My relationship with Natalie is over!

[cotton]

  manurak:

We have a"fight"last time i was in bkk  one month ago. Since than we havent sms.   I "loose"   and try sms her yesterday and today but she not reply.
manurak: Its not easy to explain what i mean. but its something about hormon, their situation when grow up, and that they deep inside are men.
And working 7 years in a bar sometimes make them .......... Difficult to explain

[manarak]

ah, I understand...

well, maybe it is not so bad as you think.

care to tell what the fight was about?

[cotton]

I dont want complain her at this forum. Natalie mean that i not understand her, and i mean she not understand me The main reason to different cultures and way to think.
And when one earn money and one use it can make problem too

[Ericthehalfabee]

War of the Roses "It's a lot easier to SPEND it than it is to EARN it, Honey!!"

[JaiDee]

(pentire @ Oct. 31 2009,18:48) as PigDog says, you're a class act

agreed, and this is a classy thread overall because everyone has genuine interest in where this is going and are pulling for the cotton man!

  I also agree with Pacman...... and believe that Nat will be back in touch sooner than later;  if you want to continue the good run you have had for the past few years just be a bit patient, I think you can catch lightning in a bottle once again with this same girl.

   Actually TWO  class acts are being discussed in this thread, we are all rooting for you Cotton!!

[cotton]

JaiDee ! U remember that it was you who gave me her cellphonenumber

[JaiDee]

Sure, I remember man...... and Natalie thanked me many times as well for hooking you two up because she was happy for a long time with the relationship also, trust me.

 But I don't think this story is over yet, you have a good attitude and are realistic about what's going on; and no matter what happens you have made new friends here and earned respect for being so open and honest with your feelings.

  Could be time for me to play matchmaker again and talk some sense into my old buddy; let her know just what she could be losing here.

[cancer12]

(cotton @ Oct. 31 2009,17:31)  i know every shopping center in asia and Europe he he.

hehehehe, sorry while i was seriously reading the posts in this thread, this one got me laugh...



stay strong cotton.... and good luck to a new life without her....

[razrman]

Cotton, I feel extremely sad for you and I must say the 9 million baht is a lot of money in any country. Other examples I've recently heard pale in comparison.
I suppose it's so much like a marriage which ended in divorce and the wife has got a large chunk of money. Well, I suppose that's life and we can only learn the bitter lessons. Time is a great healer and I do wish you all the best.
I'm just wondering about the connection you made between Western thinking and the Asian and particularly Thai way. It perhaps shows that much more should be made of it?

[cotton]

I never complain myself for using all that money on Natalie. I realy love her. I love spoil her and see her happy.  Make surprise for her.  remember one time i took her to the new Luis Vuiton shop in Oslo and....      But she loved small gifts tooo..... and she loved animals.  My problem is that i feel that she not understood how many custumer she had to have sex with for 9....and when i met her she was so tired of beeing a prost.....
And at least i felt she betrayed me .
i think in every relationship in all country there the man are rich and woman beaytyful the man will wonder if she realy love him...

[sev7en]

(cotton @ Oct. 31 2009,22:57) she not understood how many custumer she had to have sex with for 9....and when i met her she was so tired of beeing a prost.....

About 5000 cossomers.

[cooldudecoco]

its a learning process hope both of you learn something

[petesie]

Do you actually want her back................?

Obviously you do not mind spoiling the ones you care for................find renewed joy in having a relationship with someone who might appreciate what you have to offer her and her family..............and reciprocate the feelings you have for her......................

You've done enough.............treat yourself...................

[cotton]

Good question!

My brain tell me to stop, because have spoiled here enough and not get much "paid" back. last year only humilation.
But my heart still love here. every day without be with here or get 30 sms from here is a horrible day.
But in 17 days i go bangkok and pattaya for three months. u think i am strong enough to not contact here?

[cotton]

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