Guys who do not pay!

[cancer12]

guys, i wanted to write down notes while reading posts after posts, it kind of gave a headache because so many issues brought up, some guys wrote not really irrelevant but too confusing, i do not know the point at all.....

i know i have started here in this forum just like a typical ordinary girl who crashed at some threads, fought with some members, telling my heartbreaks,telling my pageants, posting pics, chatting, asking advices.... then i was gone, got bored of the forum.... enjoyed being with locals, meeting other ladyboys tru the pageant, realizing what i dont have or what im lacking...

1. about the implants ( hips or boobs), i know what i need, and i know what looks better on me, and dont worry as im not going to get that super big boobs or super big implants, ( dont wanna look like betty boop) i appreciate what women have and women have curves, and i feel like i need it to be a woman... and guys will never ever understand ladyboys who shared the same feelings with me... ( yes i dont consider the chop, and will be contented with the curves, but i understand those who consider the chop...and all of you shall do so.)


2. yesterday i was just an ordinary lb, today i am hooker, lb who works in the bar, tomorrow i do not know..... i appreciate all of what you said, it is easy to say, leave emotions, separate feelings, but i am a human, and not because i am prostitute, not because guys hire me or pay me, to have feelings is not anymore possible... yeah it is maybe contradicting, but i also wanted to have a personal life away from what i do,



just like all of you who have this thinking ( this woman is for bed and this woman is for love..... ) i also consider if this guy is only for bed( means only for a night or only for money) and a guy who is a potential bf...


but going back to the real point, some posts answered and gave good suggestions about how could i possibly make it easier to know who are the guys for money and who are the guys for love....

[cancer12]

and anyway, the second guy i was talking about meeting, we already met for a drink.... and we are meeting again sometime this week, he set the venue to a coffee shop, but now he talks slightly about sex....

what

do u think?

we talked and he already knew what i do...? should there be charging when sex happen the next meeting?

[Naang Faa]

(cancer12 @ Oct. 31 2009,11:44) 1. about the implants ( hips or boobs), i know what i need, and i know what looks better on me, and dont worry as im not going to get that super big boobs or super big implants, ( dont wanna look like betty boop) i appreciate what women have and women have curves, and i feel like i need it to be a woman... and guys will never ever understand ladyboys who shared the same feelings with me...

well said Cancer12...
I wouldn't take the word of a bunch of guys who prefer
a girl with an arse like the paperboy..
Do what makes YOU happy bodywise..I would advise a professional
body fat transfer (shoud you have any) rather than the dangerous
lose silicone injections.....Good luck with that.
x

[cancer12]

i am planning to have one session for my hips...
honestly i have nice ass ... i know i have, lots of guys said that, i dont believe them, but not only them tell me, as well as my friends.... and i believe my friends, so i only need a little improvement on that part....

[cancer12]

(JaiDee @ Oct. 29 2009,06:07)    There are hundreds/thousands of guys trolling the 'net as we speak looking for ladyboys .....and of course if they can avoid paying for sex they will; relationships or meeting a ''nice girl'' are probably what they want, and that does happen of course;  so if you want THAT, you can indeed find it.  If you want to be a hooker, you can find that also, just be upfront with the guys before they come to your room.

some guys are saying, he does not wanna meet a hooker, he will meet a nice girl, he invite the girl out, and he will offer great companion, he will offer great care for the girl, the girl is emotionally weak, she falls,

the guy got bored, and wanted to take another dish, will find another dish,and will dump the old one,

the girl got dumped, and left alone, left crying.



you ever heard of gender entrapment theory? this could give a little help understanding this situation.... i might be wrong...


and i really appreciate the advice jaidee....

[cancer12]

yeah Tim, sorry ur too late.....

[Foggy]

(cancer12 @ Oct. 31 2009,18:50) and anyway, the second guy i was talking about meeting, we already met for a drink.... and we are meeting again sometime this week, he set the venue to a coffee shop, but now he talks slightly about sex....  

what

do u think?

we talked and he already knew what i do...? should there be charging when sex happen the next meeting?

If his intentions are to just have sex with you then yes u need to make a charge.

If he is already talking about sex only after your second meeting then I suspect that this is his intention...

If on the other hand he is genuine in his feelings and wants u as a GF then he will have to wait untill u are ready for that level of intimacy...

Dont jump into bed to soon... hope that helps

[kahuna]

(Naang Faa @ Oct. 31 2009,18:58) I wouldn't take the word of a bunch of guys who prefer
a girl with an arse like the paperboy..

Now that's a very funny image...But very true...

That's exactly what most of us "straight" guys like...A paperboy ass...

Hey NF, can I use that phrase?

[Naang Faa]

 Yes, you're welcome to it Sir  
                                                x

[kahuna]

Thank you...

[cancer12]

(Hilbie Paratodos @ Oct. 29 2009,07:31) he paid u when u fucked you, if u need money get a job, i have no sympathy for prostitues, he should of been a gentleman and giving you money for a taxi maybe but thats it, just think in ten more years youll be old and probally more manish and will start to wish you would of enjoyed the sex with handsome men more when u had the chance. Nobody owes u anything for sex when u spread your legs willingly as an adult. just my opinon as i dont like to pay for sex and even in the kingdom i do go much longer then most of you guys without it and its less fun but paying for ass ruins the orgasm, how does one feel like a winner when u pay? bottom line is to read the first line cause i dont care to discuss it to each his own=he paid u when he fucked u.



whoever quoted charlie sheen was spot on though for all u payers ''i dont pay women for sex i pay them to leave in the moring''.. i like that. and yes ive paid before, good god who can resist at times the ease of getting your rocks of for like 15-22 dollars us. but generally i speak my mind and dont pay, and the girls just tell me to keep my mouth shut and its ok. helps them save face.

i was about to go to bed, but i cant stop my self from writing what my opinion is towards what HB said,

if i am not mistaken, i had the same thought like yours Hb, but i already made up my mind even before i started getting into p4p, and i wanted to say being a prostitute, whether in the bar, in street or online, is a job. just like an ordinary job, we spend time, we spend effort, we get tired, and these are all done to earn money, money from every act we do... do u know how hard this job is? you certainly not, because u have a good ( i supposed) every saliva we take from the customers, the sweat, the pain, all the guts that we take to have sex with someone we are not attracted to or someone we felt disgusted, do you know how hard it is to have sex with someone who is so demanding, someone who demands you to do this or that, to suck a cock that even been washed, still stink, i am not just talking about what i experienced but on behalf of the rest of prostitute in the world, and we all do this because this is where we earn, we have a choice, yes, and this is what we chose, but it does not mean that we are not permitted to complain, what about those people working in factories, those working in fast foods, or those working in big companies, at some point, they also blow up and complain about their jobs.

Hb it is a job, and to not get paid is really unfair, can u imagine someone who was asked to serve in a restaurant for like 4-5 hours, and not get paid..... or even you, meeting clients or putting up a business and was not able to close deals or do not get any profit....

it is a job, it is a job, it is job, it is certainly not descent, it is absolutely dirty, but is a job....

[cancer12]

and please do not get me wrong about complaining, because i do not complain about doing this, but i definitely complain about not getting paid.... and if you are saying i need to get a job and work hard, well, i already got one and i am working even harder than you do.

[Ericthehalfabee]

There are enough threads showing how what may start out as p4p between two people easily turns into something a lot more and every lb I ever met has at some stage or other fallen for a guy from a bar.

I'm not sure how it works in Pi but in Los the ability of the girls - both gg and lb to provide a gf experience means that many many guys who started out as just customers become far more than they bargained for.

If I was you I would seperate dating with your working life while you are working the bar - if a guy likes you - ask him to come to the bar, it will only be confusing and cause huge problems trying to "date" a guy who frankly just doesn't want to pay or can't afford to pay.

If he feels that paying for your time/sex/youth/beauty whatever is beneath him then do you really want to be with a guy who looks down on what you do?

far better to meet up with a guy who accepts and understands your "job" that it isn't forever and can look beyond that.

And lastly - learn to use the ignore button some of the people here are mouth breathing morons who shouldn't be allowed an internet connection much less a passport out of whatver shithole town they crawled.

And good luck hun...

[cancer12]

hehehe

no.... i do not use the ignore button, coz i love read and write... and know what's inside these people's mind.. and i understand HB, just try to make some corrections...


p.s i've been told many times about ignore button,,, i dont listen.

[blonde_havoc]

(Naang Faa @ Oct. 31 2009,18:58)             I wouldn't take the word of a bunch of guys who prefer
 a girl with an arse like the paperboy..
Do what makes YOU happy bodywise..I would advise a professional
body fat transfer (shoud you have any) rather than the dangerous
lose silicone injections.....Good luck with that.
                                                                          x

I'm calling shenanigans on this. As we all know, Marla and I are together. She does not have an ass like a paperboy, whatever that means exactly. And I would not want her to get the hip injections either.

Why? Because I've never seen any of them (especially ones does in the Philippines) that looked even remotely attractive. If Cancer goes through with it, she will probably get the god awful loose injections because they are cheap.

I think it would be a terrible idea. They are in no way going to help her feel any more feminine. They're just going to look atrocious.

Please Cancer, reconsider on the hip implants. You're too pretty of a girl to end up looking like a freak.