Generalizing

[Guest]

well, as usual  it has  come to my attention that  the stuff  I say up here is  being reported  back to the ladyboys so  once again I must start generalizing;  I thought I had  cut back as much as possible!!  seems to not be the case, as I had to delete a whole thread today  which had a 1-sentence throw-away line by me which was reported back to me by a pissed-off ladyboy.  damned shame.

  you guys like Lotus and Bricktop, Mr. Lonely and Stogie and Blue Ballz, etc....remember the old forum  when we could all speak our minds and say what we wanted and it was all good?  shhhhhhh....those days are over, the tip-off police  are out there now in full force trying to make themselves look good at  our expense.   Mirimark wrote to me recently and asked me to express my feelings up here on  a subject that I know quite a lot about, but I told him I couldn't because  there were too many small-minded and small-dicked people who read here just waiting to pounce on my words, which is so gay.  Oh ya,  and we can't forget personal threats from dickless eunuchs who think that's cool or something.

You think  my posts have been pretty bland the last few months,  from now on I have to be REALLY generalizing things and not even mention names and certainly not report on the cool things that I hear in the scene and get in my mailbox from the ladyboys.  Too bad; I know a  lot of shit about our models and could help so many people as I have before  but now  mum is the word  once again.

  thank the pussies!!        

[stogie bear]

This has happened to me a couple of times in the past and recently a couple of Americans claimed to know me to a girl in Pattaya. (It was Tanya - if anyone is reading this!) The girl called me and I told her the same as I tell anyone who pulls this crap on me...

"If they have my phone number then I know them. If not - it's a scam and they're talking bollocks!"

To be honest - things were no different on the old forum. There have always been and there always will be a few people who will tell the girls (and the guys too!) almost anything that comes into their heads after a couple of Changs!

Let's face it JaiDee... People are gonna quote you and say they know you regardless of the facts. If you never post another word it won't stop happening!

It can be bloody annoying when you get misquoted or so called "information" is circling behind your back. Pretty much all the guys I hang with from this site can seprerate what is true and what isn't, without me having to explain myself.

I don't envy your relationship with about 500 mean bloodthirsty ladyboys though!

[Guest]

well, what the problem is mainly is that what I say up here is either misquoted or reported back to the ladyboys, when in reality my goal was to help a certain customer or the group in general. 5 years of being hip-deep in this scene has taught me a LOT, and I thought this forum was for sharing that information? Can't do it as much as I would like to, not when there are people here [mostly lurkers who only read and never would dare post] who are just dying to tell their favorite ladyboy what I say and make me look bad in their eyes. Has happened at least 20 times and am damned tired of it.

My posts have been pretty vanila up here the last few months and will now be even more bland, which really sucks for the newbies and guys who would like to pick my brain for ladyboy knowledge. can't do it, sorry; only generalized terms from now on with no ladyboys being mentioned personally and certainly never ever ever no talk about money or sexual talk of any kind.

I thought my thread about old friend Chompoo was pretty nice; but how much ya' wanna bet the next time I see her she will say " why are you talking bad about me on the forum?" I can't win.

[Guest]

I would be a damn shame for that to happen JD.

Taking an optimists view it is possible that some of those guys may not have realised the impact of their actions but hopefully now will be more careful with what they say to the ladyboys and others about what they read on the forum.

Maybe we need a secure thread for those posts which are only viewable by invitation to those you trust. I know probably more trouble than it is worth, but your I for one find your posts very interesting and contain much valuable information even for those of us who are in LOS regularly, so I can only imagine how much help they are for the newbies.

[wisetraveller]

I would be a damn shame for that to happen JD.

Taking an optimists view it is possible that some of those guys may not have realised the impact of their actions but hopefully now will be more careful with what they say to the ladyboys and others about what they read on the forum.

Maybe we need a secure thread for those posts which are only viewable by invitation to those you trust. I know probably more trouble than it is worth, but your I for one find your posts very interesting and contain much valuable information even for those of us who are in LOS regularly, so I can only imagine how much help they are for the newbies.

I agree with Ozzie on this one. It is a great pity that you have to sensor yourself JD. I, for one, appreciate very much your experience and advice.

Perhaps the 'invitation only' thread is possible?

When I was last in BKK a few months ago I met, and took home, several models from this site but I did not even mention ATS. I did not think it served any purpose.

cheers

WT

[stevey]

JD.
As a newbie up here i find your posts invaluable and i hope that they don't become less informative because of a few members who cannot control there tongue after a few beers.

I feel it's a small minority of the members out there who are misquoting you for there own advantages, and as stogie said.....
"There have always been and there always will be a few people who will tell the girls (and the guys too!) almost anything that comes into their heads after a couple of Changs!

Let's face it JaiDee... People are gonna quote you and say they know you regardless of the facts. If you never post another word it won't stop happening!"

He is absolutely right.

I personally think what you say about the girls is all good, your giving invaluable information to new and old members of the site and promoting the girls at the same time.

Maybe the action you should take when confronted by a pissed off LB is to ask them who is misquoting you and give them a chance to read what you have said about them, and turn the tables.

As for a secure thread by invitation only, i completely disagree, as a newbie and not a regular poster, like a couple of thousand other people on here, if we could not get access to the information that we joined the site for then what would be the point in staying.

Keep up the good work Jai.

[Guest]

that's great that you guys  know what I am talking about, and the invitation-only forum has been created  and  will be used.  The problem is.......how do I know  who are the back-stabbing eunuchs out there?  we  must be careful who we invite in to chat,  ya'  know?

  it's all good, I just have to be more  careful on here, the main forum, because  many guys  want to make themselves look good at my expense.  It must really suck being a small-minded guy with an inferiority complex  but I wouldn't know about that ;  I feel sorry for you people.

[Guest]

I understand where you are coming fromm Jai dee but you do owe a duty to your clients who pay $25.00 a month for your service in my opinion. There will always be assholes who say whatever shit they want to to the girls whether it is the truth or not. Why not provide your clients here with your knowledge b/c it will never change regardless.

[Guest]

As for a secure thread by invitation only, i completely disagree, as a newbie and not a regular poster, like a couple of thousand other people on here, if we could not get access to the information that we joined the site for then what would be the point in staying.

Stevey my suggestion was to create an invitation only forum not to make all the forums invitation only so you still get to see all the valuable information from the members.

I understand where you are coming fromm Jai dee but you do owe a duty to your clients who pay $25.00 a month for your service in my opinion

Generouschap I believe you think as many people do that this forum is part of what you pay for when you join the site. It is not. That is why it is in fact free. Stogie and JaiDee post here out of the goodness of their hearts so to speak in order to share their collective wisdom about the ladyboy scene.

[Blue Ballz]

Thas way too bad about some of these losers, who have shitty lives, think that if they slime or tell BS stories about someone it makes their own pathetic lives more important. I will never understand it but thats life JD you have doers and losers who wish they could!!! Too bad but you know its a price of success on this site/board!! I remember the days when we would post something and I would wait three days to check back and see if we could get something going!!! In some regards those were the days!! If I were a newbie I wouldnt sweat thigns too much as there is a HUGE resovoir of LB experience that you can draw upon still. Dickheads fuck off and BE CAREFUL OUT THERE!!

[stevey]

As for a secure thread by invitation only, i completely disagree, as a newbie and not a regular poster, like a couple of thousand other people on here, if we could not get access to the information that we joined the site for then what would be the point in staying.

Stevey my suggestion was to create an invitation only forum not to make all the forums invitation only so you still get to see all the valuable information from the members.

I understand where you are coming fromm Jai dee but you do owe a duty to your clients who pay $25.00 a month for your service in my opinion

Generouschap I believe you think as many people do that this forum is part of what you pay for when you join the site. It is not. That is why it is in fact free. Stogie and JaiDee post here out of the goodness of their hearts so to speak in order to share their collective wisdom about the ladyboy scene.

Oz

I understand your suggestion on an invitation only forum and i understand where you're coming from with this, and it is a good suggestion!.

My point is i value everything that Jai and Stogie has to say, and i don't want to miss anything, as no doubt the majority of the members will feel the same.

I don't expect Jai to have to go through this shit on a regular basis, i couldn't!.

I'm no an expert on LB's, only ever known 3 and one of them got pissed at me one day and it wasn't very pleasant, so i can only imagine where Jai is coming from.

This is a great site, and i think it's a damn shame that it may have to change because somebody can't stop his tongue from flapping.

Stevey

[Guest]

Regardless of how you decide to handle this "latest" breech of ethics by a few jackoffs the fact will always remain that this type of loser will continue to try and impress a few of the LB's with his poison. You could stop posting altogether, use some bogus handle it would make no difference. You are a victim of your own success. If you do know some of the losers and they are still members "out" them here and let the old timers flame them in every way possible.
I hope you continue to voice your opinions and share your knowledge. Since I first became aware of this site what I have learned from you has been invaluable to me on my travels in Thailand.
So, to sum, JUST OUT THESE LOSERS and let the rest of us take care of them for you.