mens ego vs ladyboys intellegence

[Guest]

I always enjoy good conversation and try to find things in common as I think it will make our time more fulfilling together. There should be some chemistry even if it's the same taste in ice cream.

Maybe it's just me, but I don't think it's all about sex.

[Guest]

Given the choice I always prefer to hang out with people I consider intelligent and that would include ladyboys. I'm not threatened by someone smarter than me, I try to learn from them. If intelligence is combined with good looks then all the better. What can be better than to spend time with someone who you can relax with, talk to about anything and who is also hot?

But if I'm looking to connect for sex and only sex, then intelligence falls by the wayside and animal attraction takes the wheel. Later it will become obvious and annoying that there's nothing to talk about after the deed is done and I will get my ass free from that person as soon as I gracefully can. But I wasn't really expecting to have them become my buddy.

Makes sense that it's easier for us westerners to talk to filipinas.  Snejana is a great example of this.  I find it fascinating to get her perspective on this scene.  She can express herself due to her intelligence but also because of her English.

I've gotta think that most Thai lb's lack of English fluency is a huge obstacle to overcome when you want to know if you could be "drinking buddies".  If I don't speak much if any Thai and you don't speak much more than basic words in mine it would be pretty difficult to know how well rounded a conversationalist you might be in your own tongue.  That doesn't mean Thai lb's as a group are any more or less intelligent than anyone else, it's just that it's harder if not impossible for a guy like me who doesn't speak Thai to figure out.

[dummy_plug]

Another thing to add is that its doubtful that many ladyboys - Thai or PI - have the experiences or education that most Westerners will usually associate with intelligence. My point may be open to debate, but few ladyboys are world travellers, have had the multitude of experiences most Westerners have, or have formal education at top tier universities. Granted they will have another perspective and experience that may result in what is best translated as 'street smarts', but I don't think that most farang will see this necessarily as intelligence.

[shaggedout]

I've said it before and I'll say it again .............. Snejana's one real angry little boy !!!

Yet more rantings from him in an attempt to portray a sophisticated, mysterious personna

[post-op lover]

(JaiDee @ Jun. 15 2006,12:05) If I could find a ladyboy who I thought was intelligent enough to carry on a normal conversation on a regular basis and was also sexy and cute, I may end my rule about just doing short times and not looking for a "girlfriend". The PI is the best place to do it; the only Thai's I have met who meet this criteria are Aon [now post-op and living in Australia], Nan [now post-op and living in Sweden] and Chompoo, now living in BKK and originally from Issan.

2 out of 3 - ain't bad!!!

The smartest postie I've known was a nurse or chemist in training. Great sex, and then a nice discussion of organic chemistry, vascular systems, and so on. What Helen Wong is to humanities, this girl was to the sciences. I adore them both.

[snejana_demientrovska]

(shaggedout @ Jun. 16 2006,15:25) I've said it before and I'll say it again .............. Snejana's one real angry little boy !!!

Yet more rantings from him in an attempt to portray a sophisticated, mysterious personna  

excuse me im not angry im just inspired on writing things hello who knows somedays im a transgender physciatrist and end up in the radio as the one who gives tips or in the margazine dealing with the gender issues..and transsexualism.....i may not outbeat ziggies post about interesing life or thai katoey...or the existence of transsexuals all over the world

and please stop using pronoun him, he, his or any pronouns or words that discribes male gender to me or any ladyboys in existence...some of them are ok with it but some of them are not ok and will freak out hearing one if you call them sit..mr or mans name

[shaggedout]

(snejana_demientrovska @ Jun. 16 2006,19:05)

(shaggedout @ Jun. 16 2006,15:25) I've said it before and I'll say it again .............. Snejana's one real angry little boy !!!

Yet more rantings from him in an attempt to portray a sophisticated, mysterious personna  

excuse me im not angry im just inspired on writing things hello who knows somedays im a transgender physciatrist and end up in the radio as the one who gives tips or in the margazine dealing with the gender issues..and transsexualism.....i may not outbeat ziggies post about interesing life or thai katoey...or the existence of transsexuals all over the world

and please stop using pronoun him, he, his or any pronouns or words that discribes male gender to me or any ladyboys in existence...some of them are ok with it but some of them are not ok and will freak out hearing one if you call them sit..mr or mans name

I may be the only guy here who cannot accept that ! You are a ladyboy and not a boylady. Pedantic, I know, but that is how I feel.

I may sincerely believe that I am a Boeing 747 and run down the tarmac at Heathrow Airport, flapping my arms and screaming "vroom vroom" at the top of my voice but I am still in for a fucking big shock when I dive off the end of the runway.

You feel that you are entitled to insult other posters on this forum but if you can't take it, don't give it!!!

[Stewart]

I've said it before and I'll say it again .............. Snejana's one real angry little boy !!!

Yet more rantings from him in an attempt to portray a sophisticated, mysterious personna

What the fuck is wrong with you? I can think of very few people on this forum that post such interesting stuff and she does

Fucking twat

[shaggedout]

(Stewart @ Jun. 16 2006,19:43) What the fuck is wrong with you? I can think of very few people on this forum that post such interesting stuff and she does  

Fucking twat

Everyone's entitled to their opinion, Stewart, just voicing mine!

[tropical]

snejana,
 You do create some very interesting topics and it is great to hear a ladyboys point of view on these many varied subjects.
 To answer your question with regards to feeling intimidated by an LBs intelligence ,(or any persons intelligence for that matter),I would say I am definitely not intimidated.
(not because i think i am smart,but knowlegable people dont intimidate me,people with guns and bombs stapped to them with limited intelligence intimidate me)
 I would actually be more attracted to the LB if we could communicate on a more intellectual platform,I discovered some time ago that short times were best for me because I cant stand the same old bar girl conversations leading in circles.
 I mean no disrespect to the bargirls/ Lbs etc and the level and type of conversations we have,for all I know they may be very well educated / knowledgable in certain fields that i would find interesting but the language barrier (my lack of fluent Thai)doesnt allow a true reflection of their intellectual prowess.
In relation to LBs from the PI, I have only ever been with one girl and I spent 4-5 days with her because I found her extremely intelligent, stimulating conversationalist,interesting and sexy as well.
Thanks again for your thought provoking threads.

[snejana_demientrovska]

(shaggedout @ Jun. 16 2006,19:43)

(snejana_demientrovska @ Jun. 16 2006,19:05)

(shaggedout @ Jun. 16 2006,15:25) I've said it before and I'll say it again .............. Snejana's one real angry little boy !!!

Yet more rantings from him in an attempt to portray a sophisticated, mysterious personna  

excuse me im not angry im just inspired on writing things hello who knows somedays im a transgender physciatrist and end up in the radio as the one who gives tips or in the margazine dealing with the gender issues..and transsexualism.....i may not outbeat ziggies post about interesing life or thai katoey...or the existence of transsexuals all over the world

and please stop using pronoun him, he, his or any pronouns or words that discribes male gender to me or any ladyboys in existence...some of them are ok with it but some of them are not ok and will freak out hearing one if you call them sit..mr or mans name

I may be the only guy here who cannot accept that ! You are a ladyboy and not a boylady. Pedantic, I know, but that is how I feel.

I may sincerely believe that I am a Boeing 747 and run down the tarmac at Heathrow Airport, flapping my arms and screaming "vroom vroom" at the top of my voice but I am still in for a fucking big shock when I dive off the end of the runway.

You feel that you are entitled to insult other posters on this forum but if you can't take it, don't give it!!!

i think this is a personal attact this man has no limits on talking can we bann him or delete his post

[snejana_demientrovska]

to shaggedout

i felt my right is violated and insulted by one member on the forum...i was just correcting him and telling him that refrain from using male adjectives to any ladyboys and even if the ladyboys looks like man or femboys its not good if you tell her with some adjectives that describe male genders...i felt like i dont belong in this forum......shit what the hell this peopl are very capable of insulting me were infact im not insulting them.....such a personal attack on me and its crossing the line already...look i just post as i want to cause i see it can benifits for some guys and it can also help ladyboys...sorry guys if im a type of ladyboy who has believe in transsexual empowerment.......

[ramboz]

JEEZ !!! Shaggedout, go get drunk or laid or something !!

DANNO

[shaggedout]

(ramboz @ Jun. 16 2006,21:27) JEEZ !!!  Shaggedout, go get drunk or laid or something !!

DANNO

I call it how I see it !

[katoeylover]

(shaggedout @ Jun. 16 2006,21:54)

(ramboz @ Jun. 16 2006,21:27) JEEZ !!!  Shaggedout, go get drunk or laid or something !!

DANNO

I call it how I see it !

Unfortunately, you see it wrong!! Snejana always posts interesting topics, and does not instigate, or ask for these sort of posts.

Please lay off the personal Attacks.

KL