Reasons for ending a LTR with a LB

[newwriter]

I've no experience with a Thai lb gf but, for my sins, have a few days business related in Manila next week and am meeting a local girl I've chatted with on and off recently. Already beginning to regret the amount of scrutiny I'm under.

It feels like lb's know what lying bastards men are and thus have their antennae for competition up constantly.

[Stogie]

Don't worry, it only seems kinky the first time...

(Signature for Newwriter)

If that's true it hardly seems worth doing a second time!

[newwriter]

This will be the first time. I'll apply the rule thereafter.

[Looker]

(electric ladyboyland @ Feb. 14 2009,22:00)  I'm talking about how to tell the new one why I left the last one  

Same same..but different!!

[Looker]

(dummy_plug @ Feb. 14 2009,22:18) LB's seem to have an unusually intense curiousity for why you left your ex, especially if they were an LB. Insecurity issues? Hmm... I've never had a single GG care about why I left my ex.

Sorry DP but I don't know which GGs you've been dating

Me, after 25 years of dating Asian women and LBs can say that for GGs as much as LBs, if not more, it is the first thing are asking about you together with the omnipresent "When was the last time you had sex?"..read: "How many sex partners do you have?" AND/OR "Do you fuck around much?"

So, getting asked "Why did you leave your last g/f?"..read.."Are you a mean bastard that will dump me after you fuck me?" it's very very very standard question.

[Looker]

(robbo @ Feb. 15 2009,02:08) i think the answer to this one is to tell her your just not GAY anymore.

Yeah..telling that you only like WOMEN WITH PUSSY.
You'll infuriate her but a good scissor effect

[electric ladyboyland]

Hope I don't get caught writing this...

Well there something in all those replies, but I'm liking the denial approach...Rumsfeld style That has always worked for me in the past on other topics..

Thanks for the elocution lession too...

So Looker, what do you answer, especially when they see the photo collection It's all in the name of Art is it ?

[Looker]

All for the sake of art, electric

[abba]

Answers to the original post:

"It was the best of times; it was the worst of times."

"I was different before."

"I have changed since then."

(If you believe what you are saying, that is usually a plus.)


But if you read the previous posts, there is at least one of them, that seems to be above the rest.

[electric ladyboyland]

(abba @ Feb. 15 2009,10:53) "It was the best of times; it was the worst of times."

Actually, that's not a bad option.. Give an answer thats sounds like an oration by Winston Churchill.

"Never has one man suffered so hard, for so long for so little. There comes a tide in the affairs of men and LBs ....blah blah blah.."

Guaranteed she'll regret ever having brought up the ex... [I]

[batman4ever]

every times i got that question about why i stopped with my ex....my answer is always the same....


because she asked to much.....

[Socrates999]

I always say the same thing..."She lied to me".

Serves 2 purposes.

#1: She knows it is true >99% of the time.

#2: Fair warning

[ohnoriceagain]

Still on my first LB gf but had plenty before

It is a question that pops up all the time. I tend to say "we just grew apart but we still remain friends."

Half truth but better than saying "I just couldn't stand her anymore." which is the full truth, well, concerning the last one. The last one hung on way too long as the friends bit until after almost 3 years. I think she finally got the message that those times were good, but those were just the times. I honestly have a hard time being mean to someone that I once had feelings for.

Another good reply is 'well, it was mutual, people break up all the time."

Life goes on, happens everyday.

[electric ladyboyland]

(Socrates999 @ Feb. 15 2009,15:33) I always say the same thing..."She lied to me".

Serves 2 purposes.

#1: She knows it is true >99% of the time.

#2: Fair warning

That's my old standby

Nice avatar Socrates

Agreed ohnorice..in an ideal world but sometimes these girls just won't let it go

[TEXASMAC]

Say that the ex dumped you.