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Originally posted by (ziggystardust @ Jan. 03 2006,20:12)
I can say with a lot of surety, that the good attitude of Asian women has nothing to do with being a working girl. Non-working girls are even more lovely and sweet. Western women have lost it, in a really big way, and thus the success of so many mail-order brides, and why you see all the LOS bars filled with 40 year old men, avoiding western women.
In fact, I LOOOVE telling western women (WW's?) that I go to Asia and frequent "working girls" and exactly WHY.
Why? Because I love it when they prove me right by the resulting behavior. First, they point out how incompetent I am and how I couldn't get laid in the west, secondly they point out how I'm such a loser for wanting to fuck beautiful teen age girls instead of some 40 year old cow with two chins and four stomachs, third they tell me that I just want a "Suzy Wong" slave instead of an "intelligent woman like in the west", etc.
Originally posted by (rob69in @ Jan. 03 2006,16:07)
If you manage to get to the stage where you are taking out a weatern women, you are usually paying for everything, drinks, food, taxis/transport, night club entry, etc, etc. Are you not then renting there company?? This is a very imotive point with a western women, my arguement is, well if that is not the case, you pay for everything. There gone in seconds, you sussed the scam, & there off to the next sucker who will pay.
At least at the prefered locations LOS / Philippines, South America, there is no pretence, this then takes away the, " am i wasting my time " & the whole deal is more relaxed & pleasant for all concerned. I am afraid western women need to start altering there attitudes & taking a few sex lessons off LB's & South American TS & GG's.
Just my thoughts on the matter.
Exactly my opinion.
To any "proud" guys out there who say "I'd never pay for it", just let me say that there is no such thing as free pussy.
Why not just get the bs out of the way and get to business?
Don't get me wrong, I like to "meet and greet" and get intimate with the ladies (of all genders) but, yeah, the idea of bullshiting for hours trying to get one's carrot wet is nothing but a silly ego trip.
Originally posted by (grunyen @ Jan. 04 2006,00:02)
No. 1 is a guy named David d'Angelo. He sells CD's and books and stuff, but the best thing is his weekly email newsletter. It is free to sign up for. Sure, you will get pitches to buy stuff, but you can ignore it. Read the newsletters long enough and you will get the ATTITUDE that is the core of his teachings. The newsletters have stories from guys that are applying what he teaches and reporting back on what works.
The No. 2 thing is a book by a guy named Neil Strauss. The book is called "The Game".
Haven't checked Strauss's things but did the D'Angelo ones and got his newletters. Indeed he says lots of right things and takes a very indeep psychological approach that may turn useful in daily life too, not just with women.
Do only what you think it's good for you, and not what others think should be good for you!
Originally posted by (Looker @ Jan. 04 2006,17:16)
Haven't checked Strauss's things but did the D'Angelo ones and got his newletters. Indeed he says lots of right things and takes a very indeep psychological approach that may turn useful in daily life too, not just with women.
Yes, good point.
In fact, a got a few of the CD's from his CD series.
They are interviews between him and various other guys who he considers "masters".
What I realized and applied immediately, was that the way he wants women to perceive you is the way that would benefit you if ALL people perceived you that way.
I immediately began speaking a little lower, slower. Not answering people immediately when they called my name. I don't see it as acting fake, just modifying little things that you never really did on purpose anyway.
That change in your voice, and not immediatey answering people... you wouldn't believe what a difference that makes. People subliminally get the impression that you are busy and casual at the same time. That you don't just jump to others needs. When I started this, people immediately started treating me like more of a leader, and ironically, coming to me for answers even more frequently.
People begin to subliminally think of it as a treat when you acknowledge them.
You know a racoon that knows some dog or cat food is left out on the porch every night will not show up every night. Once he knows it's always there, he'll scout in other places because that becomes his safety back-up. HOWEVER, if you randomly put food out on various nights, he will show up EVERY night to see if it's going to be there.
Think about that and start applying that to your social interaction. I used to go to parties and stuff whenever anyone called. Truly I like to gather and hang out. Now I didn't just start picking 1 out of 3 times to say "No"; but I did start declining- or even saying I might come but not show up, on those times when I wasn't really in the mood for going out.
Guess what happened? People start thinking you're a hot commodity. People starting calling me more often to go hang out.
When you're takling to a girl on the phone, be the first one to get off the phone. When you're hanging out, cut the date short right after a good moment. If you hang in there forever, you seem desperate. If you pop in and out of accessibility, you're a wanted commodity. Her desire for you goes up.
If anyone wants to know the best tip ever, I'll tell you the sure fire, fool proof way you can know 100% of the time when it's Ok to kiss a girl.
Originally posted by (grunyen @ Jan. 05 2006,01:12)
What I realized and applied immediately, was that the way he wants women to perceive you is the way that would benefit you if ALL people perceived you that way.
Sorry to everyone for going a bit offtrack from the original topic..
Grunyen, I totally agree with what you say. Learning how to behave in public is a skill requiring excercising and committment like anything else you want to learn.
However, we should bear in mind that no matter how hard we try to act as smarter and better persons, we alway carry with us the baggage of our personality's negative points.
It's what it makes a difference between having success in life or not, and I do not refer exclusively to the economic side.
I strongly believe that our personality is forged in the very childhood and great part of the good/bad results rest with our parents' skill in bringing us up.
Do only what you think it's good for you, and not what others think should be good for you!
Originally posted by (Looker @ Jan. 03 2006,12:43)
Sure..giving away business cards to GGs and LBs works sometimes. Just be a bit careful if you happen to be CITIBANK C.E.O.
You said something right in a way. If you know is going to be a short term thingy, then you may not mind doing a bit of theatrical play just for the sake of a shag.
Hey, maybe on my business card I am Citibank CEO.
Unless you make yourself out to be someone who's got a little too much cash, and thus fall prey to robbery, kidnapping, or whatever, without the real means to get yourself out of that situation, feel free to put whatever you want on your card. ;-)
I've never done this, but it seems like a great idea. I've gotten "business cards" from escorts in the US, and of course it means nothing what's said on them. The only important data is the phone number. "Holiday Consultants" - my arse. "NYC Tours" - tour of the bedroom. "Manhattan Talent Corporation" - yeah, she's got skills. These are all fictional, but you get the idea of what a girl can put on her card.
Now, maybe this is grist for a new thread?
Retired the top 12. Need a new dirty dozen.
Update: The new list is coming together: Nong Poy, Anita, Nok, Gif, Liisa Winkler, Kay, Nina Poon. Is it possible to find 5 more? Until then, GGs: Jessica Alba, Yuko Ogura, Zhang Ziyi, Maggie Q, and Gong Li.
Update: The new list is coming together: Nong Poy, Anita, Nok, Gif, Liisa Winkler, Kay, Nina Poon. Is it possible to find 5 more? Until then, GGs: Jessica Alba, Yuko Ogura, Zhang Ziyi, Maggie Q, and Gong Li.
Duh, that doesn't work on Asians, and especially not on Ladyboys of Thailand. I can say with some certainty, ignoring them and pretending you don't care, is not the way to go.
I don't want to attract fat, ugly Western women. So I take this all this wonderful advice is thins I DON'T WANT TO DO.
As for what TO DO for hot, young, LBs in Siam Paragon, I await the silver bullet.
could someone with a camera phone go there and get a few shots for us? scout the location, where they work, etc...?
That would be an idea, and then put together a map of BKK showing the concentration area, divided in sub-categories, of LBs according to number per building
Of course, exclusions for Nana, Patpong and Soi Cowboy
That seems like a job for Ziggy! It requires skills, intelligence, logic and planning
Do only what you think it's good for you, and not what others think should be good for you!
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