Using dating services

[pepsi]

I am not sure if this is the right place for this so forgive me if so. But I wish to share this and welcome any info or educated guesses on the matter. I am also pretty exited so I just gotta share this with you guys.

I asked earlier on how to meet non-working ladyboy when thinking romance-wice. Got some fine tips and someone tipped me (i think) to some dating sites. I signed up, put profiles up and running with some photos and got a LOT of contacts with incredible ladyboys I never believed I would be talking with. I am overwhelmed by the feedback.

EDIT: contacts did not come by themselves, i had to browse around thousand pics and pick out the diamonds around half of them have answered

I have many phone numbers, I have video chatted with most and almost ejaculate to my pants for just looking and listening to some of them. How can they even do this? I never felt so horny by just communicating with a person And from what I can tell most of them are seriously looking for love... with a little twist of that wonderful male-like straightness to go quicker down to business without circling around the facts.

And i gotta give a special award to the LBs in Philippines. Although they like more money which is natural if you are short of it, there are hundreds of little feminine and even desperate LBs looking for a western love. Some of them ask money but they are touchingly honest about it and don't try to make up any stories: u help them they give you all they got. Right now I have focused my attention to 3 ladyboys, aged around 20, small under 160cm tall and very petite in body structure with around 40kg weight and very feminine voices. One from BKK and other 2 from Philippines.

Needless to say I need to be careful not to be lured into a trap (one already said she wants to introduce her home to me at first...).

Please tell me what u think about this? All comments very appreciated. Thanks for the forum, I like this more every time I visit here

[Guest]

hi pepsi-I have met several off the internet dating sites,(thai love links,datein asia,tagged and even plenty of fish!)I have had mostly good experiences,some fantastic experiences,and the occasional let down also. I recently spent 9 days up country in Issan with one i met off tagged.I had a fantastic time with her,and i wouldnt mind making long term plans with her.I have never met any from the phillipines,though there are loads of hotties there.

In some ways i prefer the dating site girlies to the out and out p4p bar girls.There are lots on the dating sites that are p4p bar girls,usually saying they work in a supermarket/salon/office but when you contact them online at 4am thai time,you can guess where they really work!.Anyway,its a great way to keep your appetite for ladyboys whetted while your away from LOS. Good hunting!

[pepsi]

sounds promising. i am amazed how there exists ladyboys looking like your neighbours daughter, especially in philippines.

but because i have not really been actually in the screne nof play say what do you think when comparing those prettier labyboys from dating sites to those you find on bangkok nana plaza for example? i mean looks.

[PigDogg]

(pepsi @ Dec. 26 2009,14:15) Please tell me what u think about this? All comments very appreciated.

Since you asked............

I think it's counter productive to use dating sites in Thailand. They're more useful in Indonesia or the PI where it's more difficult to meet in person.

Chatting and phoning you build up an idealized version of what she's like so it's tough for the reality to match expectations. Even some seasoned veterans fall into this trap.

So you've been chatting for months, finally meet her and don't click. Do you have an exit strategy?

Much better to just hit the bars IMO. If you don't want a bargirl there are ladyboys all over Pattaya working at hair salons, massage, internet shops, even pizza parlors.

Good luck and don't promise anything in advance of actually meeting her that you may later regret.

[Guest]

To save our time, mind sharing with us WHICH dating services can we find most of the diamonds?

[Guest]

Yes pepsi,an exit strategy is important-I always say i have a close friend in a nearby city that I havent seen in ages,blah blah ,and i will meet them in 2/3 days etc; Then if you really like them ,say u would rather be with them than with ur friend etc.Are they up to the calibre looks wise etc as the ones u find in nana plaza???-probably not,though you can find a real gem if you look hard enough.Fortunately,Ive found the ones up country very enthusiastic,as they do not get the attention their sisters in the big city get.Fortunately also,is that im a relative newbie to the LB scene,and they all look nice to me-just that some are nicer than others.....anyway..good luck

[Bumpa STIKKA]

Dating websites will more often than not end up in disappointment.

But if you are both patient and a shrewd judge of character then (just maybe) you can get lucky.

It can be a handy option if you are only in Thailand for a short time.

I met my first LB girlfriend a decade ago on a dating website (Dragoncastle since you ask) and it worked out great.

[DexterH]

Do you want casual sex or a long term romance? I don't think its fair to chat up Filipinos whose expectations of you may exceed what you are prepared to give -I dont know you so I can't judge you there is more than one BM who sponsors girls in PI and Thailand, I think we know what we have got into, just so you know in case you suddenly realise that you Prince Charming -with the palace and the horses to prove it. If its just sex, say so, better all round.

[Foggy]

(wombatos @ Dec. 27 2009,17:06) To save our time, mind sharing with us WHICH dating services can we find most of the diamonds?

There isnt and never will be ... dating sites are hit and miss.... always will be.

You just increase your odds if you use more of them, so the time has to be put in...

I met a wonderful hot Thai non p4p Lb on 'Face Pic' 2 years ago.... but not seen much else there I liked ....... just luck of the draw and your own taste

Good luck...

[alyssats]

(DexterH @ Dec. 28 2009,04:25) If its just sex, say so, better all round.

+1

when im not an escort before and look for a bf tru dating sites so many guys have played games with me, broken promises to bring me in Australia,Europe,US, lies, false hope and bullshit.

from my experience most of them just want to take advantage of TS girls and will tell them many promises so that they can get laid for free lol

thats the reason why i ended up being an escort at least now im getting paid and pay my transition, bills and save for the future unlike before

[abba]

Those are the same reasons that I became an escort (catering to ladyboys and ladies).



when im not an escort before and look for a girlfriend tru dating sites so many girls/gurls have played games with me, broken promises to bring me to Buri Ram, Nong Khai, Jollibee's in Makati, Australia,Europe,US, lies, false hope and bullshit.  

from my experience most of them just want to take advantage of men, and will tell them many promises so that they can get something for free lol

thats the reason why i ended up being an escort at least now im getting paid, and pay my trans-missions, bills and save for the future unlike before.

[cancer12]

i hAVE got the same story as you sister alyssa...

i am a newbie in this escort world, in the sex industry, and i definitely wanted to move out and come back to the old me.. i have loads of accounts in various dating sites, i met my first boyfriend in the bar, a cocktail lounge we have been together for 1 year, and i met my second boyfriend ( if he wants me to call him my bf) in a wholesome site pic-link, we clicked ( i hope he thought of the same thing) we talked almost everyday, he comes here as often as he can, but the relationship lasted only 2 yrs, but it was great.

but in between this relationship and as i broke up with my ex bf, i found and talked to many guys online, and it is just so hard to tell who tells the truth, who is truly into a long term relationship, who is desperate to to find love in the internet... for me many guys looking for love online are just full of BS, same as many girls looking for the same thing, i would say, i was one of those who desperately looking for love, i dont like Filipino men at all, and never had a relationship with them, and i am sure i do not want to and do not like them at all...

when i went into the p4p scene, i never expected to find a guy who will love me, and i prepared my self that it is all a game, when you are a hooker, it is like a tattoo that u can not easily remove... i set aside my goal to find my mr.right, and decided to play with several mr.wrong....i told my self, at least now if i am meeting mr.wrong, i will not be an ultimate loser, coz i got paid..... though, i have been chatting to some guys i met in the internet, in this forum for example, i met some of them and i would say the least expected thing happened... i just find my heart starting to beat again... hehehe

what i am trying to tell you pepsi is, there is no need to find love, do not set any expectations, our heart is a very delicate thing that we need to guard, when love comes, it'll come, and it is sweeter when it comes on its own way. it does not matter how long you know the person, but how much both of you feel for each other.... internet dating works, but before you get more serious, make sure u made your part to know the person in real.

good luck.

[cancer12]

is it funny abba?

if you dont have something good to say, then don't bother...

he is kind to share her thoughts, and the guy pepsi is looking for advices.

[Mr. GRUMPY (Grrr!)]

(cancer12 @ Dec. 28 2009,16:33) i hAVE got the same story as you sister alyssa...

i am a newbie in this escort world, in the sex industry, and i definitely wanted to move out and come back to the old me.. i have loads of accounts in various dating sites, i met my first boyfriend in the bar, a cocktail lounge we have been together for 1 year, and i met my second boyfriend ( if he wants me to call him my bf) in a wholesome site pic-link, we clicked ( i hope he thought of the same thing) we talked almost everyday, he comes here as often as he can, but the relationship lasted only 2 yrs, but it was great.

but in between this relationship and as i broke up with my ex bf, i found and talked to many guys online, and it is just so hard to tell who tells the truth, who is truly into a long term relationship, who is desperate to to find love in the internet... for me many guys looking for love online are just full of BS, same as many girls looking for the same thing, i would say, i was one of those who desperately looking for love, i dont like Filipino men at all, and never had a relationship with them, and i am sure i do not want to and do not like them at all...

when i went into the p4p scene, i never expected to find a guy who will love me, and i prepared my self that it is all a game, when you are a hooker, it is like a tattoo that u can not easily remove... i set aside my goal to find my mr.right, and decided to play with several mr.wrong....i told my self, at least now if i am meeting mr.wrong, i will not be an ultimate loser, coz i got paid..... though, i have been chatting to some guys i met in the internet, in this forum for example, i met some of them and i would say the least expected thing happened... i just find my heart starting to beat again... hehehe

what i am trying to tell you pepsi is, there is no need to find love, do not set any expectations, our heart is a very delicate thing that we need to guard, when love comes, it'll come, and it is sweeter when it comes on its own way. it does not matter how long you know the person, but how much both of you feel for each other.... internet dating works, but before you get more serious, make sure u made your part to know the person in real.

good luck.

That's a very moving post. One of the best I have read here.

Don't you dare ever give up hope of finding real love even as a P4P worker.

I met a ladyboy who worked for almost two years at the most skanky bar in Bangkok and we managed to turn our lives around just fine.

[cancer12]

hehehehe, you would not believe as i am a fan of chick flicks... few days after i watched PRETTY WOMAN( julias roberts), i walked in shampoo bar and applied... ( thanks to the thread here) i was inspired of the story, might happen to me as well, but you know it is the same whether in the bar(p4p) or not... you will get to meet good and bad guys.... but definitely did not regret any of my decisions...

mr.grumpy grrr.... hehehe i would say i am still in p4p, but i am slowly trying to get out of it.