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[Guest]

snedjana whre are you from and where do you live?

[snejana_demientrovska]

well im here in reykjavik iceland until may..im working here freelance on an icelandic film production and i will be back in the philippines on june

[Groundhog]

(snejana_demientrovska @ May 15 2006,02:34) well im here in reykjavik iceland until may..im working here freelance on an icelandic film production and i will be back in the philippines on june

That's cool ... what's the film about, and what do you think of Reykjavik?

... and if you don't mind me asking (I guess you won't, as you seem pretty even tempered given the shit you are taking from these guys) ... how did you come up with your decidedly Russian name Snejana Demientrovska (complete with patronymic)?

[jmaryt]

hello!..snejana!

i am curious snejana!..can you tell me why is it that
the more "passable" ladyboys in the phils atempt to
"sucker" guys over the internet WHEN the guy "HONESTLY" desires to get involved in arelationship?
the reason i ask,is because i had this happen to me,and i eventually WAS going to travel to the phils and meet this person!.i told them this,and they also proclaimed to me that they too,wanted a relationship with me!this person is very "smooth"with excellent interpersonal skills,however i know for a "FACT" their only motivating factor 'WAS" and "IS" money!..snejana!..i am NOT naive
nor have i ever been naive!..my interest in her/him was genuine,and sincere,and i had the "absolute" BEST intentions!..i was eventually told by this person that "ALL" the ladyboys in the phils "ARE" "ONLY" interested in money!..now i "know" that you can not
speak for another person,however your views on this matter "WILL" be most appreciated!...i assure you!

kind regards!
john

[jmaryt]

hello!..snejana!

as an addendum,may i add i had many long and varied conversations with this ladyboyon the phone over a long
period of time,and in my heart it was very real to me,however i know now that i was just being deceived for money!...again,any comments you would care to add
will be sincerly appreciated!

[snejana_demientrovska]

i am not lucky on that type of internet fraud im not washing my hands but ive heard so many filipna LB's point of view they make internet relationship hunting as business and i cant deny the fact that everyone is doing it.......i cant explain on thier sides and on my sides cause at the same time everything is so ironic.....we look for love from the other side of the world or a serious relatioship..cause we want to settle and we want be like a woman who get married..had a boyfriend or having someone we could share our life with.....at the same time..most of us milk our lovers so much...due to the poverty and life that we are living with....we eat...we breathe..we live in a house..runaway from our family cause some of us are not accepted for who we are...cant get a job...need to earn money....living all in ourselves.....or helping our family.....we need money..we live in a world were everything we do needs money..even keeping in touch with the one we love in the internet needs money.......also the maintenance of being passable and femenine lb needs money..we settle for science project just for us to copy and paste the femenine beauty before they settle for someone......yess there is a job......like being an entertainer in a cabaret show..call center..but most of those LB dont have enough time to be in the internet or meet someone in the internet they have busy life.....yeah LB hookers and street walkers..the same as the one who has internet lovers........

we look for love.. we look for someone serious but poverty is killing our emotion it makes us heartless and cold...but we dream of someday we would found a prince that would be serious and accept us....live like a woman..be with a man....its just a dream guys that we are not even excerting effort just to have them someday....

but remember it takes 2 to tango

remember guyss we t-girls have a heart and also fall in love with the guy we meet in the internet....he give us money but it doesnt matter for us as long as we see him in person..comes the part were we meet in person..but what happen whether he back off...or come back in his country trying to keep in touch but he cant cause he give up..or hes having a strings attached with anyone like parents or friends which he can't keep us girls as his lover.....

that leaves us heartbroken

well most of girls realize that love over money....

[Mai-Kee]

 Great post Minnie.... and true words!
Guys, read this carefully, try to understand and appreciate the fact that you have a genuine poster here - not one girl who you met in a bar a couple of hours ago and bullshits you just to make a few bucks...

Glad to have you here among these testosterone polluted perverts!  

MK

[Guest]

Guys, read this carefully, try to understand and appreciate the fact that you have a genuine poster here - not one girl who you met in a bar a couple of hours ago and bullshits you just to make a few bucks...

Took the words right out of my mouth, Mai-Kee

I met Minerva by chance in Cebu some years ago while on a date with one of her friends

At that time, I regarded her as a rare but unpolished gem - young, pretty, quite mature (despite her young age) in looks and demeanor, full of energy and ambition, and wanting (like all Filipina LBs) to find success and acceptance (but without the inclination to do so via the all-too-common internet scam)

Put simply, I have met few girls as nice and personable as she in the entire country

Kudos to her for her well-deserved success in her recent film contract

While living in Iceland and working / traveling in Europe, she has reveled in both the liberal social environment there as well as her ability to date and have fun without inhibition or prejudice

With this amazing time soon to come to a close, she has understandably experienced mixed feelings about finishing her contract and returning home to the Philippines - and so has elected to spend her free time in recent days sharing her feelings in this forum

That she has been both candid and vulnerable in doing so should, in my view, be rewarded rather than derided

Temperamental and emotional - occasionally

Iinconsistent or contradictory - perhaps

A bit unsure about where her life is headed next - understandably so

Wondering if she will ever be able to replicate the joys of recent months with a guy (or guys) once she returns home - for sure

My .02 USD worth -

Whether you disagree with a little - or a lot - of what she has to say,at least give her the respect she is due for being forthright and genuinely honest in what she has to say

As Mai-Kee says, you would be hard pressed to find her kind in your favorite bar hustling for her next drink or ST / LT

For Minerva - I hope you keep your chin up, and don't let the naysayers or cheap shot artists get you down

As they say, it doesn't pay to mud westle with the pig...

...as he is better at it than you - and LIKES it a lot more - all you will do is get dirty and frustrated to no avail

Better to save your energies for those who appreciate your inclination to play it straight and honest

Good luck and all the best to you as your time in Iceland winds down - I hope to meet you again (in Cebu or elsewhere) someday in the future    

[Guest]

Thanks Minerva,

Your last post has given me a real insight into the life of a LB.

Congratulations on your achievements and honesty. I am a big fan and would love to meet you one day. And yes, I will wine and dine at a place of your choice.

Keep posting, your rock chick!

[jmaryt]

hello!..snejana!

(maraming salamat!)..for your very insightful response!
the particular person i am referring to is,i believe a good friend of yours!...(ryan omega!)..as you mentioned,it is difficult,if not impossible to be treated with respect as a
ladyboy in the phils,however,this ladyboy had options!
she/he graduated from a prestigious medical school in cebu!..(velez college!).she/he could have taken a "well
paying" position as a nuse,either in the philippines,OR
in a foreign country,instead she/he CHOSE to be a "fuckin" whore!..to be honest,i have absolutely NO respect for someone like that,especially in light of the fact that he/she HAD options!this action indicates to me
that he/she is just looking for the easy way out!he/she doesn't give a flying "fuck" about a relationship,but uses this "ploy" to bait and switch guys on the internet
and over the phone!..he/she is always looking to see what he/she can "get" from guys!..that's it!..i have tons of respect for you,because you are at least "trying" to make things better by putting forth the proper effort to
make your life better by attempting to do the "right" thing!..snejana!.do you know the difference between an educated whore,and one who is NOT as well educated?..the answer is.....(no difference!)..this is because,a WHORE is still a WHORE!..no respect!..your attempt to break into the film industry to live a better life
for yourself,is a noble pursuit,and tells me that you have a lot of "balls"and you are determined to succeed!
best of luck to you now,and in the future!

regards!
john

[snejana_demientrovska]

hmm i know that girl you are talking and hey are you a member of yahoo groups cebut-girls

i am aware of that kinda situation on many LB not just that girl you metion but so many LB who doesnt even use thier brain or make some sacrifice.....well in such profession and having a degree and get a licensed nurse or physical theraphy.....is a very noble profession and earns a lot of money and well very much good way in getting you abroad like europe or in the US......but some of LB here in cebu chooses to thier vanity and transform into a girl making thier hair long.....wanted to be a girl..invest themselves in science project...and forget about thier degree in college and just earn income on becoming a beauty queen in fiesta.....or being an escort service girl....and what thier future lies...cause of thier vanity.....

i have a freind whom i encourage to study hard since she is on her way on getting a degree on physical theraphy...and told her that its better if you risk and sacrifice things.....get a licensed on it...be a man for few years its a challenge and try hard to get a job abroad....get your visa stamped on your passport and yess fly...once you fly to the US or UK or europe...you would be free......you can work in the hospital or clinic...dressing up as a girl.....be what you are and you are free in invest yourself on science have big tits if you want to...big hipss...cutting off you genetals if you want to.....and yess you would earn a lot of money from your job in the hospital...get married with a guy if you want to....i really learn a lot when i am here in europe and make me open up my eyes...on the liberal society that they have in here....thats why it inspires me to stay..and work here..and also encourage my friend who is not so lucky on getting a man

[jmaryt]

hi!.snejana!

yes!..i am amember of that group!...your friend plays the relationship game with people,because she/he has learned to be accomodating,and very nice to others,even though his/her heart is "cold" as ice!..trust me,snejana!..this person doesn't care about anything except money!...very smooth in her/his dealings with people!..she/he has even stated on her/his web site that if he/she was involved with someone in arelationship,that she/he would STILL HOOK!..CAN YOU BELIEVE THAT SHIT?..tell me snejana,does this person give a fuck about anyone?..don't think so!..this "shit bag" owes me money,that was extorted from me under false pretenses!as far as i am concerned!.eventually i will get over there,hopefully this year,and i would love to meet you there!.we can have a few "red horses" together,and we'll see who "sees" the horse first!..(lol)
never been to cebu,but have been to tagaytay,manila,
baguio,and a few other places!..i think the filipinos in general,are kind,inviting,and happy people who love a good time!..would love to retire there,but i am just concerned about living in the right place.perhaps you can help me with this?...continued good luck in your most interesting career objective!

regards!
john

[Guest]

Hi Snejana,

My first post here...and what a topic to start with.

I have had a few issues with phillipine LB's, as i used to travel there often for work, unfortunately i only get to Thailand these days. I enjoy both places, but as you say ,especially in Manilla, only one thing matters there.....$$$$$$$$$$$.
I was involved in a realationship there, but all she did was cheat on me and suck me dry ( and not the nice way!). This really put me off the place as i was totally unaware of what was happening at the time, totally naive!.

Luckily for me i met a special girl from Borocay, who i didn't even realise was a LB to start with. She does not work in Bars there but is trying to start a life and career. She has only a little money but never asks , and is ALWAYS positive about life. She also has similar views to you, which some of us guys should really take into consideration if we want anything more than what you get for cash. Its an unbelievabably difficult life which i think leads to these girls being what we may sometimes see as bitter and twisted and money hungry.....they need to survive.

A bit of honesty on either side never hurts if you are looking for a relationship snejana . Remember a lot of guys view these beautiful countries as "fantasy island", and there personalities change to accomodate this.

Hope u find what u are looking for  

Enough of a rant....its time for   and some cute   (oh and great site!)

[PigDogg]

(Mai-Kee @ May 16 2006,05:45)  Great post Minnie.... and true words!
Guys, read this carefully, try to understand and appreciate the fact that you have a genuine poster here - not one girl who you met in a bar a couple of hours ago and bullshits you just to make a few bucks...

Yes, it's a great opportunity to get a girl's real views.

Lots of guys would rather hear "up to you" and it's refreshing to hear the real deal although she obviouly can't spek for all ladyboys.