La Bamba Bar

[Guest]

la bamba halloween party was 25th october?? and she there then, and she had b'day party recently so i think she is still there.....
sorry to hear you also had poor experience with her mate....
just save our hard earned for those that appreciate it i guess...
this whole thing about bgs, lb or gg being hard off is bullshit to me...compared to the average thai girl slaving away making beds and cleaning dirty dunnies 12 hours a day 7 days a week, the bg's dont know how good they have it.....

cheers

[Guest]

I tell you the best girl at La Bamba is Ice, she is not the hottest LB but she is really intelligent, really good company, speaks good english and most importantly really hot in bed.

[rossco]

Cindy is still at La Bamba as of 12th November.

Interesting that you had started talking to Tata - a LB from another bar. My guess is that Cindy assumed you had eyes for Tata so went to get herself a customer - she may have even thought you arranged to meet Tata at La Bamba. LB's are fairly territorial.

We have to remember that they do not get a BF every night so they will take every opportunity.

If you are looking for love/constancy and affection stay out of the P4P scene.

Comparing earnings from the P4P scene to other jobs is insane. Like comparing a rock star to a doctor - there is no sense in it.

[Guest]

rossco,
ive met and chatted with you a few times at la bamba and never thought you were the "lets feel sorry for the poor bar girl ladyboy" type....they are there to provide a service and by thai standards get paid very well for it...

who said anything about wanting love,affection etc from the P4P scene??...where in my post do you derive that wisdom?? ive been coming to pattaya and LOS for 15 years now so i do know a little bit about how things work....it comes down to showing some respect and tact...but then again Cindy is only 21 and hardly mature....
im not sure why you feel the need to defend Cindy? i was talking to tata for about a minute on the way to the loo....im sure im not the first guy this has happened to and i wont be the last, i just wanted my fellow bms to be aware that all is not always rosy with Cindy..

whats wrong with comparing earnings between P4P and other jobs? it puts into perspective just how much the bgs do earn compared to the average thai worker, and how the "superstars" as some label them get such a big head from guys telling them how gorgeous they are, and they get downright greedy.....
what is it with guys who want to be "defender of ladyboy rights" and try to lecture on "ins and outs" of P4P scene???
i dont need lecturing replies, just made an observation on the "other" side of Cindys personality.....and no, not all ladyboys are the same....some actually appreciate the act of being bought a ladydrink and respect that customers choice if he wants to have first shot at her company for the night....Cindy was not even courteous enough to say she was leaving after she had sat with me for about 2 hours and 5 or so drinks....you think this is "normal" behaviour rossco??
all bars and girls have to be able to take the bad reviews with the good and the punters make choices about where to spend the cash based on where the service is best...

you are entitiled to your own opinion of Cindy, i am just sharing mine...im sure she has enough Bf's and wont miss my patronage....
funny that oldbluenose immediately replied that he had a smiliar experience with her...maybe the rose coloured glasses need to come off mate?

give opinion rossco but get over the need to lecture, its boring after a while.....

if your reply was intended to "push my buttons", congrats....it worked...

cheers

[pacman]

You never mentioned you sat with her for 2 hours. If a girl sits with me for any length of time I know they are looking for a signal, do they have a deal or not?

There comes a time when we have to piss or get off the pot, however I would feel  certain the reason she took off was because of embarrassment, easier for them to pretend nothing happened, then create a scene by publicly walking off with someone else in front of you.

You have described the perfect dilemma, after 2 hours she sees you speak to Tata, uh-oh she thinks, I have been promised nothing & now this.

I don't condone nor condemn Cindy, I just understand where she is coming from.

As for the comment about what a cushy, over-paid number all the P4P girls have, I will write a few thoughts about that in my Trip Report & you are welcome to comment. All experience is welcome.

Cheers to you bib70       

[Guest]

thanks for sharing your opinion pacman...
look forward to reading your trip report....

cheers....

[rossco]

Bib70

3 Sentences was hardly a lecture. I am not defending the LB's just saying how they work. As Pacman says they will go with the guy who pays BF. If they think someone is "undecided"' or the guy starts talking to another LB' they will look for a more promising customer.

I remember sitting with a BM when Nicky was available - he was really keen but decided to wait before making his move - he blinked and she was gone.

I have seen many a LB, in many a bar, for many a night, with no BF. The Halloween party was a great night but when I asked Alis how the evening was she said not many BF's. Lots of guys had brought their own LB with them and a number were going on to other bars. So LB's do see it as competitive both between bars and even within the bar. Pattaya is suffering from the 'low' season/financial crisis in the West which obviously results in less customers and less than normal BF's

No lecture nor offense intended. Aplogies.

[Guest]

no probs rossco,
no apology required mate...
its all about opinion and we can agree to disagree...

at the end of the day la bamba is still a great bar all round and some great girls there, was great party and good time had by all...

cheers

[1hotholder]

I don't think I could have sat there for 2 hours with Cindy without heading out the door with her in 5 minutes.

[bigmick22]

I've met and been with La Bamba Cindy on a few occasions (what is it with me and that name?) and I always thought of her as one of the nicest LBs I'd met in LOS. I guess the slow High Season is kicking in

[bigmick22]

First time she saw my willy ....

[bigmick22]

Go Cindy!

[dutch]

(bigmick22 @ Nov. 16 2008,19:41) First time she saw my willy ....

   

[Lefty]

(bigmick22 @ Nov. 16 2008,12:41) First time she saw my willy ....

She's not holding a magnifying glass.

[koykaeng]

(bigmick22 @ Nov. 17 2008,00:36) I always thought of her as one of the nicest LBs I'd met in LOS.

My thoughts exactly, Cindy is a real sweetheart, and I've known her since her days at Hi Boss.

Whilst I appreciate we all want the ladyboy we've just bought a drink to give us their undivided attention, the reality is they are "working" and attempting to find their next pay check.

Sure it would be wonderful if they sat there with you and didn't even glance at another guy in the bar, but I think the reality is very different.

Cheers
Koykaeng