WHAT do Ladyboys think about us?

[f0xxee]

Again there is no definitive answer and no right and wrong.
Ladyboylova if you are in a happy relationship with a PI ladyboy enjoy it. I lived with one in Singapore (a fairly closed minded and right wing little country I think you would agree) and enjoyed every minute of it: although it coloured me for ever against PI ladyboys for reasons that Stealth mentioned (100% ATM's.)

May I just make the following point:

Everyone keeps making the same negative argument that LB's in general are only after your money and it wont last etc. May I ask the obvious question?

PLease tell me how that makes a Thai or PI ladyboy any differnt to your average Falang GG? Hands up all the BM's who have been married, been divorced and been cleaned out? So what is the difference? Swap "Gold digging drama queen white buffalo" for LB and you have the same argument.

Cheers!

[PanzerPorn]

(f0xxee @ May 17 2009,05:42) PLease tell me how that makes a Thai or PI ladyboy any differnt to your average Falang GG?  Hands up all the BM's who have been married, been divorced and been cleaned out? So what is the difference? Swap "Gold digging drama queen white buffalo" for LB and you have the same argument.

No difference except for you finally getting out of the closet , travel 5000 miles away from the judging eyes of your hypocritical annoying neighbors and start to do it again 5000 miles away not with a "Gold digging drama queen white buffalo"but with "a pretty boy with the body of a porn star and the mind of a gay golfish" this time.

Some guys will never learn ,blinded by illusion they think they have found paradise.
At least when romance is over the economic losts are hurting you less but only if the exchange rate is still favourable and if her uncle didn't cut your head off with a machete yet.

[PanzerPorn]

(f0xxee @ May 17 2009,05:42) Everyone keeps making the same  negative argument that LB's in general are only after your money

What's negative about that?
It's just a fact of hard cold reality that i have the pleasure to enjoy as much as i can in one year time.
Belive me or not , i sympathize with the greedy, cynical,con artist ladyboys a lot more than i do for the good hearted, compassionable forum members looking for love.

[f0xxee]

Hey Panzer,

My point is the negativity... Of course they are after your money... its called Pay for Play after all. My point is that there is no difference between Falang GG's and their sisters except a degree of subtly in the extraction of the wallet.

In honesty my experience mirrors the one Stogie mentioned: More often than not I am single and loving it and shagging as much as possible, but on those RARE occassions when a keeper comes along I keep them.

As for looking for love? No non no... To look for love, to actually search for love with a ladyboy is to invite disaster.... Which was the point I made earlier. Love is not possible unless you live with them. Other than that you are most likely one of several "boyfriends" lining her nest from afar.....

[f0xxee]

(PanzerPorn @ May 17 2009,06:19) "Gold digging drama queen white buffalo"but with "a pretty boy with the body of a porn star and the mind of a gay golfish" this time.

Some guys will never learn ,blinded by illusion they think they have found paradise.

Love the "mind of a gay goldfish"... brilliant Panzer.

Yes, some people never learn that you cannot run away from yourself. They think by trading England or Australia for LOS or PI that they themselves change.

Ah, no.

A victim, a fool or a saint will be the same person regardless of the country they are in. if you didn't learn your lesson at home you may find you learn it in Asia only the consequences may be worse.

LOS just allows that personality (good or bad) to surface more readily.

[kahuna]

Well now that you two faggots have all this ladyboy love stuff sorted out, can we get back to the good stuff...Queer Clothes...

Queer clothes are not for closets...

[ladyboyluva]

(kahuna @ May 17 2009,02:31) My observation is...You asked a question, albeit a rather nebulous one, and when some very experienced guys replied,
you berated them for not agreeing with you...And you applauded those who gave you the answers you want to hear...

I hardly think I've berated everyone who didn't tell me what I wanted to hear, though I may not have been so welcoming to the type who get angry that there is a thread on their forum that they don't think is up to their high standards.

I've a feeling the cup is always 3/4 empty with you Kahuna.

[ladyboyluva]

(Stealth @ May 17 2009,02:40) To tell you honestly i am also thinking of one day to give it a tray with a Singapore or Malaysian ladyboy which i find to be the most beautifull ladyboy`s to walk the face of earth but then i will like to have a open relationship with other words i can do what ever i want to do and she can also do what ever she want to do
But we are commited to each other in the sence that i am there when she needs me and she is there when i need her.

I doubt those type of relationships would work out long time Stealth but I do understand that that many would prefer some flexibility.

Monogamy is never easy, and usually only followed out of fear rather than choice on those situations where it occurs.

For me, I'd prefer a monogamous relationship and I'm prepared to endure refusing temptations. That's partly because I don't feel wholly satisfied with sex for sex' sake and partly because I think it is an essential foundation to a rewarding relationship.

I don't think many guys here are ready for or want commitment, and maybe that is why real LTRs are rare.

I'm not trying to preach, just share my thoughts on what I think it takes to make a LTR work if that happens to be what someone wants.

For those who want to try a new LB every now or then or every day or two, it's only normal that any half smart LB is gonna think of you primarily as a client or sponsor.

[kahuna]

(ladyboyluva @ May 17 2009,09:10) I've a feeling the cup is always 3/4 empty with you Kahuna.

Your feeling is way wrong mate...You don't know me or anything about me...
Your armchair psychology is way off the mark...Moreover, IMHO you reek of immature
ignorance...BTW, my cup is always full... My advice...save your feelings for your PI GF...

Now let's get back to the serious stuff...Gay Clothes...

[ladyboyluva]

(kahuna @ May 17 2009,10:02)

(ladyboyluva @ May 17 2009,09:10) I've a feeling the cup is always 3/4 empty with you Kahuna.

Your feeling is way wrong mate...You don't know me or anything about me...
Your armchair psychology is way off the mark...Moreover, IMHO you reek of immature
ignorance...BTW, my cup is always full... My advice...save your feelings for your PI GF...

Now let's get back to the serious stuff...Gay Clothes...

Sure, go start your own thread instead of muddying this one with insults.

[kahuna]

No thanks...I much prefer to muddy up yours...

Where are the insults?

[f0xxee]

Gay clothes? wot, like black leather chaps? Worn backward?

[ladyboyluva]

(kahuna @ May 17 2009,10:35) No thanks...I much prefer to muddy up yours...

Where are the insults?

'reeking of immature ignorance' is an example.

Anyway, I don't mind you having a bit of a laugh or even if you think I'm a misguided fool.

I've as much interest in forum warring as I do in bar room brawling. i.e. None. But I don't mind saying what is on my mind and standing up for myself to a degree.

It takes all types to make a community and that is fine with me, and I appreciate all honest attempts here to provide advice along the lines of my enquiry.

Of course I will not listen though, coz I'm a stubborn headed mule who will only really learn from my mistakes...and even then I'll learn slowly. All those lessons learned from watching Neighbours are not gonna wash away overnight

[PanzerPorn]

ladyboyluva style VS Panzer style in treating their gay partners

[f0xxee]

You watched Neighbors?

Home and Away is far superior....

Look if you only ever see LB's from a P4P angle then that is how you will see them, treat them and react to them. If you are looking for a relationship then you will look at them from a different angle. Kahuna, Panzer and Robbo view the iceberg from one side Ladyboylova, you view it from another. Still the same iceberg.

And I use the iceberg analogy because ladyboys, like every person who ever breathed show about 10% of who we really are.

If you are after advice Ladyboylova you got it from the guys. They are warning you, that no matter how much you might love Miss PI that she is a ladyboy and you should be careful (in their own robust fashion.)

I am telling you that you can love a LB,... but not from afar unless you want a nightmare, and that even the most hard hearted whores do fall in love at a time of thier own choosing.

There you go.