Passing through Bangkok

[KingofNANA]

I will be passing through Bangkok again in early October, but unlike my last trip that was so filled with anticipation, research, plans, lust and desire, this time around I find myself with very little LB interest.

This also applies to GG's and sex in general.

I peruse LB porn images on the net that normally set my mind ablaze with the possibilities, and nothing. No image of any on girl has me salivating with the promise of that moment.

What has Changed? My last trip was only in June and I was pulsating with lust long before arrival.

I can only think that I am on different regime right now, health food, detox, strenuous exercise, cleansing etc, etc. Nana seems dirty and dangerous, the girls ripe with nefarious intent and communicable germs.

It is of course just a feeling, but it is surprisingly strong at a time I should be quivering with anticipation.

Anyone else ever felt this?



...Oh, P.S. if I were to be able to contact her below, I might begin to consider all this differently.

[rxpharm]

She's Vivian, formerly from Guess Bar. Last reported to be doing the Singapore circuit - and occasionally freelancing when back in LOS. There are a few board members who have her contact details.

So your current health regimen has removed all desire for sex? Do you also avoid public restrooms now, which are probably full of as many germs as you would find at NEP?

Life is to be enjoyed, and sex is part of that enjoyment.

[Tomcat]

I guess you must be over 45.. its pretty well known that many men suffer from loss of Libido and interest in sex ..and if you dont then good luck to you. Also stress can take the edge of thing sexual

From my own point of view it has definately dropped off a bit . The last time i had a long time was..a long time ago . Im also pretty busy and work long hours and the pleasures of the flesh are not a priority as when i was 25 but i still enjoy my Far Eastern jaunts.

Then again if someone was to tell you that you can NEVER go to Thailand again you might find yourself pining for it. maybe it in the mind.... then again i am no expert.. thats a fact

Or maybe you go there too often..

[PigDogg]

(KingofNANA @ Sep. 17 2009,23:54) I will be passing through Bangkok again in early October, but unlike my last trip that was so filled with anticipation, research, plans, lust and desire, this time around I find myself with very little LB interest.

This also applies to GG's and sex in general.

I think this is common.

Most men haven't had all the sex they wanted in life. If you go into a bar in New York or London there is no guarantee that you'll be succesful in a pickup.

So we come to Thailand and get it out of our system.

In my first few trips, I'd be having sex pumped up with Viagra at times when I wasn't even horny, just because I could.

We lust after what we don't have and then once we get it that intense desire diminishes.

[KingofNANA]

Uhmmm Tomcat, I think you might be missing my point. If you read my recent trip report (page 2 Trip Reports) you would know that a lack of libido was certainly not a problem. That was only a matter of a few months ago.

The issue is a difference in mood which PigDogg seems to understand clearly. The irony here is that while I was thrilled that another business trip could be routed through Bangkok, once I had booked, I suddenly realized I lacked enthusiasm. This was a surprise.

And although I am indeed over 45 (not much btw), libido in regard to lbs has never been an issue and normally I would be chomping at the bit for a mad go at all that tawny ass.

I think it has everything to do with the detox and cleansing. So while rxpharm rightfully teased me for a squeamish fear of germ fantasies in  NEP and public toilet stalls everywhere, it is much more complex than a mere fear of germs.

The lack of alcohol may play a  part. An ex once said, "You don't do certain things because you are drunk, you get drunk to allow yourself do do those things!"

All in all though, it probably just boils down to life's inhaling and exhaling. This upcoming trip, maybe because of it's sudden surprise nature, seems to have unfortunately caught me on an inhale.

[Tomcat]

(KingofNANA @ Sep. 18 2009,17:49) Uhmmm Tomcat, I think you might be missing my point.

No my Dear Sir.. i am not mistaken , of that you can be certain

You intimate that you have lost interest in sex... isnt that your point
That your sex drive has dissapeard due to reasons that you cannot fathom

[KingofNANA]

Kinda getting more in the mood hangin here and talking to you lot. Just read the 'Ladyboy Quotes' thread and it is bloody priceless. "long pussy" indeed!

[Bicycle Pump]

Maybe it's time to forget about them ladyboys and move on over to Femboys!

[Foggy]

(KingofNANA @ Sep. 18 2009,14:54) I can only think that I am on different regime right now, health food, detox, strenuous exercise, cleansing etc, etc.  Nana seems dirty and dangerous, the girls ripe with  nefarious intent and communicable germs.

Being healthy, fit, and in shape would have the opposite effect .... I know it works for me ( Im 48 )...... depends possibly on how far along the road of the new life style u are ??

Or how out of shape u are right now giving u the possibility of a negative effect ..... just a guess....

Hope it comes back for u... because once your fit and in good shape the appreciation of hot bodies (LB or GG) is very enjoyable.......

If it doesnt then I guess its new hobby time .....

[manarak]

health food, detox

well, there the realm of the irrational begins.

Nana seems dirty and dangerous

what I said...

[JaiDee]

(KingofNANA @ Sep. 18 2009,14:54) I peruse LB porn images on the net that normally set my mind ablaze with the possibilities, and nothing.


Anyone else ever felt this?

well, this could be part of your problem!   After looking at certainly more than a million images of ladyboys over the years I am sure I have become desensitized to the whole thing, and  you may have as well. Stop viewing the porno, maybe the feelings of want will come back?

    I also agree with parts of what Tomcat and Pig dogg have said;  once I hit 44 or 45 it was like a light switch went off in my head which said ''why am I doing this'' while sweating and panting my way through a sub-par sexual session with someone 1/2 my age and with the body of a track star. For many guys [admittedly myself included] it becomes more work than fun, and who likes work? Also tried the Viagra route for a year or so, that sucks even more IMO; it takes forever to sperm and even after you do the dick stays harder than a rock and it's hard to sleep.

     RE, Foggy ...... I am almost your age and also stay in good shape compared to many of my peers but I still get wiped out during sex, same as if I up and went to run a  couple miles right now. Not sure why, but my body and libido seem to have gone south all at the same time and after 10 years of screwing a couple hundred ladies and ladyboys I will take a good book, movie or chicken sandwich over sex anytime these days. Hell, when my plane touches down in Asia these days I don't even leave the airport, I just wait for smaller planes to take me further on to places with beaches, waterfalls, and NO hookers.


  King ..... I believe what you are going through is called mid-life

[Hilbie Paratodos]

i think your just thinking kingofnana. yup just thinking normal, its called health, and being alcohol free helps tons. im surprised more of the members dont talk about this at least in passing, but people are really drunk most of they holiday in the kingdom. the buzz of the place is liquer, if you dont drink over there its hard to understand whats going on and it starts to feel foriegn to u,, and your fear of germs is more then valid, alcohol kills that cautionary conscious scream and turns it into an almost inaudible whisper esp when surrounded by self same hearing impaired soi dogs. thai girls shower alot and do laundry but the pussy any one with a name like king of nana is fucking is defineatly public and little dirty, caution isnt bad, a little shame of the whoremongering isnt bad, a plan to avoid stds isnt bad and is thailand bad sober?  id say no but alcohol makes u believe the novelty, all thailand is a novelty, the land of make believe, sobriety makes this much more transparent, i guess is transparecy bad is the question? it is if your a fat fooker who wonders if your 18 year old hooker really seems to like u is true or not. otherwise its great.

[JaiDee]

  Alcohol oftentimes ruins the sex drive as well; after 6 or 9 Changs or Jack & Cokes you may FEEL horny as fuck but when the times comes to get going on some teenager in your bed  your dick may not agree with what the brain is telling it!

      when I was more sexually active it was one or the other, drunk or sex. If both are on the menu, you get the sex done at around 7 or 8 and then go tilt a few with the lads; but getting hammered first and then looking for someone to get it on with oftentimes leads to a let-down.

[manarak]

Also tried the Viagra route for a year or so, that sucks even more IMO; it takes forever to sperm and even after you do the dick stays harder than a rock and it's hard to sleep.

=> Kamagra is the answer. Quicker to work and quicker to phase out.

[JaiDee]

Thankfully there was never a get-it-up problem from my end, but I noticed as I got into my 40's it was a chore just to get the damn thing off. Hell, in our 20's and 30's it's a simple matter of "OK, that's enough, now let it go and have your 30 seconds of nirvana'' ....... after 40 it's more like "damn, I wish I could just get off already so I could get some sleep'' LOL

Viagra makes it even HARDER to sperm, and when finished your face is flush and your body is all hot, and the head starts pounding not long afterwards, especially if you've had some beer. All that blood flowing to your extremities [and your brain] makes you very uncomfortable and hot IMO. I tried Kamagra also in the squeeze-out packet form and had the same results.


I think the answer for guys like myself is to never urgently seek out sex, as we did when we were 25-35, and just let it come to us slowly. The days of slutting around and going to bars or brothels seem pretty much over at least from where I stand; sex and relationships in the future will be more about knowing someone and having slow, meaningful sexual encounters 2 or 3 times a week rather than the 1-hour wham-bam, where the pressure to get off is very stressful sometimes and makes the whole thing not even enjoyable anymore. This coming from a guy who only did short times for the past 5 years or so. Yups, things change!