Personal attacks not welcomed here

[Guest]

anyone who reads here can see that for the most part we all have a good time here and discuss the one thing we all have in common; our love for ladyboys!! and travelling in Thailand. We don't allow spam and there is very little flaming and other bullshit going and and we  would like to keep it like that please.

 No names here.....some of the threads recently have involved multiple people and there is no cause for this, and while I understand that people don't like being provoked, please take the high road and just let it slide. We have never been a forum that has to Censor and we never want to be, but personal attacks or  attacks on ones nationality are just not something we want to see here and it takes the fun out of the forum frankly. I for one am tired of seeing this nonsense and will not hesitate to use the "delete" key if I see any more from now on.

 You don't like someone or the country that they come  from? Then send them a PM  and tell them directly, and don't involve the rest of us because we don't care!! No more hiding behind this forum and ruining whole threads that just turn hateful for no reason...... use your PM option, send them a letter, and meet and chat about it like men.

Thanks, we want to have fun here and not deal with hate.

[Guest]

Now I understand everything.

Ave, Imperator, morituri te salutant.

Bricktop

[SPIRIT CRUSHER]

Yea fair enough Jaidee. I was suprised when i first signed onto the forum how nice everyone is, i don't think theres another forum on the internet as peaceful as this one is.Sure theres debate about post op an pre ops which is fun but the board isn't controlled by elitists who flame all the newbies if they have a different opinion on a topic.I guess what im trying to say is keep the peace guys

[Guest]

yup, there is no reason to be haters......we all have differences of opinions here on many subjects but why personally attack someone for those differences? or their country? Everyone here is cool and we should just have fun....except those bloody yanks of course

[Guest]

Flaming on this forum is a tiny part of the day to day exchange of useful ladyboy info and newbies should not be in anyway intimidated or reserved simply because if you write a sensible, reasonable post were you don't brag about how good you think you are or how popular you are then no problem will ever happen.  The problem occurs when certain luvvies on this board start singing lyrical about either there sexual prowess(not) or how demanding ladyboys are on there pathetic small time lives or how much they know about nana/kc3 etc. that you do not know !!! Get my drift ?  

The forum is here to swap info and share experience, not a platform for some pc members to lecture others on what is right & wrong/black and white about this TS scene.  Opinions are like assholes - everybody has one and every ladyboy experience is different and you should not be swayed by 1 member or another ! Just go out and see for yourself !!

I DO actually know of several relationships between guys and ladyboys that have WORKED over a long period of time despite the fact that so called experienced vets know better !!!  Sure, not many but that's up to you - the so called authority here is NOT ALWAYS correct or an authority !!

Personally, I flame people because sometimes they make comments that are either arrogant, plainly illogical or because they give you the impression THEY know best !  

8 years here and I know that I know nothing OK because I am not arrogant to assume I know all the answers, nobody does !!!! If you want my thoughts then you might  get them.



   

[Guest]

 The problem occurs when certain luvvies on this board start singing lyrical about either there sexual prowess(not) or how demanding ladyboys are on there pathetic small time lives or how much they know about nana/kc3 etc..........

   the so called authority here is NOT ALWAYS correct or an authority !!

see, you are doing exactly what the rest of the people on this board find YOU arrogant and small-minded for and you are playing right in to the hands of this post. If you have a problem with Mike or Me, why not write US and tell US about it, not the whole group?  So, a guy talks about how he screws a lot of girls or how they know a lot about the scene and that makes them bad and worthy of being ripped publicly?  I don't get it.

  My patience here is getting thinner than the ice on the pond outside my office window, and I am doing my damndest to appease the many people who have been writing me lately but you're not making it easy Brick.

[Guest]

Time to stop Jaidee OK.

The aussies got ya !

I'll write you later.

[stogie bear]

Take the high road, dude... just don't get caught!

The forum runs fine for the most part. If you bite on certain comments then you are gonna get bitten back. It's best to report the posts you don't like using the "Report This Post" feature that is nailed to the bottom of every post! If you do, then something will be done.

Like I say - this is the least of our worries on this forum. If you have been on any other forums about any other subject then you'll know that this one is an open minded bunch of cool guys who pretty much all get along.

To be honest - I'm not too worried about the comments that are written ON the forum. They can be dealt with quickly and effectively. I'm more concerned about the daft ninnies that repeat what they read to their gossipy (ladyboy) chums!

The forum is here to swap info and share experience, not a platform for some pc members to lecture others on what is right & wrong/black and white about this TS scene.

I nearly fell off my chair when I read this. I could round up a litany of postings that our Bricktop has written telling us what the rights and wrongs of the ladyboy scene are! How we are treating the girls like dirt, etc! How we have all got it wrong and his opinions are the 'norm!'

I hope he wrote that with his toungue firmly wedged in his cheek!

The thing is, Bricktop, is that your arguements and opinions are diminished in reason and effectiveness when you litter them with attacks. Being different is a good thing. This forum would die if we were all the same! Also, bear in mind that some people don't "get it" when you are winding them up and some people simply don't like to have their chains yanked!

Anyway - we are getting more and more members signing up and actually posting. That's good to see.

The golden rule is to write what you think you would say if you were actually talking to someone! (A golden rule that I have often broken myself, and I regret it each time I do!)

Long me we continue to have this wonderful place to ALL share our thoughts.

[smuttleydfs]

Yea fair enough Jaidee. I was suprised when i first signed onto the forum how nice everyone is, i don't think theres another forum on the internet as peaceful as this one is.Sure theres debate about post op an pre ops which is fun but the board isn't controlled by elitists who flame all the newbies if they have a different opinion on a topic.I guess what im trying to say is keep the peace guys  

Spirit Crusher...........We're really really going to "Crush your spirit" if you don't reveal name and details on your avatar!!!!!!!!

What a BABE!!!!!!

[SPIRIT CRUSHER]

Yea no problem smuttley it's the one only sunny, who appeared on this site in july 04 an also with niki's gallery(the pic in question) in august 04. An will crush anyones spirit of those who plan to meet her before i do.

[Stewart]

Also, bear in mind that some people don't "get it" when you are winding them up and some people simply don't like to have their chains yanked!

Well, I can understand the personal attacks thing......don't give a shit myself....but if they don't like people taking the piss a little....come on!!!!

[stogie bear]

taking the piss a little

You're not paying attention, Stewart. We passed 'taking the piss a little' a long ways back.

And now it stops.

May seem heavy handed but the forum is not headed in a direction that may alienate some of the members from reading and posting.

This recent flurry of negative posting is having just this effect.

Not any more.

[Guest]

Good to see this .. too many sites are just nothing but BS ..

I have just about given up on Bkk tonite .. if you go thru the threads you will mostly see guys just going back and forth about nothing..

I have not used this forum much for the same reason.. too much noise ...

Going back to Bkk on the 17th of April .. have several good time "girls" lined up for fun and frolic ...

may even post a FR if the moderator keeps his word ..

I know moderating takes time .. I have a yahoo group and every day I spend time deleting posts, banning spammers, etc.. but the site is much more usuable than most other yahoo groups .. so it is a decent place for guys to post about LBs and the Bkk scene.

[Guest]

I have not used this forum much for the same reason.. too much noise ...

more than a few people have probably abandoned the forum for the same reason, they were tired of seeing pointless personal attacks and threads that degenerated into shouting matches; yuucchh.  we try and keep a flame-free forum while at the same time allowing people to basically say whatever they want; not always easy to do.

   I have seen many forums  and message boards for ladyboys and these 4 that we have here are the best  and most diverse on the whole internet, by far; lets not fuck that up by talking crap about one another.

[Guest]

I know I've said it before but I do apologise to Jaidee and Stogie particularly. I do know you put alot of hard work here and I really appreciate what you guys do sincerely. Sorry but I'm prone to explode that is just Bricktop but he will try to be a diamond geezer now - well almost !

" The high-minded man does not bear grudges, for it is not the mark of a great soul to remember injuries, but to forget them." Aristotle.

Bricktop