From top to bottom

[Looker]

same same, not for me fellas

I even got now a principle of hemorroidis..so..no thanks
However ....I tried a few years ago with a non-worker in KL and it wasn't much fun anyway..just felt no pleasure.
To me is like when I tried to smoke in my youth..didn't feel it worthy or pleasurable..then why doing it?

[lbcrazy]

Small to medium size is okay if they are not too vigorous, but I've never wanted/dared to take on a big one or a slammer. I prefer to teach the big c*cked ones a lesson

[Guest]

It does take a while to get used to being fucked and to enjoy it. For me the key is to be able to relax enough so its not painful and if you want to experiment I suggest you get yourself a butt plug and take your time trying that out.....Will help you get relaxed and check out the feeling at your own speed.

I love to be fucked....but cannot take a big size cock comfortably.....the tips that work for me are

Use plenty of lube....make sure you get some right in your ass before you start.....those disposable rubber gloves are good for this and general ass play.

Make sure the girl starts very slow til you relax...Its sometimes hard to curb their enthusiasm.....

Concentrate on relaxing....

An alternative that is also great is to have your girl use the rubber glove and lube to finger fuck you while she is sucking your cock or jerking you off....great sensation and much smaller size....

Good anal sex is the best sex I have ever had...if I get the energy I will write an interesting story in trip report soon

[Guest]

You have to decide why you didn't enjoy it. Was it the pschology or physical, albeit, I think they are tightly coupled.

Physically, you do have to do this a few times, before it is not just a exercise in pain tolerance. After that, you move on to the pschology.

We do NOT want to get on to the "is it gay to bottom?" topic here, please, but I think if you are wondering about your sexuality, and your head is spinning, you won't enjoy it. If you're over that, and you're looking up at a beautiful Ladyboy, and thinking how you're going to enjoy it, it will be totally different. There is pleasure in being receptive, as all gays, ladyboys, and many heterosexual men can attest to, so it's really up to what you personally feel on this.

My view is that physically it is enjoyable, and it's 99% mental as to whether you like it or don't. Also, I'd add the individual ladyboy plays a big role in how you feel. I do top and bottom, and with some it's both, and some, never bottom, because it just doesn't feel right. For everyone, top seems ok

[Guest]

Hmmm. Here is the strange bit. If being bottom is either a turn off for some, or too painfull for others, why the fixation with lbs with extraordinarily large cocks? Something to play with?

Maybe we should have a thread on lbs with small dicks that can get hard instead . That info may be useful to those that may want to try being bottom without being split in two!

[Guest]

My view is that physically it is enjoyable, and it's 99% mental as to whether you like it or don't. Also, I'd add the individual ladyboy plays a big role in how you feel. I do top and bottom, and with some it's both, and some, never bottom, because it just doesn't feel right. For everyone, top seems ok

This is my view on it too. The lb has to be an adept top and able to hit the prostate just right, or else the feeling will be much less pleasureable. Most men don't realize it I guess, but the prostate is a sex organ too that will give you great pleasure if properly massaged. Why is it that some lbs can cum when being fucked, even without touching their cock? It's because your thrusts are stimulating their prostate just right. Some of them know just how to position themselves to help with this process.
My preference is I like everything you can with an LB. I like to fuck them and have them fuck me, the ones who can anyway. Have yet to find one that is too well hung. I took Nancy and lived to tell about it
I love to suck them and have them suck me. One thing that's so cool about non-op lbs is that there is an obvious barometer as to whether or not they are turned on, or just faking it for your sake like GGs can possibly do. A non-op would have to be very heavy into hormones to not be able to get hard at least a little bit. Never seen it happen yet.

[bottomfeeder]

My best sexual experiences are when I know my partner is really getting off. That said, the idea of a beautiful ladyboy seriously enjoying fucking me is a real turn on. Once my ex girlfriend tried to insert a vibrator(modest size) in me and it was incredibly painful. That's as far as my anal experience has gotten. I'd like to try it with a lb someday but it would have to be one with a small cock.
But from reading the forum, I get the impression that it's the gargantuan ones who like to top. Set me straight, am I right about this or in your experiences do many small cocked passable lbs like to top? Thanks.

[Looker]

Hmmm. Here is the strange bit. If being bottom is either a turn off for some, or too painfull for others, why the fixation with lbs with extraordinarily large cocks?

Not a fixation of mine thanks!