Ejaculation woes

[Guest]

this is something I have trouble with..... I can get hard and fuck with no problems, but sometimes finishing the act is more work than it's worth and it gets to the point of frustration; I am going to take this guys advice and see a urologist.

 I read this line loud and clear; when I was 25 I could cum whenever I wanted to; 15 years later it's a chore

       "one reason could be your age. Sorry. The older we guys get, the longer it takes us "

Doc's advice on how to get off better; see another Doc!!

[Guest]

for men as they age;

 Sexual arousal requires more physical stimulation

Erections take longer to achieve/are more difficult to sustain

Ejaculation requires more stimulation

Ejaculation is less forceful


          I only agree with line number 3; line 4 is bullshit as my loads are still VERY forceful. but for sure I need more stimulation than ever and whereas I used to be able to cum just from fucking now I need to fuck, pull out, and have a lot of stimulation and friction before I can lose my seed.  very frustrating sometimes      

[Blue Ballz]

maybe, this is serious, you are fucking too mutt. Is there such a thing?? If you are going out every night fucking then theres no "build up to blast off". Why dont you just have a pic of "MOOSE" (inside joke) by your nightstand. That way youd lose it for sure!!!

[Guest]

dude, that pic of Moose is permenantly burned into your brain and also poor Snick and Bueno, who both want to kill me now! next time you try laying the wood to Ming his image will pop up in your mind and you won't be able to even get hard LOLOL

I do notice that if I take a day or 3 off from screwing the next time I get back on the horse [errr, ladyboy] I have no troubles getting off at all. But that means I can only fuck every 3rd day? kinda makes for a sucky vacation when you only have 2 or 3 weeks, doncha think?

as I scan the local yellow pages for a Urologist.... Mike TS Lover, who is 12 years older than me suggested that I see a doctor as well and says that he has no problems at all since his visit. could be worth it.

[Snick]

Last I ended up taking home a beautiful ladyboy from a nightclub, absolute stunner college student, but it was too good to be true. She was CUT.

And my performance was quite lacking, I thought it was due to lack of dick and too much whiskey. But now I know th truth it was MOOSE.

But I will have my revenge !!! I have BRUCE

[Guest]

Last I ended up taking home a beautiful ladyboy from a nightclub, absolute stunner college student, but it was too good to be true. She was CUT.  

always ask first!!

my buddy Michealangelo once told me he took home a beautiful ladyboy in Chiang Mai; turned out she was cut and I said to him, "I thought you didn't like cut girls?" He says in total innocence; "I didn't know she was cut until I got her home"!

Blue Ballz and me in Patong beach to a group of 3 very beautiful ladyboys; "Are you girls cut or no cut?" Their answer....."what do you want"? Blue Ballz answered without any hesitation, "The Truth!" But in fact we knew anyway; girls that are too good to be true are usually cut.

Bruce..... I owe you one snick, you fucker..... he was even worse than Moose

[Snick]

I did grope the girl, and I "thought" I felt something.

I've been saving Bruce....kind of my ace in the hole

[Tomcat]

Sure , as u get older the urge drops off.......one off the members , RexT(i think), is a doctor and he knows about this stuff although i havent seen his posts for ages.

Also.........
any type of Blood Pressure drugs will kill your Libido stone dead.I know this as i have hypertension and have to take the med and take Viagra to get the hard( and what a hard!). One assumes that you dont have this problem.

Smoking and Beer are the next two downers. Ten Changs will disable a dicks firing pin completely. I think this is just common knowledge though and i believe JD said he is a strict fruit juicer.

Although Viagra wont actually raise the Libido it is certainy worth a go. Dont leave home without it......

[Guest]

Smoking and Beer are the next two downers. Ten Changs will disable a dicks firing pin completely. I think this is just common knowledge though and i believe JD said he is a strict fruit juicer.

I do drink but very rarely, and I never smoke. for instance I have not had a beer in at least a month, but when I am in BKK I sometimes partake, only when I am out with the lads; never at home or if I go out alone. Last time I went to KC3 with Snick and another friend in early May I had about 5 Changs; double the alcohol content of 'regular' beer; picked up 2 cute girls and while I did get off my performance was less than memorable.

I have learned my lesson; more than 3 beers, go home alone rather than try and fuck when it's nearly impossible or at the very least a chore.

[Mai-Kee]

Fantastic....been away for a while and haven't regularly checked the site, but this thread I have to remember.....
Well....what can I say... not only wine is aging well, but once you emptied the bottle....
Ok, seriously, as I think I'm about your age, JD. I was never one of those 3-times-a-night performer and funny thing is that I had exactly those ejaculation problems you are talking about when I was half my age and dating gg's. After I overcame this period of illusions and disillusions I never had it anymore and I have to say that the older I get, the hornier I become.
Sounds terrible, I know.....

MK

[post-op lover]

  But in fact we knew anyway; girls that are too good to be true are usually cut.

I saw that!

[Guest]

Yup, I have no problem admitting that....some of the most beautiful people I have ever met of any gender are post-ops and some of them just blow me away with their beauty.  walk into Kings Corner or go talk to Som in BKK or  Linly in Phuket and you can see what I am talking about first-hand. I am quite sure it has something to do with not producing any more testosterone after their balls are removed and it makes them the most beautiful that they can be.

still all-in-all I want something to grab on to when it comes time for choosing my sack-mate; I need more than just a pretty face to get me aroused.

[Stewart]

or Linly in Phuket

Well, she was in Crazy Horse in Spore last week....I just wandered in and nearly had a fucking heart attack watching this beauty gyrating on stage....then I realised who it was!!

And guess where I am going tonight!!

[Guest]

Jai Dee (Jon of old) - yes, I have experienced some of the same woes that you lament over.  I am just about 60 and I started having some degree of difficulty as you describe about 6 years ago.  Getting hard initially is often no problem and certainly with modern medicene, that difficulty is no longer a major issue.  However, depending on the circumstances, actual ejaculation can be difficult - just like it is for many of our LB friends (i.e., the same virtual problem).  Of course, it could be just the hormonal changes with advancing age (men are accused on undergoing a male menopause by some women).  For me the mechanism still works just fine, it's the denouement that fails to materialize on occasion.  Perhaps, we now know how women feel when they fail to achieve an orgasm.  However, some women can still enjoy the love making in spite of failing to achieve an orgasm.  In that regard, inspite of difficulties achieving "milk" production as I was told by my first sex mentor at age 8, we can still enjoy the overall experience and feel satisfied.

[Guest]

I have the opposite problem... I find myself ingesting substances that will make it more difficult to cum... and often stopping in the middle of sanuk mak mak to take a break so I DONT cum... Because I know when I DO cum, its beddie-bye for me essentially.. (damn I hate that. I know ladyboys who will cum 3 times before they are tired) -- but for me cumming = INSTANT exhaustion.

I remember when I was 17 / 18 cumming 4 or 5 times in a 2 hour period... those were good times.. hahah... Im 30 now... still cum quicker than I'd like...

(sigh) I suppose everyone is defective somehow.