Bar girls are Prostitutes...

[Stogie]

I always seem to go for the interns...

[Ninewives]

(JaiDee @ Apr. 12 2009,01:10)        Pre-planning is even worse; making a list of girls to screw or contacting 'em in advance is the absolute WORST way to go about a trip to Thailand, and in my opinion staying with one girl for more than a few hours is as well.  It oftentimes leads to someone getting emotionally attached and that always ends in disaster.

 

You are right Jaidee, preparing a list doesn't work and planning goes straight out the window as soon as you arrive, however for some I imagine it would build the anticipation.

I am no stranger to the P4P LB scene. I go to Bangkok & Pattaya on average 3 times per year for circa 10 days per trip. Added to that a handful of 2 to 3 day 'in transit stopovers' whilst on a business trip. Whilst I have a few favorites I like to stay aloof.

I mostly go short time, I never use a short time room, sometimes I like the girl to stay overnight, and a few times I will have the same girl twice in the one trip and often again on other trips. But the target for 10 nights is 10 gorgeous Ladyboys.

In the context of your post I agree with your point about staying with a girl for more than a few hours. The reality is the quick fuck before sending them on their way, whilst better for the sleeping and recovery patterns, it leaves me feeling like.................... ah the crux of the topic!

[seamus]

To each his own, yes they are working girls, so fecking wot . I have done the ST, as many as you can do in & fortnight thing, I have also so spent days with a couple. Enjoyed both, ok if I was with a girl a few days I didnt like, the no fun at all. But I'm not going to come on here & tell you wots right & wots wrong, thats up to each of us to decide ourselves. Wot works for one, may not work for the next guy.

Just go out & enjoy guys, anyway "YOU" think fit.

[Guest]

Few weeks ago I would also object to statement that my favorite bar girl I consider my Thai LB GF is a prostitute, she is after all so nice, she loves me and me only, I€™m special to her, but...

As soon as I told her I'll return to Thailand to her she saw that her €œwalking ATM€ will be back and her messages totally changed. Instead of 1-2 very personal messages per day I receive 1-2 messages per week without anything important inside, just to protect her investment €“ for her to be sure I'll be back to her and bring my European money to finance her Thai family. Sad but true.

BR

p.s.
She doesn€™t know I€™ll only be with her for 4 days and next two weeks in Pattaya leaving my money to other girls. God, how I love Thailand.

[azza33]

Guys get hold of Confessions of a Bangkok Private Eye -  its a great read and you can gain some insight how into how conniving these Thai bargirls really are  

Love his definition of a Thai bargirl: cunning as a fox, mind of a goldfish  

[seamus]

 Is it just Thai's or people in 3rd world countrys in general !

Most Orientals (asians) only think about today !

[thaibound]

trying to convince a lonely man *not* to fall in love with a beautiful girl who makes him incredibly happy is inevitably futile. i recommend go at it the other way. go ahead and fall in love. just be sure you do it every day -- with someone new.

[robbo]

[JaiDee]

(Ninewives @ Apr. 12 2009,09:49) In the context of your post I agree with your point about staying with a girl for more than a few hours. The reality is the quick fuck before sending them on their way, whilst better for the sleeping and recovery patterns, it leaves me feeling like.......... ah the crux of the topic!

Remember though, we all have different tastes and opinions, which again is why message boards like this one are interesting to read.

 Some guys WANT to fall in love, which is cool even if you and I DON'T want that.  And for sure they can get that, hell it's easy to fall in love with a cute young person who is treating you so well. They should just know going in that ''relationships'' started on, and then based solely on, sexual gratification and ego boosting are usually doomed for failure and will end up leaving the guy bewildered and hurt.  The LB? well, usually juggling 4 or 5 guys in the same manner at the same time as well as a local boyfriend leaves them free from emotional attachments, unlike her falang suitors.

         Also Ninewives, while you and I prefer short times and keeping our bed to ourselves [I sleep alone for about 350 days per year, having someone else in it for the other 15 feels very odd] many guys can't wait to get to Thailand to share their beds with some small Asian body for a week or 3;  they may be lonely back in whatever hellhole they come from and can't wait for that intimacy.  Again, to each his own, just be careful not to fall for these professional heart-pullers.

 I like Thaibounds idea, actually  

[bigmick22]

(JaiDee @ Apr. 12 2009,14:36)  I like Thaibounds idea, actually  

Thaibound is a very wise man (and I don't just mean old)

[JaiDee]

yups, we've met before, one of the better lads I have had the pleasure of meeting from here.

It wasn't too long ago that he was originally "thaibound" and arrived on the scene all wide-eyed and excited, walking into the Penthouse hotel pool room full of curiousity and couldn't wait to dive head- first into the LB scene.

and now; just a regular ol' pro like the rest of us

[bigmick22]

we're pros, the girls are pros .... everybody's a pro!!!!

Yaaayyy - group hug

[seanbeag7]

(bangkoksins @ Apr. 10 2009,10:15) Stephen Leather's book Private Dancer

I just got a paperback version here in Ireland, it costs 24.99 euro, and don't bother with eason's as they don't like stocking it.

good read and i found it interesting.

[bigmick22]

I got it for free on t'internet

[seanbeag7]

I tried to print out the book from a pdf file but then book is easier to handle.