Guys who do not pay!

[cancer12]

i was cheated one time, i met this guy few days ago, not in the bar, met him online, then i went to his room and met him, after we had sex, when i was about to go, he said he has no local money, only dollars, and then he said he will pay me next time when he comes back, that is on the following week, then i said it is not sure, then he arranged to meet me outside the hotel, he will just have his dollar changed, i waited for him in a fast food store nearby, for almost 30 mins, he never showed up, i went back to hotel and asked the front desk if the guest from this room went out, then the guy from the front desk said "yes, he just checked out"................................................ that time i felt soo stupid... that i agreed to what he said...


is this some kind of "modus operandi", guys who shag without paying....

[rxpharm]

cancer12 - sorry to hear about this bad experience. Yes, there are bad customers as well as bad service providers. Unfortunately this can lead to ladies who ask for payment before hand, which a lot of guys do not like.

One way to get around this is to have the customer show you he has enough for the encounter, but say it is ok to get paid after the event.

It seems you've changed your attitude to p4p, good luck in your new career!

[cancer12]

well, i am not a pro... i did not know how things work, im pretty sure the service was good coz he cum twice... and i cum too..

i didnt actually named the price... i didnt tell him the price that i wanted, but he knows... it was not for free... damn it... if he is sort young , toned  handsome guy.. why not... but he didnt give anything not even something for my fare back home....

yeah, rx... i just recently started working in shampoo, but this i met not from there, but i met online...

[cancer12]

i changed from time to time... and i wanted to save for boobs and hip implants... p4p will help...

[rxpharm]

ok cancer12 - write this off as a learning experience, now you've started your new career, be sure to negotiate everything before hand - even for the"young, handsome" guys. If you're saving up for breast and hip implants, don't lose out on more opportunities. You've read the forum, so you know what things to do. Also as I've said, guys don't like to pay before hand, but ask them to show you they have enough and ask to be paid afterwards - that should help reduce problems.

[Guest]

Cancer, where was the location of the events that you describe ?

[cancer12]

yeah... rx, im browsing on some threads.... i need to learn more... thanks...

but i have a problem, i still have a soft heart, i have problem differentiating a guy who will only be after of the sex and nothing else from a guy who can be a potential friend, or lover...? any idea?

there is someone i will hopefully meet next week and im kinda attracted to him, he is nice too... will i charge him? and if i do, will i lose the chance of having a romantic relationship with him...?

[cancer12]

in makati.....

[bigmick22]

(cancer12 @ Oct. 28 2009,07:18) there is someone i will hopefully meet next week and im kinda attracted to him, he is nice too... will i charge him? and if i do, will i lose the chance of having a romantic relationship with him...?

I think that's an easy one

[rxpharm]

cancer12, sorry no easy answer to that question. All I can say is that is difficult to find a true relationship when you're working p4p - even if the guy you meet doesn't know.

You would have to meet a guy who can accept you as an lb, and also really understands and accepts your decision to work p4p.

[whore]

Sounds like driftspunk

[Chinaman]

(cancer12 @ Oct. 28 2009,07:18) yeah... rx, im browsing on some threads.... i need to learn more... thanks...

but i have a problem, i still have a soft heart, i have problem differentiating a guy who will only be after of the sex and nothing else from a guy who can be a potential friend, or lover...? any idea?

there is someone i will hopefully meet next week and im kinda attracted to him, he is nice too... will i charge him? and if i do, will i lose the chance of having a romantic relationship with him...?

Cancer12, As for this guy you are about to meet, my suggestion would be that you should still go for monetary compensation first. If at some later stage, things get very romantic, you could reconsider.

A good idea to separate activities for P4P and simply romantic reasons might be to use different venues for them if such is possible, like disco or dinner places for romance and bars for P4P.

You have to decide on your priorities and go for them without getting them mixed up too much - love vs. cash ;-) but I know that this is more easily said than put into action when time comes.

Good luck!
CM

[laputanegra]

awww thats sad.

[blonde_havoc]

(cancer12 @ Oct. 28 2009,07:05) and i wanted to save for boobs and hip implants... p4p will help...

Please reconsider the hip implants. Please please please. Those almost always look atrocious.

[Mr. GRUMPY (Grrr!)]

Go ahead with the hip blobs if you wanna look like a circus freak... but let me ask you this...

Have you EVER met even ONE guy who said that hip implants actually look good?

They look like shit and so will you after this fucking stupid idea for self improvement... but it's your dollar and your body.