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(roland @ Mar. 29 2008,15:15) My straight answer is €“ there are ladies/ladyboys (not many) despite working on the P4P scene deserves, like human being, all my respect, especially those who makes that life to take care them family and future.
Unfortunately, like Stogie said, many of them are into the sex industry only to make money for themselves and spend it in drugs, playing cards or whatsoever.
Not pretending to be "sweet mouth" luckily you Neung are on the first group and I u for that
RR
kisss
neungthe love in life
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(roland @ Mar. 29 2008,17:15) Not pretending to be "sweet mouth" luckily you Neung are on the first group and I u for that
RR"I can see it in the eyes.....they get hollow and soulless a year or 2 after the Op .... I coined the term ''shark eyes'' to describe that look"
Jaidee 2009
The other white meat
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Neung, I have not had the pleasure of meeting you yet, but from all the comments I've seen and what you are written you are a very special lady.
You will get quite a few different answers to your question - what Stogie Bear wrote probably covers what many guys think.
For me, I do understand why some ladies work in the bar. There are few jobs that will pay well enough for a lady or ladyboy to support her family. Everyone dreams of doing something better for the family - and we have seen photos of your visit to home, as a great example.
In cases like this, I feel that is just like any job - except it pays very well. The problem with this kind of job is that when the money becomes the most important thing - to buy the next designer bag or clothes, or if the person falls into the trap of drugs.
If you have a plan to help your family and earn enough money to open your own business you probably will not fall into the problems that SB wrote about.
I have also met some lb bar workers - some are quite nice, and some not so nice. I also know a few who were able to make enough money to get out of bar work and are successful with a new career or business.
It has been written there are plenty of opportunities for ladies and lbs to find good jobs. This may be true, but these jobs usually pay enough for one person only - not enough to help a family. In Thailand the government does not have much social services, so the family must look after itself.
So Neung, though we have not met, I agree with the others you are a very special lady - make your plans and I hope you are successful and will get out of the bar business sooner instead of later!
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(rxpharm @ Mar. 29 2008,21:07) I feel that is just like any job -
I hope you are successful and will get out of the bar business sooner instead of later!
Why do you hope so? It´s like any other job, right?
Personally i disagree, being a prostitute is not a "normal" job, in fact it´s a very bad job, and wouldn´t want my gf to be one.
That doesn´t stop me from buying prostitutes in Thailand though."I can see it in the eyes.....they get hollow and soulless a year or 2 after the Op .... I coined the term ''shark eyes'' to describe that look"
Jaidee 2009
The other white meat
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(sev7en @ Mar. 29 2008,21:54)Originally posted by rxpharm,Mar. 29 2008,21:07If you have a plan to help your family and earn enough money to open your own business you probably will not fall into the problems that SB wrote about.
I agree with what Rxpharm says in his post. I have not had the pleasure of meeting you. I really enjoy your posts and pictures and you seem to have a nice family. Just make a plan for your life and stick to it and you will get out of this life what you seek. Below I have an example of the goal sheet that I use and it does work. I filled it our with examples to show you how it could be done. I read my goals 2 times a day, once when I get up and once before I go to bed. Life is funny, it gives you what you ask for. Good luck to you and I hope you use this example to ask for what you want in life.
MY SHORT TIME LIFE GOALS: Less than 5 years
I want to own a beauty shop & beauty supply store in my home town of in 3 years
I want to earn 70,000 baht a month from my businesses so I can support my family
I want to earn my bachelors degree in Accounting to help run my businesses
I want to find the right man to love.
MY LONG RANGE LIFE GOALS: 5 to 20 years
I want to own 5 beauty shops, 2 beauty supply stores and 1 moblie phone store
I want my family to be happy and well cared for courtesy of my businesses
I want to own 2 homes for myself and 1 for my family
Below are the actions I will take to reach all of my goal
ACTION 1. I will read these goals each morning when I get up and also before I go to sleep at night
ACTION 2: I will enroll in Accounting classess starting (Fill in Date)
ACTION 3: I will save 80% of the money I am now making. I will not do foolish things like drugs or gambling
ACTION 4: I will read as many books as I can on self improvement to help me stay positive
ACTION 5: I will always treat people with respect and never become jaded - See number 4
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(BAM @ Mar. 29 2008,06:02) I'm glad to see someone pinned this thread up to the top... it's one of the best on here.
"The day in the life of a real Ladyboy"
Even chronicles her Breast augmentation and family visits in her Village... Very nice to see the private side of her life too.Mister Arse
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Yeah me too, for a while there. IN MY OPINION, out of respect to Neung, I'd like to see the posts in this thread limited to ones from her, and the ones from others be in response to her and and what she posts. Not going off on tangents about other basically unrelated subjects, like it was for a while. This isn't a chat room, it is a message board.“When a nation's young men are conservative, its funeral bell is already rung.”
― Henry Ward Beecher
"Inflexibility is the worst human failing. You can learn to check impetuosity, overcome fear with confidence and laziness with discipline. But for rigidity of mind, there is no antidote. It carries the seeds of its own destruction." ~ Anton Myrer
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(stogie bear @ Mar. 29 2008,16:37) Many tourists have never seen beautiful ladyboys before and will come when you touch their dicks!
A good example of how the mighty have fallen is the case of Vee (#1) in Cascades.“When a nation's young men are conservative, its funeral bell is already rung.”
― Henry Ward Beecher
"Inflexibility is the worst human failing. You can learn to check impetuosity, overcome fear with confidence and laziness with discipline. But for rigidity of mind, there is no antidote. It carries the seeds of its own destruction." ~ Anton Myrer
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(neung cascade @ Mar. 11 2008,12:00)(neung cascade @ Mar. 06 2008,00:40) Anyways i want to make a small trip report of my time in Loei if u are ok.
Ok mai? I will do it next week
Many many kisses
Neung
first i say goodbye to my room mate and good friend Ben (she also work in cascades) after bus station with my friend ladyboy May
pics last night in morchit st.
I am new here and to Cascades. I took Annje two weeks ago and will return to BKK in April.
So happy you are on the forum. I want to know more about you and friends. Also, enjoy the family visit photos.
What numbers do you and Bim and Ben where at Cascades???
Thanks again. You are very lovely to view but also it is obvious you are lovely inside and very smart.
BEST, JohnTBA young (58) retiree from the USA who enjoys both GGs and LBs. In BKK its Guess Bar. In Pattaya it is Strings on Soi 13/1, so far. Best
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