Gay or not finally sorted out….. or

[Looker]

A dick or a pussy in and of itself has no sexuality.  It's only the mind of the user that wields it that has a sexual orientation.

Exactly
Sex is pretty much in the mind! Pumping an ass or a pussy for one hour without much sexual stimulation from the mind becomes just a calorie-loosing activity. No more, no less

[brocklanders]

I dont prefer a man made pussy over a real pussy when the sex is bareback but sex is always covered in Thailand and sex with a manmade or real pussy is exactly the same with a condom as condoms give me zero sensation. The only difference is that the manmade pussy can sometimes be much tighter than a real pussy making the friction a little better. In addition, I also like small dysfunctional dicks because the dick doesnt get in the way and I can still have anal sex which is something very rarely done with gogo girls. Furthermore, I love tall girls with fake tits and ladyboys is the closest thing I can find while in Thailand.

[Guest]

Yes Stogie I agree every LB dreams of being a woman.

But what I was wondering is that because of society and that's the only image to aspire to? I wonder if we had other well accepted, attractive, respected images (like a true Third Sex), would they all orient to the feminine image or some would go for that third one? We'll never know of course, we only present children with 2 images, so if you don't like the male one, you have no choice but to desire being the female one.

Separately, it's funny most of us talk about the mind, but most chat is on the great sex. I guess, even for me, it's the mind, but if I have a choice on the sex, it's LB all the way, and there are enough LB minds that are just fine, so why see GGs anymore? I still like girls, but they have to be very, very good for me to get aroused now.

[post-op lover]

By the way, what I really don't get is why we say LBs have the minds of women, that they say they have wanted to be girls since such young ages, but so few of them really seem to be eager to have SRS. Few mainstream straight guys will or could love them wholeheartedly. In my case, I don't think I could even begin a relationship unless it seemed SRS was in the cards.

What do you prefer about post-ops from a physical standpoint over a GG? No doctor can manufacture a pussy equal to a natural pussy.

I've answered this before, and I know you've been around this board for awhile, too... So, have you tried it?

Looker's answer is on target.

Personality is also a part of the attraction. There's many other facets, too.

[mirimark]

My own experience has been the complete opposite! Almost all the ladyboys I have met dream of being (complete) women.

I dream of being a Bicycle Seat on a Hot Summer Day..
Is that Wrong ? ? ? ? Or am I just being an Annoying American >.....

[post-op lover]

Hey MM! Glad to see you're back. Who's the cutie in your avatar? When did she get SRS? Yummy

[Todd]

Been out traveling, so haven't been able to reply until now. The intention with my initial post was not to start another gay/non-gay debate, just added the quotes to share a laugh. I thought they where quite funny and shows how lots of people like to judge other people from their own short-sighted perspective.

I was with my first LB almost five years ago, and have had many nice experiences since then. Whether that makes me gay, bi or straight, I don't care and I don't like to put a tag on people. I think I'll agree with looker, let's call it a Fetish, interest or a hobby.

€˜'If you eat pasta, then you must be Italian''


/T

[Guest]

Hey MM!  Glad to see you're back.  Who's the cutie in your avatar?  When did she get SRS?    Yummy

Her name is Lee and still pre-op. Works Obsessions but now working Cascades while Obs is closed, very cute little thing.

[Guest]

Everyone makes choices. No one is born a certain way. I choose to like ladyboys, both pre and post. I get a weird kick out of cut girls as well as small cocks that don't work. Its about choices and right or wrong we make them. Some men decide they want to be a woman and some cut their cocks and balls off and some keep them. They make a choice. I know my choices are perversion and I don't feel real good about them but I still do it.

[thaibound]

I dont prefer a man made pussy over a real pussy when the sex is bareback but sex is always covered in Thailand

"Always"?
You might tell that to some of the lovely ladyboys (and even a couple GG's) I ran into last trip who seemed to care little one way or the other as to when, how and for what activity --or even if at all -- condom(s) were applied.
Mind-reader that I am, I figured the less they cared, the more I should... biking without a helmet will eventually bust open your head.

[coxy277]

i like this subject in a way im lucky as im marreid to a thai gg but i ilke lb's aswell she puts up with giving me a couple of days each holiday in thailand to go do what i like i asked her one day if she thinks im gay she said why you bom bom man i said no just lb's she siad in thailand u have lady and man but we also have ladyboy younot gay if you like ladyboy and lady you are just greedy

coxy

[thaibound]

but we also have ladyboy younot gay if you like ladyboy and lady you are just greedy

             coxy

i love that.
"you gay?"
"no, just greedy"

what's the thai word for "greedy"? it's got to be briefer than "otherwise straight guy who likes ladyboys as much as ladies"

[Guest]

. . . im lucky as im marreid to a thai gg but i ilke lb's aswell she puts up with giving me a couple of days each holiday in thailand to go do what i like . . .

Wonderful relationship. If more women had their heads screwed on straight like your wife there would be a whole lot less distress and divorce. Being confident enough of your relationship to let you go enjoy yourself speaks volumes about both you and your wife.

I am curious if your wife also has the urge to sample other people and if you're cool with that? Probably she hasn't the inclination (doesn't have the testosterone push). The old 'what's good for the gander is good for the goose' is an interesting question when it comes to relationships as guys frequently want the freedom to screw who they will but get a bit jealous if their mate wants the same.

[coxy277]

the wife saysi can have fun with ladyboy becouse they have somthing i like that she cannot give so ive told her anytime she wants some gg she can have she said NO pity

coxy

[69billy]

Who gives F..k to the labels...I'm what I'm...They can