3 things that are hard to believe

[Guest]

1] whenever you ask a girl in a bar how long she has been working there they will always lowball the number, like if they have been working there for 9 months they will always say "me work bar only 2 months". this is especially for you new guys and faces they have never seen before.\

2] every girl seems to be from Khorat or Chiang Mai. Thailand is a big country and these people HAVE to come from at least a few other places!

3] when a ladyboy tells you " I am not like the other ladyboys here; I never talk about anything". She is the one person in the bar who talks more than anyone, count on it.

[wisetraveller]

She started work very recently because of a family financial disaster and will be leaving bar work as soon as she can possibly pay off the debt and save her little sister from a life of sin, and pay her brother's university fees. Does this sound familiar ..... ?

[Guest]

I thought her brother died in a M/C crash and she needs money for the funeral???

andyman

[stogie bear]

It's true what you say, but then I do the same thing about MY age and MY job!  

"Hi - you're a cutie... I'm a 45 year old pornographer. Wanna hook up?"

[Guest]

Or in my case, a walking wallet
andyman

[Guest]

Don't forget that she lub you and you only man she lub. She miss you so much. She want stay wit you. She only tink about you. She want you boyfren, because she lub you soooo much....Then if you say you are not taking her out, and are leaving, the guy beside you gets the same lub story.

[wisetraveller]

" thought her brother died in a M/C crash and she needs money for the funeral???"

That was the middle brother. It is the young one that is just starting university. Is very bright and could have a future but without the money from big sister he is condemmed to a life in the rice fields.

And yes she does lub you. She can sense your good heart. And your are hansum. Your advanced age? Don min you age you you goood

[wisetraveller]

"
"Hi - you're a cutie... I'm a 45 year old pornographer. Wanna hook up?""

You must meet my mother.

[mirimark]

What FOUR animals do All Ladyoby's Want ?

A ( MINK ) in the CLoset.
A ( Jaguar ) in the Garage.
A ( Tiger ) in Bed.
And a ( JackAss ) to Pay for it all.

Yes,, I know, doesn't quite fit the Thread Content, but something about WISETRAVELLERs comment reminded me of it.......

[Guest]

actually, Mark, that was a very good description of what they really DO want from us and us farangs should never forget that and believe some of the crap that is thrown around.

another lie, told many many times;

"me no like Thai man"

translated; "me have Thai boyfriend wait for me to bring home the bacon, so hurry up and fuck my skinny ass so I can go home to him before he goes off on another yaba/gambling binge".

[PigDogg]

Hey JD-How many ladyboys would you say have Thai boyfriends?

[Guest]

most of the bar girls live with other lbs or alone...of those outside the clubs, the majority have thai bfs...check the wrists for scars from past loves too

[stogie bear]

This is one area that Thai ladyboys differ with there GG colleagues. Whilst many of the ladyboys will have had sexual experiences with Thai boys and possibly one or two serious relationships most of them don't see a Thai man as being a good choice for a partner. The very personality of ladyboys who work in bars makes them undesirable to Thai blokes also!

The thinking is very different for the girls, however. Many will have Thai boyfriends (and many of them are abusive!) The boys are tolerant to them fucking for cash so long as she hands it all over to him after!

Also - whereas the ladyboys seem to 'pack' together and live together and are more communal, the GGs are not. They often have their own lives outside 'work' and do not all congregate at the noodle stands after work to chat about what they missed on the telly!

The ladyboys have a very good support network and are more relient on each other. the GGs are more independent from each other.

[wisetraveller]

"check the wrists for scars from past loves too "

Yes, that seems to be very common. There seems to be an aspect of Thai life/culture that is a total soap opera. I have several Thai friends here in Sydney (not working girls) and their lives would make a ''Dallas" or "Dynasty" script read like a train timetable.

Does anyone who live in Thailand know why this is so?

[Guest]

why would anyone inflict self pain on themselves? low self esteem.
most of these girls are young and can't imagine life after their first love dumps them. sadly some really do die