of them is not a pervert and so sincere and true and modest enought to chat in the internet....while the rest is some exploiters just wanting to see the girl naked on cam.......what can you say....no choice...if you cant beat them join them...but of course they have to pay the price...do you think its easy to get naked on cam?...do you think those girls like doing it?.....so many guys who are online on the yahoo doing nothing but sitting all thier ass and jacking off .......its hard to find good guys to chat nowadays.....and if you are one of them brocklander....well i must say you must be dalai llama or the pope in the vatican city chatting on yahoo or msn....that you dont deserve to be ask some money in the internet that you dont deserve to be victim of the scam...cause you are a modest chatter in yahoo..wow that must be a dream

think about it peepz which is more heavy the money that they extract you or the things that you do that is against thier rights....

[brocklanders]

Lol, nice try. I am on the net to chat with regular girls from all around the world. I dont chat with them to see them naked. If I want to see a girl naked, I will travel to that country or watch a porno. I never could understand cybsex, doesnt do anything for me.