got to ask this

[tambourine man]

Me and a friend are thinking of going to BKK next month to sample LBs, thank god for sites like this. Just got a few questions

Someone said in another thread dont try to see the models on the website. Is it because the good ones, are probably always booked up? Or they maybe stuck up with an attitude problem due to them being in demand?

I was led to believe there are LOADS of LBs in BKK, so you should find some even better gems that have not been 'discovered'. Is this the case?

What is the protocol for picking up a LB? So you simply go to the cabaret clubs or well known bars and start talking? I dont want to cause offence by trying to blag someone who is not in the sex industry. Dont some of the local women get annoyed at being constantly propositioned by sex tourists?

Finally my mate is a cockney vietnamese guy from London and I am black. He told me he heard that the sex workers dont like seeing oriental guys and cater only for western tourists. They may take that same attitude towards me, because he does not know if a lot of black tourists go there. Is this true, or is the only colour they are interested in is the colour of money?

[jellybean]

(tambourine man @ Apr. 04 2006,21:29) Me and a friend are thinking of going to BKK next month to sample LBs, thank god for sites like this. Just got a few questions

Someone said in another thread dont try to see the models on the website. Is it because the good ones, are probably always booked up? Or they maybe stuck up with an attitude problem due to them being in demand?

I think it is more a question of managing your expectations. You will start fantasising over a particular LB and then may get disappointed if you fail to meet her or the experience does not live up to your expectations.

As for attitude, etc, alot depends on how you are with them, treat them good and they will most likely reciprocate. But remember, their human beings like the rest of us with real world problems to deal with, if they're having a shitty day,  chances are you'll cop some of it.


cheers

[Road Runner]

(tambourine man @ Apr. 04 2006,21:29) Someone said in another thread dont try to see the models on the website. Is it because the good ones, are probably always booked up? Or they maybe stuck up with an attitude problem due to them being in demand?

I was led to believe there are LOADS of LBs in BKK, so you should find some even better gems that have not been 'discovered'. Is this the case?

What is the protocol for picking up a LB? So you simply go to the cabaret clubs or well known bars and start talking? I dont want to cause offence by trying to blag someone who is not in the sex industry. Dont some of the local women get annoyed at being constantly propositioned by sex tourists?

Finally my mate is a cockney vietnamese guy from London and I am black. He told me he heard that the sex workers dont like seeing oriental guys and cater only for western tourists. They may take that same attitude towards me, because he does not know if a lot of black tourists go there. Is this true, or is the only colour they are interested in is the colour of money?

Hello Tambourine Man,

A Byrds fan by any chance?  

I would say not so much don't try to see the girls on the site  -  more don't expect to see them.
There are too many guys with fantasies trying to see them  -  why?  -  I don't know!  -  some of the quiet ones who don't appear are much nicer and more fun in my opinion.

There are many layboys in Bangkok  -  the city has a population of about 8 milliion  -  and Thailand has a markedly higher proportion of transsexuals than most other countries.
Not sure exactly how many are there but it is a lot  

As a 'newcomer' I would suggest going to the estabished clubs most of which are in Nana Plaza (also known as NEP).   You can find 'girls' out on the street  -  but this is perhaps not such a good idea on the first attempt.
The bar girls are normally friendly and open in Thailand and can be good fun.

Your Cockney Vietnamese ?  (that's some mix    ) friend is partly right I am afraid.  Most Asian countries are at least partly racist  (some are really bad    ) -  I am sorry to say.
Most of the girls will be OK  -  but it's possible that you will find some predjudice.  Luckily the Thais' sense of humour is similar to the British  -  so if you laugh it off in the same way you should get round the 'problems'.


Yes 'money talks' in Thailand  -  but don't let them rip you off.


Above all  -  go there and enjoy yourself  


RR.

[koykaeng]

(tambourine man @ Apr. 05 2006,03:29) Someone said in another thread dont try to see the models on the website. Is it because the good ones, are probably always booked up? Or they maybe stuck up with an attitude problem due to them being in demand?

I was led to believe there are LOADS of LBs in BKK, so you should find some even better gems that have not been 'discovered'. Is this the case?

What is the protocol for picking up a LB? So you simply go to the cabaret clubs or well known bars and start talking? I dont want to cause offence by trying to blag someone who is not in the sex industry. Dont some of the local women get annoyed at being constantly propositioned by sex tourists?

Finally my mate is a cockney vietnamese guy from London and I am black. He told me he heard that the sex workers dont like seeing oriental guys and cater only for western tourists. They may take that same attitude towards me, because he does not know if a lot of black tourists go there. Is this true, or is the only colour they are interested in is the colour of money?

It's certainly possible to meet the majority of the models on the site, however it would be advisable to head over with an open mind and pick someone that takes your eye when you are physically in the bar.

Many times when I've visited the LB Bars with friends, the focus has been on having a beer or two in every bar in Nana Plaza, and when I finally decide to go barfine some lovely I spotted 3 hours ago, chances are she has already been taken !

There are loads of Ladyboys outside the pay4play scene, but it requires time & patience to find them, and if you only have a couple of weeks holiday, then the likes of Nana Plaza is the simplest option.

When you visit the LB bars in Nana Plaza, it will be clear as daylight who is working, and the chances of offending anyway outside the sex industry is unlikely.

Money is number one in Thailand, and providing you are not a complete arsehole, finding a few LB's to entertain you won't be a problem.   I have visited the bar with a number of Asian friends from countries other than Thailand and they never had trouble barfining any of the superstars.

Cheers
Koykaeng

[katoeylover]

our great friend and major contributor to this site, Dummy Plug is of asian decent and when you read his trip report you wil find he had no problems at all..

Go out there with an open attitude, loads of cash, and have the best holiday in the world .

you will never want to go to anywhere else again!!

[tambourine man]

Thanks for enlightening me folks. I thought that I maybe stared at for the wrong reasons, because very few black people go there. But when I read another thread about martial arts, I know loads of black thai boxers and martial artists who go there and the other oriental countries for training and tournaments. Plus there is a large US military presence with Black servicemen frequenting the sex areas off duty. Do the regulars see many black tourists in the ladyboy bars?

Any how we will be there to lap it all up

[Road Runner]

(katoeylover @ Apr. 04 2006,23:55) our great friend and major contributor to this site, Dummy Plug is of asian decent

Hello KL,

I think you need to re-read Tambourine man's post.

I have heard and noted quite a few comments by Thais regarding falang's.

RR.

[relpax]

(tambourine man @ Apr. 05 2006,06:25) Thanks for enlightening me folks. I thought that I maybe stared at for the wrong reasons, because very few black people go there. But when I read another thread about martial arts, I know loads of black thai boxers and martial artists who go there and the other oriental countries for training and tournaments. Plus there is a large US military presence with Black servicemen frequenting the sex areas off duty. Do the regulars see many black tourists in the ladyboy bars?

Any how we will be there to lap it all up

speaking as a black asian mixed male, i have not had any problems in thailand. does it mean that bigotry is non existent there? absolutely not. however, it is not a huge issue for me.

besides green is the major color that talks in thailand and the world over.

[katoeylover]

RR - His friend is quoted to be a Vietnamese cockney - the post was about them both visiting?

[Road Runner]

(katoeylover @ Apr. 05 2006,00:43) RR - His friend is quoted to be a Vietnamese cockney - the post was about them both visiting?

Hello KL,

Yes but as I read his post - it was more to do with Tambourine man's reception.

RR.

[Torurot]

It's more a question of YOUR & the girls personal CHEMISTRY. If you meet some of the "super" stars in person you may not click, apart from pure physical looks. As you know ALL Black men have 10" dicks, so some girls are a bit scared of this (fact/Rumour). Perhaps if you are one of the rare Black men with "small" dick this could be a major talking point between you and the girls. ;-)

BTW Brown (1000Bht Note) is the favourite colour. Green is only 20 Bht.

[rob69in]

I think you will thoroughly enjoy your visit / holiday, the LOS is a very tolerant place compared to many i have visited, & money talks.

 IF... you are newcomers to the 3rd gender, the reality is often far more harsh than the fantasy, but the LOS is about as friendly & nice as it gets in this area.

 There are many LB's in the LOS as other members have stated, know who you would like to see from the internet superstars & where they are, but don't concentrate on trying to track them down. Just go with the flow of the evening, if you bump into an LB you like & you feel the moment & chemistry is right, then do the deed, flash the cash, & strut your stuff. Superstars can allow there "stardom" to taint there service & attitude somewhat. I have my favorites, but i do not allow this to control my evenings, if i feel the moment is right then "she" will be the one.

   Like others have said, stick to the known areas & i would not take on a freelancer untill you have gained experience. Just use this trip to get into the swing of things, but most of all enjoy it.