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  • #16
    You are talking about non-working girls, Looker.... if you have found a few that enjoy chatting or recieving e-mails than that's great and enjoy it.  as I say, I don't really know any of those girls because I am only there part of the year and only know bar girls; from what they tell me they don't like pointless mails that go nowhere. This is Ziggy's post about bar girls and I think it's true; "These girls think in terms of "today", a few think in terms of "tomorrow", but almost none in terms of "next week" and zero in terms of "next month". They get customers by the hour, does anyone think they dream of you coming in a month?"

     for me it makes no sense to 'chat' {I have NO instant messaging programs, I feel like it is a huge waste of time} or even e-mail with ladyboys; if I do, that means I have to meet with them and I am tied down to that or else I am a bad guy.  I like keeping my options open when I travel and not have to see X  or Y just because we have been in touch the last few months; what if they turn out to be duds or not my type?

        I stay in touch with Candy and Chompoo, Teresa sends me letters sometimes, Icey, Natalie , May and Lisa and a few others, but they are just my friends;  and I still get about 1 per  day asking for translation but that's about it. Hey, I didn't make this thread to be cold to the models or shoot down your idea's of how to make new friends, whatever works for you is cool.

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    • #17
      Originally posted by (JaiDee @ Sep. 07 2005,21:41)
       for me it makes no sense to 'chat' {I have NO instant messaging programs, I feel like it is a huge waste of time} or even e-mail with ladyboys; if I do, that means I have to meet with them and I am tied down to that or else I am a bad guy.  I like keeping my options open when I travel and not have to see X  or Y just because we have been in touch the last few months; what if they turn out to be duds or not my type?
      Well..yours is a very respectable choice.
      If you don't want to have the hassle of having to find excuses with someone to be able to meet another, and having jealousy sparks burning around you, then it's better to avoid all the e-mailing and chatting stuff that in a way or another create some sort of affection feelings and truly are a waste of time.
      I try to strike a balance when seeing non-working lb's and gg's and not glueing myself too deeply with any of them.
      I reckon that not as an easy task

      Hence I perfectly understand your feelings.
      Do only what you think it's good for you, and not what others think should be good for you!

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      • #18
        You know what? I'm recognizing in this thread and others, The Private Dancer syndrome. For those of us who live here or frequent here, we recognize almost every single line in The Private Dancer. For those who don't, it sounds like a cynical piece of fiction. Believe me guys, every single word in The Private Dancer is true. Almost every thing in there, I have personally experienced, except execution, so far.

        So, JaeDee saying "x" and Ziggy saying "y" is because we've experienced all the crap that goes with workers, and ever a few non-workers. But I do recall (and maybe JaeDee you too), sending e-mails and letters to LBs when I was "young", or let's say, inexperienced with their thought patterns. So it's completely normal for y'all to think LBs love you. What you're hearing from us hard-timers, is, mmmm, well, not maybe that thinking needs adjustment.

        However, what Looker so eloquently said (his post is a work of art), is that with every general rule, there is exceptions, just like all language lessons. You learn the general part, but there's these exceptions. And, no doubt, and I have met a few non-workers, and workers, who are wonderful, chatty, e-mail people. May, of Cascades, is my favorite girl there. Last night at dinner, dressed in a lovely flowery, long, decent dress, she told me about how she finished her accounting diploma, and wants to go 2 more years to get her University degree. She sends me SMS that are nice, and not "I fuck you dog if you give me 1500 baht", even if I don't take her out.

        So there's 2 messages in all this. First, listen to guys like JaeDee, Ziggy, Snick, Stogie, etc, because we know the harsh part of reality here, but, we are also a bit of a cynical group, having been "fucked" so many times (pardon the pun), and sure enough, we are wrong a few times, because of these wonderful exceptions.

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