No personal attacks please

[Guest]

It has come to my attention that a few of the threads up here lately have been out of control and even some personal attacks have been posted, which is not what this forum is all about. We have put this forum together to talk about ladyboys and our experiences with them and also for travel tips and inside info about the ladyboy scene in a few different places, but not for people to rip one another; that's no fun.

Stogie, if I can't read here every day to make sure everyone is playing nicely, please don't be afraid to hit the 'delete' key once in a while if you see a thread getting out of control.

[stogie bear]

It's only one person who is starting the fights and we all know who that one person is.

He's been winding people up since the old mustard started and every now and then,when he is off the meds, he starts doing it again.

I'm not afraid of using the delete button, but unless a member reports a post to me there's not a whole lot I can do. In other words - if people posting here don't like what they see they can complain about it and something will be done!

It's a bad idea to start deleting stuff simply because I don't like it! Many forums have died quick deaths as a result of over moderation!

Also - forum trolls only post when they think they can get a reaction. If you respond to posts that piss you off you are feeding the troll - doing exactly what he wants. It'as so much better to simply report it and it'll be dealt with very quickly.

There are ways of banning people too. Their IP numbers can be blocked or their user names deleted...

It's not very efficient though and there are many ways around these temporary banning methods. It also turns trolls into vindictive and dangerous people.

At the moment there have been two infected threads and after a member reported one of them I deleted it within seconds. That's the best way to handle it.

If anyone is on the forum a lot and would like to come on board as a moderator then PM me and if you are a regular and well respected poster we'll sign you up so it isn't just me doing all the dirty work!

Finally - let's keep a sense of perspective. It is just one poster posting a few badly thought out posts. If you are a poster on other forums around the WWW you'll know that here at AsianTS.com we have a 99% trouble free forum.

I think we have the formula just about right, but I'm willing to be swayed by other members who would like to post their opinions on how we should handle these things...

Stogie Bear

[wisetraveller]

I used the 'report this post' button today. (You can guess who I reported).

So, let me say to all members - do not be afraid to use the report button.

cheers

WT

[Guest]

The "Freedom of Speech" is one of the greatest rights that was ever given to civilization. Tens of thousands have died defending this right. If what people say does not play well with you then ignore it. Censorship is not what I expect or want on this site and I will not tolerate it. Also, a case of tattle tale is, in my opinion a bit childish. OHH, OOOhh, Mr. Moderator, so and so said something that hurt my feelings and I want to tell on them. Jesus Christ, are we grown up here or what?

[Stewart]

"Freedom of Speech" is one of the greatest rights that was ever given to civilization.  Tens of thousands have died defending this right.  If what people say does not play well with you then ignore it.  Censorship is not what I expect or want on this site and I will not tolerate it.  Also, a case of tattle tale is, in my opinion a bit childish.  OHH, OOOhh, Mr. Moderator, so and so said something that hurt my feelings and I want to tell on them.  Jesus Christ, are we grown up here or what?

F**k me, I am agreeing with Lipflipper!! Not good

No censorship please. I love Bricktops bullshit, and wait in anticipation to see who takes the bait and gets pissed off

[Guest]

even some personal attacks have been posted, which is not what this forum is all about. We have put this forum together to talk about ladyboys and our experiences with them and also for travel tips and inside info about the ladyboy scene in a few different places, but not for people to rip one another; that's no fun.

Well the guys that provide this forum for yours and my benefit seem to think that it is not here for personal attacks or the amusement of some members. I personally agree with this philosophy. I guess in the end the voices of the majority will rule in this democracy.

[Bit Beefy]

Did i miss something?

[Guest]

Ozzie,relax,you need to laugh off,perhaps even show some sympathy to the the poor misguided soul who continuously baits others on this forum.It is obvious he suffers a massive inferiority complex and emanates from a tribal group who cant bat cant bowl cant catch cant run.What more can i say.Did i just bait somebody.

[Guest]

Ozzie,relax,you need to laugh off,perhaps even show some sympathy to the the poor misguided soul who continuously baits others on this forum.It is obvious he suffers a massive inferiority complex and emanates from a tribal group who cant bat cant bowl cant catch cant run.What more can i say.Did i just bait somebody.

[smuttleydfs]

You know guys, people who have been around here for a while realize that I sort of disappeared for a while other then posting my weekly football picks after being a member and regular contributer for about two years and quite frankly it was because of the direction and attitude some posters and threads had gone. Its bad enough when people feel they can use forums such as this to voice their inner bigotries and prejudices but when the personal attacks started, including myself getting caught up in it, I figured I didn't need to get caught up in that sort of bullshit on a forum that I've enjoyed immensely. So I decided to continue to read and enjoy on an almost daily basis but to keep a low profile to see if the personal attacks and other garbage was going to continue. One of the primary offenders, in my humble opinion, has disappeared but as noted by JaiDee there still is some continuing problems. I enjoy this forum and discussions about my favorite hobby too much to continue to stay in the background as much as I was before but I refuse to get caught up again in the other bullshit again.

The bottom line is as Stogie puts it getting to the point of "moderating", "deleting", and "censoring" negates the overall objective of this forum which I think is a place where a bunch of misguided perverts can come and express their appreciation for the third sex, express their opinions on world matters freely without fear of reprucussion, share their experiences in all aspects of life and pretty much be free to talk about what ever they want with the other contributers here. When the forum and individuals on it denigrates itself  to name calling and personal attacks it the best thing to do, in my opinion, for those who are being attacked and are offended by this sort of childish behavior is to ignore it and maybe it will go away like a cancer that doesn't have anything to attack.

This is just my input on this subject and it is all I have to say on the subject. I do not wish to debate my comments and I refuse to get caught up in a major controversy over what my input is. I intend to return to the forums and discussions of the things I like on this sounding board, like the size of JiJi's cock, and my amorous erotic adventures with the ladies of Cascades and Casanovas.

In the infamous words of Rodney King..........

"Why can't we all just get along?"

 

[Guest]

Well I have to admit I am getting a little exhausted with all this bickering and from this point on I will ignore all posts that try to provoke a reaction purely for the sake of it.

Lets all get back to the topics at hand and our common love for the ladyboy and all that they offer us

[Guest]

yes, by all means please don't anyone get the idea that I want censorship here and I may have misspoken when I said that Stogie should hit the 'delete' key more often; it is not our goal here to stop anyone from speaking their minds and moderation has always been a relative word here; I still believe the only posts we deleted here, ever, were some un-substantiated claims that May from Pattaya was ripping off some guys and was a member of the mafia or some shit. we believed her side and deleted the 2 or 3 posts that bad-mouthed her with any proof and that is the only time we have ever done that.

I suppose I can't TELL you guys what to do...... it just seems like this forum should be for fun and not for ripping other people publicly. if you don't like something someone said or want to call them an idiot, send them a PM and keep the rest of us out of it; we are here to have fun and talk about the models, not read personal attacks.

[stogie bear]

I reckon it's the bloody Ozzies that started world war two!

[wisetraveller]

The "Freedom of Speech" is one of the greatest rights that was ever given to civilization. Tens of thousands have died defending this right. If what people say does not play well with you then ignore it. Censorship is not what I expect or want on this site and I will not tolerate it. Also, a case of tattle tale is, in my opinion a bit childish. OHH, OOOhh, Mr. Moderator, so and so said something that hurt my feelings and I want to tell on them. Jesus Christ, are we grown up here or what?

See how you feel when you are on the receiving end.

[Guest]

No need to moderate anything to do with what this site is supposed to be about, dickhead comments like from Bricktop however are not what this site is about.

I agree with open speech and venting ones opinion, but sarcasm, just like again today aimed at Stogie over his comments about Chopoo and that hypocrite Bricktop slams into him like some pussy on a hero crusade.

He is first to defend his right to make comments yet when someone makes a comment he doesnt like he uses his very poor communication skills to slam into them, hypocrisy at its best or worst whichever way you want to view it.

This type of comment from that idiot is not worth cluttering up the board, these types of postings should be deleted immediately, thay add nothing to the site, and are not keeping with the site intent nor its spirit.

Delete this type of posting immediately it appears and idiots like Bricktop will see it is a waste of time and go elsewhere.