I'm in love with a ladyboy bar worker!

[sev7en]

(manarak @ Sep. 15 2009,05:32)

(sev7en @ Sep. 14 2009,20:59)

(JaiDee @ Sep. 14 2009,19:52) who took Amy out of Casanova

If you mean Amy/Pim, i´m afraid i have to spoil that lovestory. She´s been at a brothel for many years, basically right after she arrived there.

would that be the Pim you are talking about ?

Yes.

[bigmick22]

(whore @ Sep. 15 2009,08:58)  i love u narto87

Hands off, Bitch!!

[manarak]

(sev7en @ Sep. 15 2009,08:59)

(manarak @ Sep. 15 2009,05:32)

(sev7en @ Sep. 14 2009,20:59)

(JaiDee @ Sep. 14 2009,19:52) who took Amy out of Casanova

If you mean Amy/Pim, i´m afraid i have to spoil that lovestory. She´s been at a brothel for many years, basically right after she arrived there.

would that be the Pim you are talking about ?

Yes.

She's been working in this Zürich brothel for quite a long time already.
Years, in fact, maybe 5 or 6..

Reviews were very good at the beginning, don't know how she evolved though.

But the girls normally change cities every 2-3 months, so if the stays, it means shes got a work permit, so she either married a swiss woman or maybe even succeeded in getting her couple with the swiss guy recognized as a gay couple (since she didn't take the cut).

So she must have some kind of stable situation here, which could mean that she's still living with that swiss guy, even as a prostitute.
You must remember that being a prostitute is a legal occupation over here, and that there a number of prostitutes who are even married and have children.

[Holmes]

Still in Zurich doing well.  A normal life.  Problems like, "where to go to eat tonight" and "same club AGAIN?"

[Tomcat]

yeh, talk about relationships, how many guys who actually have relationships with Ladyboys and live in LOS are faithfull to the partner. I dont even need all the fingers on one hand to count this out

If the cat is away the mice are at play...there are exceptions of course
..cough.. cough....

[sev7en]

Correct. Those who married and managed to stay there coughed up some serious chf, since it was/is all just a transaction to start with.
It´s the same here.  A fake marriage is about 25 k euros.
If this one is one of the two succesful lovestories JD mentioned, i´m afraid we´re down to only one.
My point is, just like JDs, thais go there  for the money , nothing else, no matter what the old gullible falang thinks.

[Bicycle Pump]

(Tomcat @ Sep. 15 2009,23:41) yeh, talk about relationships, how many guys who actually have relationships with Ladyboys and live in LOS are faithfull to the partner...

One?

[Tomcat]

Yah.. spot on BP...

mind you, as they say, an ol Dog can still bark even though he,s chained to the house ...

[Naang Faa]

(Bicycle Pump! @ Sep. 16 2009,02:27)

(Tomcat @ Sep. 15 2009,23:41) yeh, talk about relationships, how many guys who actually have relationships with Ladyboys and live in LOS are faithfull to the partner...

One?

That was me....so we're down to zero..
x

[harley quinn]

So there

If I see you in Liverpool One I'll get you to confirm this!

[JaiDee]

wait a minute.....so the Amy love story is over?? And yes, that is the girl, the photos are nice and she is actually a very cool person.

  Holy shit.....  this is the first I have heard of it, as I say the guy who took her over there used to post here and say that all was fine; but that was a few years back.

 Wow ..... so in 10 years of covering this lifestyle and 8 years of this forum helping the punters to navigate the ins-and-outs of the Thai bar scene, we have exactly ONE foreign-exchange success story to report on, that of Kai and Jellybean in Scotland; anyone up to date on THAT deal?

   True that it's more common for guys who live in Thailand to be able to sustain a relationship with a bar girl, or even a regular Thai with a normal job; but even that is rare and in almost every instance the circumstance is more because the girl has something to gain by living with the guy, IE not working and getting out of the lifestyle, and not because she has  unending feelings of love for some guy her dads age.

  Paraphrase JFK -  "Ask not if your hooker really loves you, ask how their life becomes better by hanging out with you"  


               So, the case study in moving a girl abroad continues ..... 99.9% of the time they use some guy to get them the visa, get the plane ticket, have a place to set up a new lifestyle and meet up with Thai's in their area who have already done the same and are working already;  then the dude who is twice her age and may actually have feelings of true love for her gets dumped out like last weeks milk while she goes to sell her wares in Amsterdam, London, NYC or, in this case, Zurich!

  Repeat; buck the trend at your heart and wallets peril; stats don't lie.

[Naang Faa]

I think you're absolutely correct...
The piss-poor quality of punters on the scene are finding it difficult
to keep a girl interested...You need to shape up guys really..
x

[JaiDee]

heh heh, I am no prize myself so I can attest to that!

      I do think that younger guys in good shape {Narto, are you listening??} have a *better* chance of finding true love in the scene there, that's only natural;  but I will always be skeptical of any bar girls motives, even with the young, handsome bucks.  Love is a 2-way street in most countries, with each side bending a little..... whereas with the girls in Thailand who come to the big cities to work, their families and themselves are of course first and foremost, with us falangs and any feelings we may have waaaaaay down there on the list of importance.


  Is the original poster still reading this and contemplating moving his girl to the west even after reading this far?  One of the things that used to always frustrate me when I used to read here daily was that we would all be telling someone "DONT  DO IT'' in so many different situations, but they would still go ahead and do it!!  What's the point of asking for info and advice if they don't listen when we tell 'em something?

 As my buddy Blue Ballz once told me;  some people just have to touch the stove to see if it's really hot.

[robbo]

love is blind so therefore i let my cock be my eyes never let me down yet.being a pervert is bliss as it sheilds you from the slings and arrows of love.
i say share the love

[Guest]

I could never understand the guys who want so desperately to remove a girl from paradise, move her to some Godforsaken place which WE hate, and thing she is going to find it just peachy there because she won't have to work and only has to make her middle-aged boyfriend happy a few times a week. Funny, they think boredom will never set in and they won't miss their friends and family, natural foods and culture, and good weather I guess. But they have hopes and desires also; it may not be working in Nana Plaza for the next 10 years but despite what she may say it sure as hell ain't living in some drafty english or american home while the best years of her life pass her by either.

Very good point. Unfortunately, many farangs never understand this. Most farangs do not know how boring their lives are. Because they dislike the loud noise, the crazy crowd and the endless chaos in Asia, they actually think Asians must hate it too. Think about this - whenever an Asian city is richer or more modernized, they call it "westernized".
If you are not willing to move to Thailand with her, why would she be willing to Farang land with you? automatically assume your homeland is a better place (for her) is dead wrong. So she must have some additional "motivations". That motivations may not be in line with your wishful thinking.