Long term relationship

[Guest]

There are bar girls, and regular lb working a real job, but what about those that do the occasional customer to 'supplement' their income ? Would you still consider these as 'working' and hence subject to all the usual caveats and warnings ?

yes, of course

whether they work in a bar or not is not the point, some ladyboys feel confined in Bars and will never work there; just because someone walks around Nana Plaza outside does that make her less of a working girl? or if she will only meet guys from here or chat rooms? she is still selling her wares and of course open to the same warnings.

sounds like you just have to use your head; if you THINK your girl is seeing other guys, she probably is.

[Guest]

There are bar girls, and regular lb working a real job, but what about those that do the occasional customer to 'supplement' their income ? Would you still consider these as 'working' and hence subject to all the usual caveats and warnings ?

yes, of course

 whether they work in a bar or not is not the point, some ladyboys feel confined in Bars and will never work there;  just because someone walks around Nana Plaza outside does that make her less of a working girl?  or if she will only meet guys from here or chat rooms?  she is still selling her wares and of course open to the same  warnings.

  sounds like you just have to use your head; if you THINK your girl is seeing other guys, she probably is.

Yes, I even KNOW she is. Question is, how many and how often ? I can't answer that specifically. Although according to her (?) it's sporadic.

So, in your view, does this make her the same as all the others ? Are there any questions of degree, or in your opinion, is a working girl a working girl, no matter where or how often she 'works' ?

Does it make any difference ? And can a 'part-timer' change more readily to a normal life compared to a full on bar pro ?
This is my question.

Appreciate the input.

[Tomcat]

1  seeing another guy
   Yes, I even KNOW she is. Question is, how many and how often ? I can't answer that specifically. Although according to her (?) it's sporadic.

2
Does it make any difference ? And can a 'part-timer' change more readily to a normal life compared to a full on bar pro ?
This is my question.

1
Sounds like were dating the same girl

2
Many of the University girls part time hook around the Bali Seafood zone area/Soi Rat specifically towards the end of the month(after they finshed working around) and thats the best time to find them. Also they float outside Nana .

Not just full time students but also open Univ as well.

It seems to me that they dont like to be called working girls and in their own heads they aint, but the hard fact is that while you are selling your arse to the white devil then the taint remains.  

The two Univ girls i know are actually very very nice Ladyboys and decent people and dont have that hard nosed edge that sometimes comes with the bar .Although many girls in the bars are also nice , no question bout that, its just a matter of degree. My own thought is that as long as its once or twice a month then maybe there is salvation. I hope so anyway !!!


TC

[Guest]

I can't answer that specifically. Although according to her (?) it's sporadic.

So, in your view, does this make her the same as all the others ? Are there any questions of degree, or in your opinion, is a working girl a working girl, no matter where or how often she 'works' ?

I don't know, Anna the traffic stopper would never work in a bar and yet she has met guys from this site for sex for money; is that not a working girl? even if she only did it a handul of times? I don't see university girls around here going off with guys on weekends and having sex for money.

It seems to me that you are seeking assurances that your girlfriend only has eyes for you, electric, and that despite the fact that she is dating other guys and making herself available to others you are the only one for her. This subject has been beaten to death up here and as always I think you can only have a real relationship with her or anyone if you are right there with her 24/7.

[Guest]

Thanks for both of the above.

TC, I hope it's not the same one ? Maybe you can PM me on that.
I agree with the salvation hope too.

JaiDee, I appreciate your honesty. Actually I'm not really seeking assurance about the 'only has eyes for me' aspect.

They need to earn money, this is an easy way, and sure, not everyone chooses that path, and some are horny and like it, but my question really was/is, would that stop if there was a relationship ? Or is it too late, or just not realistic ?

I agree with the 24/7 and don't think I could handle a long distance thing.

BTW, tried the law school thing myself, but still don't know what 'this' is.

[Tomcat]

but my question really was/is, would that stop if there was a relationship ? Or is it too late, or just not realistic ?

Will you also still stop Butterflying around. Most guys, in fact nearly all the guys i know fuck around with other partners behind there wife or girlfriends back so there are two sides to the coin.

Men are programmed for infidelity due to the fact that they dont know if a child is their own to carry the Genes forward. e.g One in 10 kids in France are not related to the father( last survey). Think Prince Harry !

I doubt if more than 60% of couples of all genders have a true 24/7. Just think of your own friends !!. Or maybe all my buddies are cads and scoundrels.

For me about 4 days a week would perfect for both sides.


TC

[Guest]

BTW, tried the law school thing myself, but still don't know what 'this' is.

"this" is pornography

  all through my 30's I was stuck in a dead-end career and always asked myself "is it too late for law school?",  and in any case I didn't really want to look at paperwork all day long so I chose another path and it has worked out much better.

at around the same time my good friend Dave started going to Suffolk; he is miserable now, I am not

[Guest]

JD, The "this" I was referring to was MY ''this"

TC, I'm not a cad or a bounder, though I know plenty of those. I can keep it in my trousers, although I empathise with those who can't.

So I'd expect as much from my partner,(lb or not) no excuses. Now if that's not 'genetically' realistic, then I'd stand corrected and make allowances, if possible. That's what I'm trying to find out here.

Appreciate all the comments.

[Tomcat]

I can keep it in my trousers, although I empathise with those who can't

:

She said to me , you go to Taiwan soon, there many pretty ladies.

I said , yes i know.